Help With Closing This HB9? Is There A Chance?

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First things first I'm not really interested in this girl I'm just using her to work on my text game as I'm not much of a big texter so it's just a bit of fun and possibly getting a quick f-close out of it if the opportunity presents itself.

So I met this girl in the club and grinded on her etc and got her number at the end of the night. I'd say she's probably around a HB9 and she definitely turned heads at each club we walked in to. Men were envying me:crackup:

So we were talking for a bit by text and I asked her what day she was next free and she said:

HB: You'd be very lucky
Me: I just thought you might be lonely since your boring ass doesn't get out the house much so me being the great guy I am was going to do you a favor
HB: Actually for your information I choose to not go out on my own accord and oh so you're a great guy ay what was that favor you were going to do for me then mr amazing?
Me: Ok if that helps you sleep at night loner and you know you're not finding out anything until you tell me when you're free
HB: Umm idk about this. I'm not too sure I'm really busy for the next for the next 2/3 weeks you have to be book me in advance sorry

See the problem is I'm flying out of town until the summer in a couple of weeks so I really need to close this preferably before the end of the week. What text should I send next to get her out?
 
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Yeah right you're not interested in her.

tell me, how much disrespect would you be willing to put up with if you really were interested in someone?

Dash this one. Any interest she might have had (that she responded shows there was interest) diminished with every response you gave. She's testing to see how desperate you are and right now you're coming across desperate by responding and feeding her disrespect.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
Yeah right you're not interested in her.

tell me, how much disrespect would you be willing to put up with if you really were interested in someone?

Dash this one. Any interest she might have had (that she responded shows there was interest) diminished with every response you gave. She's testing to see how desperate you are and right now you're coming across desperate by responding and feeding her disrespect.
You're right. I am interested in her in the way that I feel she's attractive but right now I definitely wouldn't enter a relationship or any serious dating since I'm moving out of town soon. I'm looking for fun and trying to work on my text game in the process.

This is a girl that's contacting me, I am not chasing her. So since she wants to talk I figured I'd work my game on her. I honestly do not care whether she rejects me or not since I will most likely never see this girl again, if something comes out of it then that's great but if it doesn't then it's whatever.
 

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Cool. Then forget about her. It's your best move.
 

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So much desperation to get these women out in a short amount of time. When you don't have the interest/value for their interests they make excuses to see you. She's basically telling you she does't want to go out. Let it go she's not interested. Otherwise she would go in a minute if she really wanted to.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Two people trying to out-do each other in the "im so busy and unavailable and disinterested" game.. Makes for some horribly lame conversation.

Ask her out, and move on.
 

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If a guy friend told you he was busy for the next 3 weeks how would you reply?

What she said is pretty disrespectful. It's pretty much exactly what you'd expect from an HB9. She is being bombarded with invitations for c0ck. You need to do something special to get her attention. It doesn't even fcking blip in her radar.

YOU MUST GET HER ATTENTION.

One way to do that is to play the abrasive narcissistic cvnt.

You need to be prepared to show you are prepared to throw it all away and don't give a fvck about her and that you have 20 more girls like her. Push her away from you. The RSD guys use things like "slvt", "dog" to do that. It's something that's hard to fake in real life but can be done over text.

For that particular message:
1) "WTF"
2) Fake a breakup: It's OK.. I still think you're a wonderful person, it was nice meeting you, it's nothing personal it's not you it's me, I have some great friends I can introduce you to ...please make it as painless as possible to get over the deep affection I have for you, I hope one day we can be friends but it may take me months to get over you.

RSD Julien would probably reply with "Haha..such a slut".
 

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I think I may have over exaggerated a little bit lol, I don't NEED to close her it would just be nice if I could make it possible. I've never met a girl that goes C+F on me and tries to bust my balls so I'm actually at a loss about what to say lol. She's definitely a girl that knows she's attractive. The reason I think there's actually something to gain here is that a couple of my friends have gone for her in the past and have been straight up rejected, she seems to be a bit more warm with me...just an observation.
 

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Hardly sounds worth it to me. Spending time on a b!tch who thinks her sh!t smells like roses doesn't sound like much fun.

I see ****y. I don't see funny. I think she was talking in her actual snotty tone.
 

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SouthSection said:
- First things first I'm not really interested in this girl I'm just using her to work on my text game
- possibly getting a quick f-close out of it if the opportunity presents itself.
Bro why would you waste your time and energy to have sex with someone you are not interested in?

So we were talking for a bit by text and I asked her what day she was next free
When you ask a girl, "what day are you free?" It tells her you are having to do other than to wait for her to not be busy. Doesn't add to your value.

HB: You'd be very lucky
Me: I just thought you might be lonely since your boring ass doesn't get out the house much so me being the great guy I am was going to do you a favor
Bro in my opinion this isn't turning her on. You are telling her she is a loser because she is staying at home and you will do her a favor by taking her out. You insulted her and then complimented yourself.

HB: Actually for your information I choose to not go out on my own accord and oh so you're a great guy ay what was that favor you were going to do for me then mr amazing?
Me: Ok if that helps you sleep at night loner and you know you're not finding out anything until you tell me when you're free
Oh man bro. I don't know much about text game but instead of saying "I'm going to send a limo to pick you up and there will gifts in the back seat.", you insult her again. I don't know how you think calling her names turns her on.

HB: Umm idk about this. I'm not too sure I'm really busy for the next for the next 2/3 weeks you have to be book me in advance sorry

See the problem is I'm flying out of town until the summer in a couple of weeks so I really need to close this preferably before the end of the week. What text should I send next to get her out?
First bro don't insult her. Ask for a simple date and take her somewhere cool or cook dinner for her or something. Don't spin words or try to say anything fancy, they will see right through you. ;)
 

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Oh man bro. I don't know much about text game but instead of saying "I'm going to send a limo to pick you up and there will gifts in the back seat.", you insult her again. I don't know how you think calling her names turns her on.
You certainly don't know much about text game, especially for the hotter girls.
 

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I don't mind the abrasive ****y text game at play here. It shows you are confident and not afraid to upset her. Women like her love that shyt.
I'd reply with: "2-3 weeks? How about you cancel whatever lame shyt you had planned and meet me on ???? I can pretend to be fascinated by your life story and you can drink way too much."
 
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