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Akan

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I met a fine ass girl named. She's from Jordan. Pretty ass hair and tits and nice ass. I tried to talk to her. Here are the emails. Tell me what you think I should do next. My problems is I was too scared to ask her out on phone. I met her through an ad for a Honda I was selling. Btw I cleared all my corresponding emails I wrote to her, but I remember how they went.

Hello,
i am interested in buying a car, and ur add cought my attention, is it possible to set an appointment to see the cars? i live in charlottesville, next to UVA hospital

truely appreciate a response,
thank you
Banan


I responded to this by calling her and setting up a meeting with her. She was trying to buy the car for her sister and thought the one I was selling was to ugly and noisy. She passed on the offer, but we had a little chat and it all passed. She did however need brakes put on her personal car and she asked me if I could fix them. I asked her how much was she willing to spend. I guess this was a wrong move.

After I got back home, I emailed her. I typed "I just had to email you back saying you are fine". "I was gonna give you the car for free". I would like to take you out. Holla Back

This was her response.

u asked me how much i'm willing to spend to fix my brakes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! come on!!! u have my #..call me
my name is Banan btw


Right after that she emailed me again, here is that email.

oh by the way... if for any reason... u decide not to call..please email me and tell me ur not gonna call..i have a problem with waiting for certain phone calls... ( u will notice i am very strange) and strange is a good thing sometimes :)
so either call me ***-**** or email me saying ur not gonna call :)
now u HOLLA BACK

Anyways I did call her back and asked her bout herself and never really got around to asking her out. Here's the rest of her emails. After she never called me back, today I got pissed and emailed her this.

"My fault...I thought for a moment I was talking to a decent person.... I should've figured since you didn't call me back after you got my #, I should've NEXTED you, but I guess it was wishful thinking on my part that you would. Btw, uhh hell with it. It takes more than a half decent face to get with me."

She promptly emailed me back with this.

ok u decent person... for future reference u shouldn't prejudge!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
u called me several times, but u never asked me out!!! i dont know if u were figuring that i would initiate it...but i'm not much of an initiator!! if it happened that i was busy the last time u called... i didn't feel like calling u because i didn't figure u would ask me out!
but it's ok...i get mistaken for a ***** alot...thanx for re-emphasizing that!
but i truely think u should've at least given a chance b4 bigatoring me!


This was the last one.

uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhggggggggggggggggggalkjso;gskjfgn;aljsdnf k;.asdfnlknjs.....U JUST RUINED MY DAY


What do I do next.
 

Oscar Wilde

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Either call her up and say this:

I apologise for my email yesterday, I was having a bad day. Let me make it up to you by taking you out for a drink somewhere.
Or NEXT.

You need to be apologetic if you do, cos that was a damn stupid move you made.

Osc.
 

Akan

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I afraid I f'd up this one

I think I screwed up. Should I wait till tomorrow to apologize. Isn't apologies for losers.
 

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She just emailed me back

I emailed her, minor apology she responded. I going for it now!



OK SO BOTH of us are finally making sense... now... believe it or not...i am a shy person..and it's taking alot of guts for me to say this...but... ummm how long are we gonna play the email and phone game? call me so we can figure something out
 

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this is an example of a guy who does NOT have common sense.

Akan, if you happen to come back to read this post, please stick around. you could definately use our help! pleeeeease read the bible.
 

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Akan I hope you've f*cking called her and ASKED HER OUT now.

This girl has put up with more sh*t from you than you deserve, you should feel lucky she's still talking to you.

Apologies are only for losers if they've done nothing wrong but their woman wants to hear one anyway, and they oblige.

You knew you insulted her when it was your fault things weren't progressing, so an apology was definitely in order.

bp1974
 

Santos

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For *&$)@ sake call her! Dude, I'm in need of a number to get over this girl I like, if you're not using that one give it to me! j/k :) But seriously dude, stop wasting time, worrying about messing up and call her and ask her out! #&$* if I had her no I'd call her NOW!

A DJ isn't afraid of making a phone call, if you are - overcome your fear and call her. You're not going to get a date by asking her trhough e-mail, she will think you lack CONFIDENCE. This is not what you want her to think.

So call her, ask her out. And let us know what happens. Sorry if I crapped on your head, but I hardly get numbers (can't do approaches) but when I do I USE them. So what if she turns you down!!! DO IT! I am also shy, but I have learned to talk on the phone...

Santos
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, if you do decide to ask he out, be careful. She sounds like she's the type who would want a free ride. Ask her out to just a coffee shop or someplace where you can find out in person what she really wants. Her emails makes her sound like she's use to people catoring to her and if you're not careful, you'll end up as just another 'nice guy' on her long list of 'friends.'
 

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she certainly is not un-interested in you, she would not have waisted her time in returning your emails either.

She clearly stated the reasons why she didnt call u back....you didnt aske her out, to me it sounds like she is more decisive than most girls and she know what she wants. She obviously feels that if you ask her out its a way to further things.

If you guys do go out you better make her feel very at ease with you and totally take down that biatch shield.

And yes I think you should give her a simple apology and show her you can admit to a mistake.

LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENS!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Yeah, I almost forgot... Like stormwriter said "What the hell is bigatoring???!!!"
 
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I'm sorry but when she asked you about the breaks and expected you to fix them, that shoulda told you something.

Then she straight up tells you she is strange...that's enough right thurr for me.

I don't deal with attitudes, I give them.

If I wanted sweat and sour I woulda ordered chineese....-Paradise author of Space Aged Pimpin
 
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