help with a girl

[gijoe]

hey guys. i go to a very small school(150 kids) and am/was kind of talking to this senior(i'm a junior). we have one class together. we were talking for about a month and everything seemed to be going good and then i just heard from someone she was talking to another guy from another school. we still talk but not as much. advice?????

 

[Triple T]

i just heard from someone she was talking to another guy from another school.

...your point is?

Who cares if she talks to another guy? It means NOTHING. Don't over-analyze every situation and think your chances are ruined because she... *GASP*...spoke to another male human being!

Like really, I'm sorry if it was kind of harsh but honestly, why do people like you worry about the dumbest things? :nono:
Its been bugging me for so long.


All you gotta do is keep talking to her, make her laugh, tease her! Read the DJ bible and APPLY APPLY APPLY! Flirt with other girls, don't focus just on one person. Theres plenty of other fish in the sea.

However, don't read TOO MUCH. The bible is just a general guideline. Just get out there, experience everything first hand, and you'll learn oh so much more than reading some article on the internet!

Good luck bro.
Remember, don't over-analyze everything a girl does...EVER!

 

[gijoe]

thanks for the help. and by me saying "talking" to another guy, i meant they have been hanging out together and stuff, like me and her lol

 

[Triple T]

thanks for the help. and by me saying "talking" to another guy, i meant they have been hanging out together and stuff, like me and her lol

oh okay
Well you should be chilling with other girls too man

The fact that your a junior hanging out with a senior chick is pretty sweet! Good job!

So you must be doing something right, just keep doing what your doing, BUT amp it up abit and you and her might get somewhere
Like I said, read the bible and then apply it.

Good luck bro!

 

[gijoe]

when u say amp it up, what u mean? oh yeah. it's pretty sweet. when ppl ask me if we are kind of "talking" they all act surprised.

 

[gijoe]

so now she's kind of losing interest. how should i escalate?

 

[Daniel1099]

bro....

FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS.

dont act like shes the only one.

your probably scaring her off.

do you drive??

if so...take some girl friends out on a night, play some pool, go to the hookah bar. hang out. take some pictures, post them on myspace.

show the world that ur a fun guy.

then text her like ONCE in a while to see whats goin on and if she wants to kick it.

just be a fun guy, that can flirt with other girls....

dont tell her to much to fast.

be confident.

DONT ASK HER ANYTHING.

tell her what you want.

"me and my friends are goin to the movies, you should come" - GOOD

"Wana go to the movies with me" - BAD

BE IN CONTROL

 

[gijoe]

lol i do flirt with other girls, and she definitely sees lol

 

[Daniel1099]

if she liked you, she would be jealouse and want to get ur attention.

ur either being the AFC...or she plainly doesnt like you, or something that you have done, or are doing


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