Help me quit mastrubating

[djSlvt]

Well, here I am, I thought I had this under control, but I was wrong. I'd like to admit that I have a problem.

I'm posting it here because excessive masturbation leads to decreased libido which affects sarging. Feel free to move this topic to AE..



So, I was able to stop smoking, start running and can now do it straight for 40 minutes or more, I was able to change a lot of things about me, except jerking off. I try to quit, the longest I went (and I keep a log of this along with my bf%, mm, weight, etc) was 7 days..

Today one thing led to another and I found myself in front of computer screen with some lubricant giving myself great sex, switching hands, thought I'll just go slow and stop just before. Right. I couldn't stop, man.

I've done it twice, after first one thought it dont feel too bad, I'll recover and be ready to sarge, maybe tomorrow or Monday, but then it happened again. I need some help here. I am able to go 7 days without it, but then I usually end up doing it several times in the row, and today was a repeating pattern, so I need help.

I went on google, and found this http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_mastrubate_3_times_a_week_suggest ... Those people have no idea. If I could just have this sexual state I enter when alone while sarging, that will be the best thing ever.



What to do to stop masturbating?




I think it all started last night, when I woke up having a dream for some hot sex with my last onetis. So I went back to bed, spend about 1 hour trying to sleep and fvck her in my mind. Then run in the morning, then I dont know. By the afternoon I was so horny one thing just led to another. And I recognize the pattern, so I knew in the back of my mind if I dont stop right this minute I will end up jerking off, but I just kept giving myself excuses, like I'll only do it a few strokes at a time.

If I thought I could do this myself I wouldn't post this. I need some good advice on what to do. Help me out, and try not to make a joke out of me, I really need help.

 

[ryannath]

If someone is not having sex regularly, i don't see how not ejaculating is healthy to a person. So, if you do it once a week, I don't really see a problem with it. You would still have plenty of libido to sarge.

 

[djSlvt]

It takes about 3 to 5 days to reach "the peek" for me.. Thats one, and the other thing is that I see guys talk here about not jerking off for six months, I want to do that.


Sex is different. After fvcking I can go out and be very horny. But, if I jerk off over barney the dinosaur and go out, I'm rather indifferent, lacking libido or the will. I see women react to be way differently when I'm horny, I take more risks, and a lot of other great things that I need in my life.



Right now, I've done it twice today. I wanted to go for the 3rd time, and decided to log in here and check if there is anything to help me. Not really, but I feel like I could last without it for now. Maybe I should start a journal, so that when I get eager to wack off I just go online and use my hands in other ways.


Quitting smoking was easy. This, I realize I have no control over it.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Cut it off.

Its not like you need it anyway.

 

[Sean Cameron]

Jerking off is great. I don't know why anyone would stop. It feels so good.

 

[KnockoutJM]

I managed to stop, and control it by just avoiding free time on the comp, and not looking at any arousing pics. If you stay busy with other things, and do not think about it, you can just forget about it and not do it.

 

[CCKazi007]

Do you masterbate more than 3 times a day? If yes then you have a problem. Most people will do it around once a day. There's nothing wrong with masterbation, it wont' "decrease" testastrone levels or make you lose muscle mass. I gotta admit though I once masterbated for 3 hours and the next few days when I got a errection it hurt like hell, probably damaged my blood vessel.

If you really want to stop then just make yourself really busy and throw away and porno or anything that gets your porno.

 

[guayaballer]

look for 21 days no masturbation with options. or something like that. log in there and start off with 21

 

[Redux]

I gotta admit though I once masterbated for 3 hours and the next few days when I got a errection it hurt like hell, probably damaged my blood vessel.

:crackup:

Hell son, best way to fight it is to get someone to do it for you. So act.
And I don't think it is a problem unless you are doing it because you think you cannot get some girl to do it for you.

 

[Berlex]

But, if I jerk off over barney the dinosaur and go out, I'm rather indifferent, lacking libido or the will.

I jack off to barney too!!

 

[djSlvt]

Well.... So far... I done it one or two more times after my last post yesterday. Today I was tempted, in the morning, but declined. It is much easier to say NO to yourself if you done it recentely, problem is after not doing it for a week, it's hard to say NO..


So my plan is not do it. When urges get extreme I plan to do push ups, incline and decline, if that dont work I throw a post in here, if that dont work I go out for a run...



After you dont do it for like 5 days or more, you enter a special kind of state, for example Im having difficulties controllling myself while Im in that state. The idea is to instead of using this state to exercise your right and left hand, or practice the butterfly, I better sarge.. So, if I could hold off till I get out of the house, Im good.





BTW: It is a problem for me. Yes, I do it more that 3 times a day. Althought recentely Id go a several days without doing it at all, but then end up doing it many many times. It is a problem because it affects my life, as explained above and in previous posts. Its one of those things that need to quit.

 

[djSlvt]

Here is the deal. Since I was focused on quitting jerking, I've noticed something. I get extra horny when I sleep less than 8 hours, usually 7, from 10 to 5. But when I sleep 8 hours, I'm not as horny, and when I am I have it under control.

 

[KnockoutJM]

Just remove yourself from any temptation like seeing revealing pics on the pc or anything (popups or porn) If you stay busy it isnt hard to do, and after 2-3 days it just gets easier, you feel better, and personally i notice i am more relaxed, confident, and outgoing

 

[CCKazi007]

You can always flick your balls, so that your boner goes away or punch your d*ck till you passout. There's nothing wrong with jacking off. Myfreepaysite is awesome for tips to stop wacking off.

 

[howardalex]

look at this picture, you'll never wank again (I hope)

http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b384/chasecec/disgusting.jpg



ewww fat ewww

 

[djSlvt]

Yea, next time I will come here and look at that pic. Today I got off 5 times on this: http://www.boysfood.com/free-porn-videos/6817/Pushing-In-Her-Butt.html (tripple click for full screen)


I've noticed a pattern in my life: Stimulant1 -> Porno -> Jerking off -> Jerking off again, etc, etc, about 3+ times per day, but not every day.


Doing it dry and doing it with lub makes all the difference, IMO. So I got rid of all the lube, right. Now today I used my spit.

No big deal, since I started this thread I've noticed a pattern that I haven't noticed before. I should be able to slowly stop doing it. I've just realize how horny I am, I've done it 5 times today, first one was super awesome, I felt like I've been svcked dry, but then did it again, and again. I think during orgasm some chemicals are released and I am craving those, or am addicted to them.


Yea it's cool. I enjoyed today a lot.

 

[KnockoutJM]

Try to get alot of sleep like 8+ hrs. It will really contribute to non-horniness. And try to not eat many aphrodisiacs which may contribute to an easier "arousal."