You don't want to start using kino until you've gotten well accquainted with her. This basically means that you've gotten her name, she's gotten yours, and you have exchanged some words of some sort. You don't want to use kino unless the two of you are enjoying each other. Here's an example.
At lunch, George walked into the cafeteria. He could immediatly see the girl that he has had his eye on the entire semester. She was a new student here from Windward High. All of the guys have been talking about her, but it seems that she usually seems to eat by herself. George decided that this would be the day that he approaches her, so he makes his way past the other tables, walks over to her table, stops, and smiles at her. "Hey there." He says. She looks up and smiles. "Hi.", she says shyly. "What's your name? I've seen you around here before." He says, making eye contact with her. "Oh, I'm Adrianna. What's your name?" She asks with a pleasent look on her face. George has a seat across from her. "I'm George. So you're new here, huh?" He asks. "Yeah, I kind of enjoy it here." She says. "Yeah well, no matter what school you go to, school sucks in my opinon." George says with a smile. "Ah, I like school." She says, smiling. "Yeah, that's a typical 'first week of school' response I was expecting." He says in a ****y and funny way. She starts to laugh. George lightly reaches over and touches her wrist. "Don't worry though, once you hate school, you'll probably end up appreciating the times you AREN'T here." He says with a smile. "Hey listen, I'm gonna get back to my friends. I'll talk to you later OK?" He says, as he gets up. "Sure, that'll be great." She says with a smile. Just as he is about to turn and walk away, he turns back around. "Hey, do you have email?" He asks her. "Sure." She says. "Great. Write it down. I'd like to talk to you again." He says, pulling out a pen and a piece of paper. He hands her the paper, and she starts to write it down for him. As she is in the middle of writing it down, he says, "Hey, put your phone number down there too." She gives him her email and her phone number and hands the paper back to him. "Thanks, I'll talk to you later." He says as he leaves.
See what George did. He used kino, yes, but he used it when she was on a high and they were obviously enjoying each other. Hope this helps.
