Help me with Mission: First Kiss

[SamRi72]

If you haven't read my story in the HS board, essentially, I've been djing sarge style into week five and today was serious headway. For quite some time, I've been builing rapport with this Vietnamese girl in my class. She responded very well to kino from the beginning, and today things escalated to where she is comfortable with me putting my arm around her back (I do close talking and really playful kino) and the leading her with one hand on back thing I learned from Tiger. Things went really well and I really wanted to kiss her and I'm pretty sure things are the same way for her.

Here's my crux: I've never kissed a girl. I've been so AFC that I've never gotten so close. Now, I haven't asked this girl out and I haven't even asked for her phone number, but the kino is up there. How should I go about kissing her for the first time? Is there a DJ style as I wish to walk the way of the DJ?

 

[sparky0000]

Buy her something. Anything. She will feel as if she owes you something. That something is a big juicy kiss.

Remember: Rule 7 from THE SCHOOL OF SPARKY....Human nature mandates that you reciprocate. Remember that. That is how I get most of my kisses.

 

[Docs]

You don't ask, you do. How old are you?

And Spark, what the hell???!

 

[mpimpin]

How old are you??

I recommend getting her phone number first then try and set something up outside of school. If you wanna keep kissing this girl after the first kiss I recommend not having it be at school. Not sure what you were planning. But leaning over in gym class and kissing her might not be the best idea. But hey if you get the balls to do that at least its something.

 

[t0mCaT]

Mystery Method Kiss Close?

 

[Snow Plowman]

Triangular Gaze

That is the most solid and natural way to kiss. When a girl wants to kiss you she looks at your eyes then lips, and then eyes again. If you do this then you will basically be conveying that you want to kiss her so slow down you're speaking, get close and kiss her.

I've done this at times where I didn't even kiss a girl and you could see her like expecting you to go for the kiss and really waiting there.

 

[SamRi72]

You don't ask, you do. How old are you?

And Spark, what the hell???!

LMAO you misread. I have not asked her out. I was not going to ask for a kiss because that is wussy so you don't have to warn me on that. Just don't hate on me for something I didn't say. Anyway, today was meh: she was sick so she didn't want to talk. Reading other responses now.

 

[SamRi72]

Awesome advice Snowplow Man. I've read your post on 100 approaches. Fun stuff.

 

[BxPrince24]

IF the girl is really feeling you then odds are she's already waiting for the kiss, I remember the last girl I went out with I didn't kiss her until the end of the day and she was like finally. All you gotta do is play it smooth and do it when YOU'RE ready. Don't rush it, just let it fall into place. You'll know when the time is right. If you feel weird when you're about to do it then it probably isn't the right time. Just be comfortable, enjoy urself, and let it fall into place.

 

[splinterkb]

Hahaha yeah buy her something and she'll feel obligated.. what a dumb idea. Just be close to her, talking to her or something, and just look her in the eyes and then start closing in. Don't ask for one, don't feel like you shouldn't do it, just act like you want it and you're gonna take it. Your autopilot will kick in from there. Good luck!

 

[Bible_Belt]

this is also called the "kiss test," depending on the source:
http://www.ehow.com/tips_2919_22.html

"Hair Trick - This is a neat way to tell if a girl will let you kiss her. When you are talking, find a reason to touch her hair. You could say, "Oh, I like your hair," or "It's so soft," etc. If she responds positively, touch it again and lean in for a kiss. It works for me, and it's sweet!"

 

[SamRi72]

this is also called the "kiss test," depending on the source:
http://www.ehow.com/tips_2919_22.html

"Hair Trick - This is a neat way to tell if a girl will let you kiss her. When you are talking, find a reason to touch her hair. You could say, "Oh, I like your hair," or "It's so soft," etc. If she responds positively, touch it again and lean in for a kiss. It works for me, and it's sweet!"

This is pretty great stuff. I play with her hair all the time. She changed it today though (Damn... I liked her springy curly hair so much better cuz it was fun to play with).

 

[Æquitas]

HERE! How to kiss: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpH6rS6ucsU

This is what I should have seen before I messed up my first kiss, I went in like 3 times but she stopped me all 3 times, then later on she said she hated me for listning to her! But at that time I thought I had valid reason to not kissing her, even when my feelings made me wanting to go in for a kiss. But I know now that was bull****, I should had kissed her! I should had agreed with myself and not fight against myself!