cannman11
New Member
This topic has been discussed a couple times before, but my situation is slightly different so I figured I'd ask:
I have been going out with a girl for about 8 months now, except the last month I havent really seen her. I'm in my freshman year of college, and she's still a senior in high school. (Stupid to stay with her I know). She was great when we were home, so I figured I'd try it for a little while. We never fought, got along really well, so I didn't break up with her when I left.
Things were going ok, as I have friends back home who said they would update me in case she cheated, which she didn't, at least until possibly now.
Last Saturday was both hers and my Homecoming, except mine was at college and hers was at home. She went with one of my friends, so everything there was cool. She told me she was going to a party after, which I didn't care cause I wasn't going to try to control her life. Turns out she went to one with people who I didn't know.
One of my sister's friends, who is a grade younger than my girlfriend was also at the party. She told my sister, who told me, that she saw my girlfriend hooking up with another guy at the party. I have talked to my girlfriend twice since that night, and nothing of the sort has come up.
I don't want to next her right away based on what a younger girl who I don't know told my sister, so what would be the best way to go about talking with my girlfriend to figure out exactly what happened? If after talking to her I have the slightest belief that she cheated, I will next her but I want to see her side of the story first.
So, what exactly should I say to her?
Thanks
I have been going out with a girl for about 8 months now, except the last month I havent really seen her. I'm in my freshman year of college, and she's still a senior in high school. (Stupid to stay with her I know). She was great when we were home, so I figured I'd try it for a little while. We never fought, got along really well, so I didn't break up with her when I left.
Things were going ok, as I have friends back home who said they would update me in case she cheated, which she didn't, at least until possibly now.
Last Saturday was both hers and my Homecoming, except mine was at college and hers was at home. She went with one of my friends, so everything there was cool. She told me she was going to a party after, which I didn't care cause I wasn't going to try to control her life. Turns out she went to one with people who I didn't know.
One of my sister's friends, who is a grade younger than my girlfriend was also at the party. She told my sister, who told me, that she saw my girlfriend hooking up with another guy at the party. I have talked to my girlfriend twice since that night, and nothing of the sort has come up.
I don't want to next her right away based on what a younger girl who I don't know told my sister, so what would be the best way to go about talking with my girlfriend to figure out exactly what happened? If after talking to her I have the slightest belief that she cheated, I will next her but I want to see her side of the story first.
So, what exactly should I say to her?
Thanks