I've never been successful with girls, and haven't had a real girlfriend ever really. I'm insecure about my weight for some reason even though i'm normal size. I use to be fat when i was a kid up until 2 years ago. I'm 6'2 180 lbs, but i still can't get over my insecurities. I've had older girls hit on me, and i get the number close, but they just end up seeing me as a friend. Girls tend to think i'm "immature" because of my jokes. It's not like i'm telling the girls my jokes. I'm telling my friends them but the girls eavesdrop on the convo. I'm a really funny guy. My family, friends, and some girls think so, but I'm afraid to take it too far. The ones that do think i'm funny end up becoming good friends with me, but that's the problem. I always end up in the friend zone and don't know why. I don't act like an AFC, and i don't let my insecurities show. Help me understand why I'm unsuccessful. BTW i'm a softmore