BuffnStuff
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alright you all dj's out there, i need some help. I think that this will be worth your time because its kinda compliacted and a challenge , but here it goes.
First off im a sophmore in highscool 5'11 175 lbs green eyes , black curly hair,Buff, pretty good looking. Ive never really had a real girlfriend due to the fact that i have pretty bad luck with girls. But then again most of my life i was kind of chunky and stuff. Its not that i cant get a girl its just that im really picky. I really dont want to be a player or pimp or anything like that but there is this one thing.
Ive known this certain girl since 8th grade. She found out i liked her, we talked, She was going throu a pretty serious relationship for that age and it was a mess. Anyways, This past summer me and her got really close. I helped her with her guy problems and was a sort of emotional tampond. I was there for her and she was there for me. I know how she is what she likes etc. She likes "emo " guys and has always dated alot of guys who were skinny , skaters, that sort of style. Now I myself am i pretty big guy. Buffest of the freshman class etc not to brag or anything pretty good looking not a nerd or anything. Really athletic but i hurt my discs in my back and my leg so i couldnt play football or any sports but ive become really built and strong and fast and all so i can start playing baseball when the season comes up
. Anyways she came to the same highschool i am going to and things were cool for about 2 weeks. Now one day this guy was flirting with her and talking to her and i got soo jealous. Yeah im a jealous person but ive worked on that. So we had a fight about it. I blew her off and she came to me , we talked, she stared into my eyes and complimented them later that night. So me and her have been fighting every other day for the past few months. Pretty badly. when we first started fighting she she cried over the phone and said that she would pick me over him if it came down to it. Well shes been hanging out with this one chick who acts like her but does it to pull her in. Shes changed her , made her more deceptive and s***. Me and her really never went out like on weekends but on a few occasions we did. The first week if fighting we went to a show. me her, my friend who is dating one of her friends and that B**** who was changeing her. That night me and my friend got lost because there beaners barely speaking english and i had to give directions ( long story lost on the eastside ) That night was really cool , for the few more times we went out like that to dances and stuff , During that time we always got asked if we were going out and all. Lets get this straight real quick. me and her its like more then friends but not girlfriend and boyfriend. At first she was saying like you cant go out with blodne girls, we have our own song " float on " etc. stuff like that. For example she saw a girl one time when we were out and her friend told her to go with her but she rejected her and was like im with him. She said tht the fighting over jealousy and stuff should be saved for a relationship. One night we actually did talk about how things would be diffrent if me and her were in one etc. So the fighting kept going on was gay and she got tired of it.
so around October 15th , 2 weeks before homecoming i asked her to go with me and shes like i wanna go with this guy from central ( x boyfriend , goes to his shows, broke her heart ) but was like we will see . The fighting kept going on still and one night during a fight she was like i cant go with you because 1. i think you will get jealous if i dance with someone else ( like she would actually leave me if i was there ) 2. that she thinks i like her. She asked me that and i just said hold on, when i got back to the phone she was like dont anwser the question. She said she wasnt gonna end up going anyway and that. Fighting kept going on a lil bit but we were trying to come up with a solution to end it.
So that night of homecoming i called and she was like im with my mom ill talk to you later tonight on aim or something. 2 seconds later she was like i decided to go homecoming , i hung up and was pissed, did some tri- athlete stuff running springs, picking up parts of tree trunks and thorwing em. called her back and said i was f***** pissed and hung up. Now she knew this was gonna hurt me but she did anyway and went with her friend Gabe ( not to worry hes like a gay straight guy , couldnt like her , hes cool with me ) now the next day she blocked me on aim which was pretty childish of her but shes all messed up becuase of her friend thats like brainwashing her. we talked that night and were cool now, havent really had any serious talks , she said she was wrong , shes sorry , i told her how i felt that i dont forgive but i want 2.
I mean guys, for instance , when she was out of town on 2 diffrent occasion she called me out of state just to talk to me. I called her while she was outa state , not knowing and screamed my name in happiness etc. for isntance , another exapmle is she knew i was going to a party and her knowing that i was going to be with other girls she called me like 5 times in 1 hour. 3 on the cell and 2 at the house. one time after a disagreement she saw me talking to another girl and hugging her and she just looked annoyed and turned her head, to get back at me she hugged the dude i hate. So she knows what shes doing. She said she wants me to be the one to call her and approach her and all becuase she said her mom taught her that the guy is the one who should call and i think thats ture but if its just a friendship then she should be calling. alot of times she handles things like if were in a relationshipo. For the past week i have been the one to call every night and walk her to her locker and to lunch and approach her, its getting old fast. She should be trying harder since she lost my respect.
I mean seriously guys, i treat her like a girlfriend, walk her to class etc, Deep down , i think she has feelings for me but her friends brainwash her and all and shes scared of losing our friendship which is really strong, Then again if it was just a friend ship then why would she do some of the stuff she does. I know this can work out but i need to change. I need to know what to do . heres where you all come in. Im working on the jealous part giving me advice and all. I am willing to do what needs to be done. But i really need you alls help.
Seriously , she is worth it to me and this can work out. In return guys , if you want to pm me or aim me on my sn i will be more then happy to help you with any fitness qnuestions you have . This summer i weighed 203 and since then i have gone down to 175 looking lean with a 4 pack and a " chest like the hulk " a few chicks have said.
I will do whatever it takes. thanks all for reading this.
alright you all dj's out there, i need some help. I think that this will be worth your time because its kinda compliacted and a challenge , but here it goes.
First off im a sophmore in highscool 5'11 175 lbs green eyes , black curly hair,Buff, pretty good looking. Ive never really had a real girlfriend due to the fact that i have pretty bad luck with girls. But then again most of my life i was kind of chunky and stuff. Its not that i cant get a girl its just that im really picky. I really dont want to be a player or pimp or anything like that but there is this one thing.
Ive known this certain girl since 8th grade. She found out i liked her, we talked, She was going throu a pretty serious relationship for that age and it was a mess. Anyways, This past summer me and her got really close. I helped her with her guy problems and was a sort of emotional tampond. I was there for her and she was there for me. I know how she is what she likes etc. She likes "emo " guys and has always dated alot of guys who were skinny , skaters, that sort of style. Now I myself am i pretty big guy. Buffest of the freshman class etc not to brag or anything pretty good looking not a nerd or anything. Really athletic but i hurt my discs in my back and my leg so i couldnt play football or any sports but ive become really built and strong and fast and all so i can start playing baseball when the season comes up
. Anyways she came to the same highschool i am going to and things were cool for about 2 weeks. Now one day this guy was flirting with her and talking to her and i got soo jealous. Yeah im a jealous person but ive worked on that. So we had a fight about it. I blew her off and she came to me , we talked, she stared into my eyes and complimented them later that night. So me and her have been fighting every other day for the past few months. Pretty badly. when we first started fighting she she cried over the phone and said that she would pick me over him if it came down to it. Well shes been hanging out with this one chick who acts like her but does it to pull her in. Shes changed her , made her more deceptive and s***. Me and her really never went out like on weekends but on a few occasions we did. The first week if fighting we went to a show. me her, my friend who is dating one of her friends and that B**** who was changeing her. That night me and my friend got lost because there beaners barely speaking english and i had to give directions ( long story lost on the eastside ) That night was really cool , for the few more times we went out like that to dances and stuff , During that time we always got asked if we were going out and all. Lets get this straight real quick. me and her its like more then friends but not girlfriend and boyfriend. At first she was saying like you cant go out with blodne girls, we have our own song " float on " etc. stuff like that. For example she saw a girl one time when we were out and her friend told her to go with her but she rejected her and was like im with him. She said tht the fighting over jealousy and stuff should be saved for a relationship. One night we actually did talk about how things would be diffrent if me and her were in one etc. So the fighting kept going on was gay and she got tired of it. so around October 15th , 2 weeks before homecoming i asked her to go with me and shes like i wanna go with this guy from central ( x boyfriend , goes to his shows, broke her heart ) but was like we will see . The fighting kept going on still and one night during a fight she was like i cant go with you because 1. i think you will get jealous if i dance with someone else ( like she would actually leave me if i was there ) 2. that she thinks i like her. She asked me that and i just said hold on, when i got back to the phone she was like dont anwser the question. She said she wasnt gonna end up going anyway and that. Fighting kept going on a lil bit but we were trying to come up with a solution to end it.
So that night of homecoming i called and she was like im with my mom ill talk to you later tonight on aim or something. 2 seconds later she was like i decided to go homecoming , i hung up and was pissed, did some tri- athlete stuff running springs, picking up parts of tree trunks and thorwing em. called her back and said i was f***** pissed and hung up. Now she knew this was gonna hurt me but she did anyway and went with her friend Gabe ( not to worry hes like a gay straight guy , couldnt like her , hes cool with me ) now the next day she blocked me on aim which was pretty childish of her but shes all messed up becuase of her friend thats like brainwashing her. we talked that night and were cool now, havent really had any serious talks , she said she was wrong , shes sorry , i told her how i felt that i dont forgive but i want 2.
I mean guys, for instance , when she was out of town on 2 diffrent occasion she called me out of state just to talk to me. I called her while she was outa state , not knowing and screamed my name in happiness etc. for isntance , another exapmle is she knew i was going to a party and her knowing that i was going to be with other girls she called me like 5 times in 1 hour. 3 on the cell and 2 at the house. one time after a disagreement she saw me talking to another girl and hugging her and she just looked annoyed and turned her head, to get back at me she hugged the dude i hate. So she knows what shes doing. She said she wants me to be the one to call her and approach her and all becuase she said her mom taught her that the guy is the one who should call and i think thats ture but if its just a friendship then she should be calling. alot of times she handles things like if were in a relationshipo. For the past week i have been the one to call every night and walk her to her locker and to lunch and approach her, its getting old fast. She should be trying harder since she lost my respect.
I mean seriously guys, i treat her like a girlfriend, walk her to class etc, Deep down , i think she has feelings for me but her friends brainwash her and all and shes scared of losing our friendship which is really strong, Then again if it was just a friend ship then why would she do some of the stuff she does. I know this can work out but i need to change. I need to know what to do . heres where you all come in. Im working on the jealous part giving me advice and all. I am willing to do what needs to be done. But i really need you alls help.
Seriously , she is worth it to me and this can work out. In return guys , if you want to pm me or aim me on my sn i will be more then happy to help you with any fitness qnuestions you have . This summer i weighed 203 and since then i have gone down to 175 looking lean with a 4 pack and a " chest like the hulk " a few chicks have said.
I will do whatever it takes. thanks all for reading this.
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