Help! Need Help from REAL DJs! (Man of Adventure / SamePendo/ Marpa/ Self-Mastery)!!!

[NewMan]

Jeez... this really is a no brainer guys.

- firstly, let this be a lesson to you. Don't jump right into a relatio0nship - you were a pvssy with your "Let's be exclusive" - that's just Symph, AFC talk. Never ask a girl to be exclusive. Just hearing those very words send a chill down my spine. Let's these things happen naturally.

on to your issue. You said you didn't talk to the girl while you were gone, and she didn't call you when you came back. Sounds like this isn't a full blown relationship.

but is this guilt you are feeling?

This is what you do, you date both. With the 2nd girl, make sure you don't take her to places that are local - where friends of your current girl will see you. you can play both for a little while, but since you fvcked it up with the 1st one, your going to have to lay down some damage control. Don't bring up any relationship stuff with girl #1 - because she will bring it up to you, and when she does, your response will be somewhere along these lines... " - I'm having a lot of fun with you and enjoy spending my time with you, but I just want us to be on the same page and take things slow."

 

[AtomicDog]

Jeez... this really is a no brainer guys.

- firstly, let this be a lesson to you. Don't jump right into a relatio0nship - you were a pvssy with your "Let's be exclusive" - that's just Symph, AFC talk. Never ask a girl to be exclusive. Just hearing those very words send a chill down my spine. Let's these things happen naturally.

on to your issue. You said you didn't talk to the girl while you were gone, and she didn't call you when you came back. Sounds like this isn't a full blown relationship.

but is this guilt you are feeling?

This is what you do, you date both. With the 2nd girl, make sure you don't take her to places that are local - where friends of your current girl will see you. you can play both for a little while, but since you fvcked it up with the 1st one, your going to have to lay down some damage control. Don't bring up any relationship stuff with girl #1 - because she will bring it up to you, and when she does, your response will be somewhere along these lines... " - I'm having a lot of fun with you and enjoy spending my time with you, but I just want us to be on the same page and take things slow."

Puhhhleesse listen to this dude!!!

 

[DivineNetworks]

Don't be a lying fckhead and that's all. Would u like the grl to do the same for you? No? - So why do u think she'd like that?

 

[SamePendo]

First of all, don't get exclusive again. Keep climbing the ladder first.

Then, you can either do what Newman said, and keep with the other one in non-public places.

Or you can buckle your belt a little and go and tell chick A that it was a mistake and that you're not ready for a relationship.

Do you have a little brother? Someone who looks up to you? What would you think the best thing to to show off to this person who looks up to you? I'm not implying anything.

Oh, and thanks for the "real DJ" thing.