sad samurai
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ok so she snet me a subtle NO in this way: asking my best female friend "what type of girl I like, she might have someone good for me".
i think my first attempt is a total failure (past thread has been covered why)
now, how should i reframe this (if reframe is the right word for this...)
1. to be brave, to be a man (or so i thought) and approach her telling the real feeling that i have of her. simply will get an instant death but at least i regain my dignity (or so i thought, again)
2. pretend not knowing anything and just play around...introduce friends? why not? hit into her group and see what will happen the next.
either way is "out" but one gets some face back and one gets the benefit later on, so what do u guru's think?
i think my first attempt is a total failure (past thread has been covered why)
now, how should i reframe this (if reframe is the right word for this...)
1. to be brave, to be a man (or so i thought) and approach her telling the real feeling that i have of her. simply will get an instant death but at least i regain my dignity (or so i thought, again)
2. pretend not knowing anything and just play around...introduce friends? why not? hit into her group and see what will happen the next.
either way is "out" but one gets some face back and one gets the benefit later on, so what do u guru's think?