Help me getting my frame back with this girl, please!

[deepower]

Remember exactly what you did here! You took control and she responded favourably. You didn't chase her, you allowed her to chase you. You made sure you had other options. Always have other options, even if you are in a relationship. Don't be afraid to let her know you have other options whether you are in a relationship or not. Do this subtly. Let her see the way you interact favourably with other women.

In the future, demand respect from the beginning. Don't let this slip for one second. If she does something that you don't like or agree with you have to call her on it right away. Do not let her disrespect you ever! Do not be afraid to walk away from the relationship if she disrespects you. Even if it is something minor. Do not be the one to bring up being in an exclusive relationship. Continue to date and see other women. It is up to her to bring up the idea of being exclusive. Remember you have the most to lose in a steady relationship. There is an endless amount of pvssy out there waiting for you. Is she worth it? If she continues to date and see other guys or is still active on the dating site then her interest level in you is low. Don't waste time on low interest women. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Do not listen to what she says. Listen to what she does.

Follow all of this and you are well on your way to being a Don Juan with the ladies!

This is so funny...don't let her disrespect you and continue to date and see other women...hahaha
Like...are you dating a dog?...or obviously a very low iq kind of women. You will never be so demanding with a high quality woman. Because she will have her life, and be smart enough to smell this type of bs. The way you guys talk is very low...a woman respect a man who respect her and if is not both ways the same then there is no way. Period.
Obviously high iq in both...

 

[hudpes]

My advice for you, OP, is - try not to act out all the DJ rules (read the Bible yet?) but rather ask yourself how to become a man to whom those rules come naturally. Think of it this way, you're trying to walk by consciously moving individual muscles every time you make a step, you can't do that for a long time, but you need to open your eyes to a bigger picture, the rules set in the Bible are an outcome of what a DJ or, gentleman, is. You don't call a woman 5 times a day, because the bible says so, you don't call her because you have other things to do and she is only a side dish, not the main and only course.