help my babe don't want me

[andym]

first she needed space then after two weeks i dropped a text mesage just to say how are you - her reply - hello thinking today to communicate with you - need my space still - feeling better this way - more whole - grew increasingly uncertain that our relationship had a future - i think because it started in a place of pain for all three of us - i still love you - can we be friends and not lovers ??

I sent a reply to say OK friendship will be fine (I Lied)

She replied can we meet.

Now I have written this down I feel a degree of acceptance and the pain is diminishing.
However I feel sad that it has come to this and part of me knows that when I see her as a friend inside I still want her....aaaaaaarrrgggggh!

 

[KontrollerX]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471

Read that thread all the way through.

Thats what "I need space" or the phrase "lets take a break" means.

As for this friendship nonsense you will do no such thing.

Don't even meet up with the cvnt and if she contacts you again about you missing the meet up just tell her you've moved on and suggest she do the same which is a way you can put the ball back in your court as far as power is concerned.

You keep that conversation brief too, do not symp the fvck out and act like a g0ddamned emotional pvssy, tell her you've moved on and hang up the fvcking phone.

These situations are lose, lose to continue staying in contact.

The friendship a girl offers or accepts from you in situations like this is ultimately phoney false friendship.

You don't want to be her friend you want to be fvcking her and it will always inevitably come to the surface these true desires at which point the false friendship will be broken off completely and extremely harshly making you feel like even more of a ponce for entertaining it in the first place.

Going absolutely cold no contact is the only way you win in a situation like this and absolutely do not meet up with her and again if she calls and asks why you didn't meet up you tell her you've moved on and you hang up the phone.

End of story.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594

Read Metaphysical's "So you just got dumped" guide as well and follow it to the letter.

 

[Sir Juanalot]

If she dont want you, she aint your babe.

Sorry to break it to you.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Wow found some great stuff in those links...

 

[Faded Image]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471

Read that thread all the way through.

Thats what "I need space" or the phrase "lets take a break" means.

As for this friendship nonsense you will do no such thing.

Don't even meet up with the cvnt and if she contacts you again about you missing the meet up just tell her you've moved on and suggest she do the same which is a way you can put the ball back in your court as far as power is concerned.

You keep that conversation brief too, do not symp the fvck out and act like a g0ddamned emotional pvssy, tell her you've moved on and hang up the fvcking phone.

These situations are lose, lose to continue staying in contact.

The friendship a girl offers or accepts from you in situations like this is ultimately phoney false friendship.

You don't want to be her friend you want to be fvcking her and it will always inevitably come to the surface these true desires at which point the false friendship will be broken off completely and extremely harshly making you feel like even more of a ponce for entertaining it in the first place.

Going absolutely cold no contact is the only way you win in a situation like this and absolutely do not meet up with her and again if she calls and asks why you didn't meet up you tell her you've moved on and you hang up the phone.

End of story.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594

Read Metaphysical's "So you just got dumped" guide as well and follow it to the letter.

Kontroller, you must have joekerr thread on speed dial.

Thanks, because I was looking for that thread for one of my homies.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Great Stuff...

 

[Bible_Belt]

I was going to suggest the "breaks" thread before KX beat me to it. It is good stuff.

 

[TheDoctor]

i think because it started in a place of pain for all three of us....

All three of you? Please explain!