Help with Girl

[loveshogun]

I still think your relationship is on the rocks. When a woman tells you that you're too emotional...man....that's just a kick in the balls.

Not to sound cold or add insult to injury... but if a woman tells a man he's too emotional, what balls are there to kick?

OP, you are 20 years old, according to your profile. My advice to you is this:

Get your act together for when you get out of school, because it's a big world out there and the "love" you're referring to ain't gonna keep you fed. Remember that.

Finally, Love Shogun's thoughts on "Love":

There are two kinds of love. The kind that people say out loud, and the kind that people show. One of them is more important - if you have to think about which one, prepare for the cold hard hand of reality to pimp-slap you something awful.

 

[Pierce]

Now her ass say I'm underemotional....... Im like WTF. I learned my damn lesson. I am not going to be nothing related to emotion.

 

[Pierce]

So this girl got me a 20$ parking ticket the other day. She said she was gonna pay me the money for it this weekend when her mom gives her money. Then today she asks me if I need that 20$ because she wants to go to one of her old friends birthday party and needs money for that. I told her to do whatever she wants. So it seems she is choosing to go to her friends party instead of paying me back this weekend for the ticket.

Now I'm thinking of breaking up with her because of this ****. Because every week I get paid and I budget it for food for us (because she does not make any sort of income). I even let her drive my car. I drive her to class everyday even though I may not have class at the same time. I spent 40$ the other day to get her hair done. There has never been a time in a while that I have gotten money and not helped her out a little bit.

I feel sad because she FINALLY gets money and she is leaning towards going out with her friends rather then paying for the PARKING TICKET she got me. Wouldn't it be natural reaction to lean toward the ticket that you got in the person you love's car?

 

[Kailex]

Pierce:

This thread has been in existence since July. You tell me. Should you dump her? If after 4 months, you have loads of issues with this one "girl", why are you still with her? If after all you've done for her...(in your own words)... if she can't choose to pay you back as a priority, then why are you still with her?

Do you think the situation is ever going to get better any time soon?

First date of this thread is in MONTH #7... July.
We are in mid-November.

At this point, anything that she does is YOUR fault, for putting up with it.

And why are you giving her money to get her hair done? Tell her to get a job and pay for it herself. Of course, you fork over the money and she can't do the same? She is DISRESPECTING you. But you know what's worse? You are disrespecting YOURSELF by allowing this to continue.

She doesn't see you as a man in her eyes and it'll be only a matter of time before she finds someone who WILL stand up to her and call her out on what she is doing.

I think it's time you started dating multiple women and STOPPED seeing just this one person. You're young anyway, why are you in an LTR?

And to answer your question:

Wouldn't it be natural reaction to lean toward the ticket that you got in the person you love's car?


- Yes, it'd be a natural reaction to lean toward the ticket - For a man or a woman who has high enough IL and respects you. People with a sense of honor, with common sense, and with high enough respect towards your person, would definitely find the quickest way to pay you back. Your g/f obviously isn't any of this.

 

[blueline]

Dump her now, dude. Sure it will sting a bit for a few weeks, but you will truly be happy with yourself when your mind clear and you realize what a **** she was.

 

[Iceberg]

Ugh. Dump her, keep her. Do what you wanna do. Just stop talking about her. This stopped being interesting months ago.

 

[pipe007]

another weak pathetic chump whose girl calls the shots, and he gives the girl money so she can do her hair to go out with her girlfriends and party while he is at home counting the bills and paying parking tickets she left him...

lmao!!!! that's all I gotta say.

this guy does not understand male female dynamics, nor has he read the DJ bible.

you deserve to be cheated on and dumped at this point, this thread has been going on since July.