First post for a long time lurker! 
Two part question: I'll keep this short. There is a girl that goes to my sunday school (not religious; extra credit) that I have my eye on. We sit beside each other and I make her laugh and generally have a good time. I plan on asking her for a date, this weekend if possible. To tell the truth, I think my odds of getting a 'yes' are very good. However....
My problem is that I do not know if she sees me just as a friend or as a potential boyfriend. Even if she does say yes, she may see this as a 'hanging out with friend' thing. While she does show certain signs of interest, she doesn't show others. Is it good if she speaks with her female friends (to which she has introduced me) more comfortably and often? As a counterpoint, she goes to an all girls school and is slightly shy. Also, she has my phone number but has never called (don't have hers, should've asked). Bonus point: she doesn't use me as an emotional tampon. I'll fill in other details if needed.
Before you guys go overboard: I don't necessarily want you guys to asess my situation; All I'm asking is how can I tell for myself. Of course, if you guys want to tell me, go ahead.
My second part of the question, where can I go for a date? I don't want to go to the movies, it seems to cliche. Have any good ideas that would work for a highschooler that doesn't drive?
Here's how it's going to roll:
cubed: Have you ever been to _______/I'm going to _______ on _______.
her: ___________________.
cubed: Why don't you come with me?
her: sure
Two part question: I'll keep this short. There is a girl that goes to my sunday school (not religious; extra credit) that I have my eye on. We sit beside each other and I make her laugh and generally have a good time. I plan on asking her for a date, this weekend if possible. To tell the truth, I think my odds of getting a 'yes' are very good. However....
My problem is that I do not know if she sees me just as a friend or as a potential boyfriend. Even if she does say yes, she may see this as a 'hanging out with friend' thing. While she does show certain signs of interest, she doesn't show others. Is it good if she speaks with her female friends (to which she has introduced me) more comfortably and often? As a counterpoint, she goes to an all girls school and is slightly shy. Also, she has my phone number but has never called (don't have hers, should've asked). Bonus point: she doesn't use me as an emotional tampon. I'll fill in other details if needed.
Before you guys go overboard: I don't necessarily want you guys to asess my situation; All I'm asking is how can I tell for myself. Of course, if you guys want to tell me, go ahead.
My second part of the question, where can I go for a date? I don't want to go to the movies, it seems to cliche. Have any good ideas that would work for a highschooler that doesn't drive?
Here's how it's going to roll:
cubed: Have you ever been to _______/I'm going to _______ on _______.
her: ___________________.
cubed: Why don't you come with me?
her: sure
