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Hey,
I've been actively reading these forums for the past few months now, in an attempt to learn, and now for the first time, I do need help. I have made an account to ask one question. That question is do I ask a girl to a concert. Simple as that, but now I know I need advice more then ever.
I could write an essay on this girl and myself, but I'm just going to keep it as simple as possible, but with the most important details involved (of course), and see what the geniuses here can make of them.
Here's the situation, there's a girl I like, I am not sure if she likes me back, although I think I should by now. A Foo Fighters date is going to be announced in my city in a matter of days, with tickets going on sale in about a week. I'd need to ask her this week so I can get a pair of tickets.
Let's start from the begining, November of last year. She was the nicest girl to me, in the whole school. Many small signals spread out across a few months, giving me more attention, doing nice things for me, ALWAYS saying hi to me in front of anyone like clockwork. Then I'd give her signs back. She is one of the most popular girls, but she's never had a boyfriend. You'd think she would by now but maybe she's not that type of girl. We are in Grade 10.
On Valentines Day I told her she could keep a drawing I made as a Valentines, and she took it fast. This was in art class (the only class I see her, I occasionally go to the art room in my spare). She seemed nervous, but it didn't seem like a good type of nervousness in the moment.
Although, the next day she said hi to me when we passed in the halls, and she sat right beside me outside at lunch, and I was sitting farther away from the group. (on a small side note I do remember her always saying she was cold, I think she wanted my sweater but I didn't realize that back then). That's probably the most substantial thing that's happened, the card.
About a month ago she said she needed a shirt for PE in our art class, and another guy wasn't keen on giving her one (a guy who is one of her closest friends, but obviously, strictly friends, and everyone knows that). I told her I had a shirt, so she accepted. Not seeming so excited, but that could have been a good thing. As it turned out I didn't have a shirt in my locker, so I offered the one on my back. She took it, seemed in a rush to get going which made sense. As it turned out, she never wore the shirt, she got one from a girl. From my point of view, the shirt was big. I'd say at this poiint in time, or maybe in April, she stopped saying hi to me like clockwork. Things died down in art, she used to ALWAYS ask me for help with art. I am a good artist, almost wish I wasn't.
So in the upcoming weeks, she was still nice to me. Then I didnt see her for weeks, and then everything died down. She was almost ignoring me whenever I saw her again. I liked her Facebook profile picture, she gave me attention the day after, but again after that day, nothing.
There are about 5 other guys in my grade that I know like her. Guy A-B-C-D-E and F. Guy A being probably the best looking, highest social skills, F being the bottom of that list, being in the friend zone etc. I'd say I'm the B or C. My conversation skills arent the greatest, I'd say that's my weak point. Now she seems to be in the friend zone with every guy, including A, and I think that'd be the case with me, except we've never hung out, so despite the fact I've known her for so long, I don't think the friend zone applies here with me really. She's so kind to me (or was really kind to me). Anyway she apparently she got with boy F at a party (drunk, this is the 2nd or 3rd time shes ever to been to a party apparently, I for one, dont go to parties (strict parents)).
She treats every guy the same, including me. So it is really hard to tell if she's just being nice to me like she is to the other guys or if she actually likes me. Some days I think there's definitely something special, others I think there's a 0% chance she likes me. Then again some days I think she must think I couldn't like her, and vice versa.
The concert, do I ask? How do I ask? There's nothing to lose, but really, do I really want to go with this girl? Yes, but do I? Does she even like me, etc. I think it's a matter of execution really.
How to pull it off. I've displayed so many different personalites towards her in the past several months.
OK, so she likes the Foo Fighters. I lent her the new record, which she has had for weeks, and she told me last week she wasnt stealing it and she still needed to hear all the songs. Which is weird, for a number of reasons, but atleast this is a conversation topic. I really want to see the Foos, they're my favorite band besides GNR.
Next Monday the concert date is announced, last period is art. There are other guys and girls in art who are friends with her, so it might be tricky to talk to her alone. PLus the fact I haven't talked to her in weeks, except for occasional eye contact and like a question or to here and there. It's just died down almost completely.
What would you guys do, and how. I spend a lot of time thinking about this, and now would like some guidance. Ask any questions you'd like, and honestly, thank you if you help me out.
-Mike
I've been actively reading these forums for the past few months now, in an attempt to learn, and now for the first time, I do need help. I have made an account to ask one question. That question is do I ask a girl to a concert. Simple as that, but now I know I need advice more then ever.
I could write an essay on this girl and myself, but I'm just going to keep it as simple as possible, but with the most important details involved (of course), and see what the geniuses here can make of them.
Here's the situation, there's a girl I like, I am not sure if she likes me back, although I think I should by now. A Foo Fighters date is going to be announced in my city in a matter of days, with tickets going on sale in about a week. I'd need to ask her this week so I can get a pair of tickets.
Let's start from the begining, November of last year. She was the nicest girl to me, in the whole school. Many small signals spread out across a few months, giving me more attention, doing nice things for me, ALWAYS saying hi to me in front of anyone like clockwork. Then I'd give her signs back. She is one of the most popular girls, but she's never had a boyfriend. You'd think she would by now but maybe she's not that type of girl. We are in Grade 10.
On Valentines Day I told her she could keep a drawing I made as a Valentines, and she took it fast. This was in art class (the only class I see her, I occasionally go to the art room in my spare). She seemed nervous, but it didn't seem like a good type of nervousness in the moment.
Although, the next day she said hi to me when we passed in the halls, and she sat right beside me outside at lunch, and I was sitting farther away from the group. (on a small side note I do remember her always saying she was cold, I think she wanted my sweater but I didn't realize that back then). That's probably the most substantial thing that's happened, the card.
About a month ago she said she needed a shirt for PE in our art class, and another guy wasn't keen on giving her one (a guy who is one of her closest friends, but obviously, strictly friends, and everyone knows that). I told her I had a shirt, so she accepted. Not seeming so excited, but that could have been a good thing. As it turned out I didn't have a shirt in my locker, so I offered the one on my back. She took it, seemed in a rush to get going which made sense. As it turned out, she never wore the shirt, she got one from a girl. From my point of view, the shirt was big. I'd say at this poiint in time, or maybe in April, she stopped saying hi to me like clockwork. Things died down in art, she used to ALWAYS ask me for help with art. I am a good artist, almost wish I wasn't.
So in the upcoming weeks, she was still nice to me. Then I didnt see her for weeks, and then everything died down. She was almost ignoring me whenever I saw her again. I liked her Facebook profile picture, she gave me attention the day after, but again after that day, nothing.
There are about 5 other guys in my grade that I know like her. Guy A-B-C-D-E and F. Guy A being probably the best looking, highest social skills, F being the bottom of that list, being in the friend zone etc. I'd say I'm the B or C. My conversation skills arent the greatest, I'd say that's my weak point. Now she seems to be in the friend zone with every guy, including A, and I think that'd be the case with me, except we've never hung out, so despite the fact I've known her for so long, I don't think the friend zone applies here with me really. She's so kind to me (or was really kind to me). Anyway she apparently she got with boy F at a party (drunk, this is the 2nd or 3rd time shes ever to been to a party apparently, I for one, dont go to parties (strict parents)).
She treats every guy the same, including me. So it is really hard to tell if she's just being nice to me like she is to the other guys or if she actually likes me. Some days I think there's definitely something special, others I think there's a 0% chance she likes me. Then again some days I think she must think I couldn't like her, and vice versa.
The concert, do I ask? How do I ask? There's nothing to lose, but really, do I really want to go with this girl? Yes, but do I? Does she even like me, etc. I think it's a matter of execution really.
How to pull it off. I've displayed so many different personalites towards her in the past several months.
OK, so she likes the Foo Fighters. I lent her the new record, which she has had for weeks, and she told me last week she wasnt stealing it and she still needed to hear all the songs. Which is weird, for a number of reasons, but atleast this is a conversation topic. I really want to see the Foos, they're my favorite band besides GNR.
Next Monday the concert date is announced, last period is art. There are other guys and girls in art who are friends with her, so it might be tricky to talk to her alone. PLus the fact I haven't talked to her in weeks, except for occasional eye contact and like a question or to here and there. It's just died down almost completely.
What would you guys do, and how. I spend a lot of time thinking about this, and now would like some guidance. Ask any questions you'd like, and honestly, thank you if you help me out.
-Mike
) instead of worrying about single girls. This comment you made was pretty weak lol
