I'm 15, and I've never been on a date.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a weirdo, geek, or freak, and I've had experience with women in groups, mostly through one of my friends, who always seemed to dominate over me with women. I'm an average looking guy, but I know that had nothing to do with it.
I feel like a real loser, to be honest.
I feel completely out of it, and left behind.
I don't even KNOW where to start with becoming a DJ, or even just learning to talk to women.
I read the article here "Why Very Intelligent Men Fail With Women", and I've never read something that so applied to me. I'm a really smart guy, and that fact hurts rather than helps me with women. My memory is my strongest suit, and I spend a lot of time simply observing people. I watch other people ( and of course beautiful women )and try to learn what makes other guys just so much naturally better, and me such a flop. Needless to say, this is the one thing in my life I've never figured out.
Ever since the boys and girls starting getting together, in 6th grade, I've never felt like a part of it. All through the years in between, I've had girls like me, and me have crushes on girls, but I've never truly acted on anything. I'm in 10th grade now, and I need to start.
Its like failing a grade, but instead of being held back, you continue on. Everyone else gets better at it, but you never do. Most of all, you have no opportunity to learn what you missed.
I used be very fearful of talking to women. I'm a lot less scared now, but I still imagine all sorts of nightmare scenarios to get me out of the need to face reality.
I'm now entirely sick of my predicament, and decided that it was time for me to get into the real world.
I need help, some serious help.
It would be greatly appreciated.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a weirdo, geek, or freak, and I've had experience with women in groups, mostly through one of my friends, who always seemed to dominate over me with women. I'm an average looking guy, but I know that had nothing to do with it.
I feel like a real loser, to be honest.
I feel completely out of it, and left behind.
I don't even KNOW where to start with becoming a DJ, or even just learning to talk to women.
I read the article here "Why Very Intelligent Men Fail With Women", and I've never read something that so applied to me. I'm a really smart guy, and that fact hurts rather than helps me with women. My memory is my strongest suit, and I spend a lot of time simply observing people. I watch other people ( and of course beautiful women )and try to learn what makes other guys just so much naturally better, and me such a flop. Needless to say, this is the one thing in my life I've never figured out.
Ever since the boys and girls starting getting together, in 6th grade, I've never felt like a part of it. All through the years in between, I've had girls like me, and me have crushes on girls, but I've never truly acted on anything. I'm in 10th grade now, and I need to start.
Its like failing a grade, but instead of being held back, you continue on. Everyone else gets better at it, but you never do. Most of all, you have no opportunity to learn what you missed.
I used be very fearful of talking to women. I'm a lot less scared now, but I still imagine all sorts of nightmare scenarios to get me out of the need to face reality.
I'm now entirely sick of my predicament, and decided that it was time for me to get into the real world.
I need help, some serious help.
It would be greatly appreciated.