help me plz

[pglemba]

i just need help i treat girls like there the best thing in the world but i dnot let them walk all over me n what i mean is like i've had girls lie to me 4 times in a row over last school year telling me how they loved me and i know i dont deserve that its hurts so ****ing much n i just want to kno how this just stops is it immaturity by them or just stupidity by me am i not good enough or what
leave me comments
help
whatever u can give me

 

[Daani]

hello pglemba

please read the DJ Bibles
those sticky threads will lead you to em
after you read them feel free to post your thoughts..

 

[pglemba]

ok

ok i read part one in the reloaded series but they all looked at me dead in the eyes n said they loved me and hugged and kissed me n i just eat that **** up cause i'm lookin for a serious relationship but its just NOT WORKING OUT n then i find out that there tellin everyone i said it n that they thought i was ****in crazy

 

[Vincent]

Maybe you shouldn't be "Looking" for a serious relationship, and just work to get to that point.
Not every chick is down for a serious relationship, so don't pressure them.

 

[pglemba]

ya i understand that but what i'm tryin to say they ask me if i want a serious relationship n i say ya cause i want one n that i'm all for it then they dump me in a week i think i should just take my own advice n take a break


n i got another question whats up with girls likin the fact about me playin guitar

 

[Vincent]

Chicks think musicians are sexy. I dunno what it is about it, but they just do, along with firemen. I guess firemen remind them of something .

Don't say ya if she asks you about a serious relationship. Just try to avoid the question by saying something smart@$$ like "We'll see" or "I'll get back to you on that one". Don't make her feel pressured into something, EVEN IF SHE ASKS.

Its like if she asks you if you want to have sex (unless its leading that way ie only if its random) , if you say yes, she'll feel pressured, and it will only end badly.

my 411, take it if you need it.

 

[pglemba]

ok one last thing why do they say the love you then dont mean it
thats a hard question but i just need to know

 

[Vincent]

I think it lost most of its meaning. Its just a statement now. Also kind of a commitment, cause if she says it, its apparently @$$hole not to say it.

 

[Mikelo2k]

Man, "I love you" in highschool generally means JACK SH!T. You seem AFC to me dude Stop worrying about what they say about you, and stop being so soft. Dont "open up" totally emotionally to them and express your love for them and that you want to spend your entire life with them or anything like that (if you were doing anything like that i mean )

Read some more of the bible, use the SEARCH feature to find similar problems to yours, and read some posts to see what others are having trouble with (leave this for last tho).

Good luck to ya!

 

[pglemba]

well thanks man i'm goin to bed thanks for the help i just need to sleep on it

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Why the hell would you wan't a serious relationship? You're in high school... you should go out and try to get the most pu$$y you can get!

Start worrying about long term when you're out of college!

When you stop acting so desperate for a relationship... you'll get one!