Help me DJs! 44yo virgin having an AFC crisis!

[LP700-4]

:nervous:

I will SPIN MORE PLATES and use women to boost my shattered self-esteem!


On the real nothings wrong. Just testing the So Suave AFC Emergency Response System.

Still seeing the chick and going out with her next Saturday. #44yoWINNING.

Humble, you're a clown, I swear. Lmao.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Even tho some of your openers are corny your operners for the most part are clever, witty, and entertaining. Your excitement in women is also admirable, the sad thing, even tho I'm nearly 20 years younger than you, you remind me of my old self while I feel like I'm 60 years old already. Continue having fun.

As for the intro messages, as corny as they come off I had to make them that way. Chicks online have EXTREMELY fragile egos and where dudes will laugh at anything funny chicks online take almost anything offensive (unless you look like a God to them in your pictures.) so I had to tweak them to be "funny to a chick but as non offensive as possible. Chicks online sense of "humor" is only based on looks. The better you look to them..the "funnier" you are.

 

[Married Buried]

depends on how much candy you got for her. - sugardaddy

Exactly bro. This is what it comes down to. You better have a nice car, with a nice place to bring her too, with nice game and take her out and spend money. Without all 3 of these go for chics your own age.

 

[lili19771]

Smells like a shifty troll. At 44 you should understand how inter personal skills work. Being 44 as a virgin I'd probably say you're a hermit.

 

[Purefilth]

Ok, the real answer to the question - for anyone who has similar worries.


She will stick around as long as she perceives value in you.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

I hate that the quality of the threads these days are going down...

 

[TheGambino]

44 and still a virgin?

You should stop trying to get laid, period. Get a bangbros year subscription and keep j3rking 0ff.

I recommend you to find a hobby and stop chasing women, it doesn't work for you, it's hopeless focus on other hobbies and move on with your life.

All your princesses are and will be in another castle ForeverAFC.

case closed.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Exactly bro. This is what it comes down to. You better have a nice car, with a nice place to bring her too, with nice game and take her out and spend money. Without all 3 of these go for chics your own age.

As if women my age aren't looking for a man with a nice car, nice place, to take out and spend money on?

Most of the older ones my age are even worse. I know plenty of them borderline prostituting themselves to dudes with money.

Playing the "nice" "great catch" woman who "doesn't give it up" in exchange for trying to get chumps to buy them things, dinners, and take them on vacations etc.

I know plenty of them in real life.


Trust me dude. I don't play that with any chick young or old.

The first time I ask. I pay. If I decide to go somewhere. I pay. (If some bird chick doesn't have money that sucks for her. Only possible SMALL exception is if she's in college. And that excuse doesn't last long.) If the second time I don't see any ATTEMPT to pay at LEAST the tip or for drinks or something..(not asking for half) I bounce. If I hear a chick is like that or over hear sh1t like that from them. (Some will do that. Actually know several who've straight out asked dudes to buy them sh1t they've NEVER dated etc.) I don't waste my time.

They ain't paying me with pvssy neither. I don't sex negotiate as we should be able to get it elsewhere.

Thing is most dudes WILL go along with it and try to hit and quit it playing right into the chicks hands in the first place. Most will give it up depending on the dude if he treats her "romantically". But inside they know the game and are selling it without the prostie label.

I on the other hand am true to my word. I'll straight up tell them pvssy doesn't control me. In a non chalant "nice" way.

If they try nonsense on me. I will bounce on them and NOT go for it on purpose. Which could be seen as spiting myself by pvssy pedestalizers yet I in my own way tell the chick: "You met the wrong one to play with toots and your "golden pvssy" is a dime a dozen." Do NOT want regardless. No chick is stringing me along with pvss. None. Period. True story.

I may joke and kid. But I do not play.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

What's the shelf life on a 44yo man and 24yo chick? Help me DJ's. I'm having an AFC meltdown..

seriously, 44 and still a virgin? you can't be serious, if hadn't gotten laid before 30 I would have gone to a hooker or escort already

 

[kraytkiller]

If your in this thread, paying attention at all, and made it all the way to this post, and you still think he's a 44 y/o virgin... Your a retard.

This is to everyone.

 

[HumbleNinja]

If your in this thread, paying attention at all, and made it all the way to this post, and you still think he's a 44 y/o virgin... Your a retard.

This is to everyone.

Just doing my part in helping to boost the self-esteem of the "pvssy slayers" with my "virgin" status and irresistable titles. If it makes them feel more "DJ"..God Bless!

 

[Married Buried]

As if women my age aren't looking for a man with a nice car, nice place, to take out and spend money on?

Most of the older ones my age are even worse. I know plenty of them borderline prostituting themselves to dudes with money.

Playing the "nice" "great catch" woman who "doesn't give it up" in exchange for trying to get chumps to buy them things, dinners, and take them on vacations etc.

I know plenty of them in real life.


Trust me dude. I don't play that with any chick young or old.

The first time I ask. I pay. If I decide to go somewhere. I pay. (If some bird chick doesn't have money that sucks for her. Only possible SMALL exception is if she's in college. And that excuse doesn't last long.) If the second time I don't see any ATTEMPT to pay at LEAST the tip or for drinks or something..(not asking for half) I bounce. If I hear a chick is like that or over hear sh1t like that from them. (Some will do that. Actually know several who've straight out asked dudes to buy them sh1t they've NEVER dated etc.) I don't waste my time.

They ain't paying me with pvssy neither. I don't sex negotiate as we should be able to get it elsewhere.

Thing is most dudes WILL go along with it and try to hit and quit it playing right into the chicks hands in the first place. Most will give it up depending on the dude if he treats her "romantically". But inside they know the game and are selling it without the prostie label.

I on the other hand am true to my word. I'll straight up tell them pvssy doesn't control me. In a non chalant "nice" way.

If they try nonsense on me. I will bounce on them and NOT go for it on purpose. Which could be seen as spiting myself by pvssy pedestalizers yet I in my own way tell the chick: "You met the wrong one to play with toots and your "golden pvssy" is a dime a dozen." Do NOT want regardless. No chick is stringing me along with pvss. None. Period. True story.

I may joke and kid. But I do not play.

Women closer to your age are already spent and easier to game, in a nutshell. The only way to keep the young ones is material things. For example, I got a 21 year old off match when I was 30. At the time she lived in my small town, came back to my place a few times, I hooked her up with weed. She loved me for a little while. Her boyfriend used to clal and text her when she was at my place. She said he is a "worry wart" LOL!

I had enough of American women after that one.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Women closer to your age are already spent and easier to game, in a nutshell. The only way to keep the young ones is material things. For example, I got a 21 year old off match when I was 30. At the time she lived in my small town, came back to my place a few times, I hooked her up with weed. She loved me for a little while. Her boyfriend used to clal and text her when she was at my place. She said he is a "worry wart" LOL!

I had enough of American women after that one.

Not lowering my standards for someone "easier" to game. I'm not jumping through hoops either. And I'm no ATM. If I start sensing a chick is like that. I'm out. I invest. She should too. Period.

If one chick on online dating caused you to have enough of American women you must've been going for the bottom of the barrell one after the other in real life and online. Especially with the comment above of looking for chicks who are "easier to game". "Easier to game" IMO means EASY.

Too many dudes love to pay lip service to "not pedestalizing pvssy" on here yet BPD and every other disaster after the next, BESIDES just the typical common sense things NOT to do in regards to chicks are done here.

Yes dudes want to get laid but going after trash consitantly instead of quality for "easier game" to get laid, and to "impress" random strangers online seems to be the norm on SS. And these dudes wonder why they have constant problems.

It's not the trashy chicks after a certain point. The problem is THEM.

 

[Married Buried]

Not lowering my standards for someone "easier" to game. I'm not jumping through hoops either. And I'm no ATM. If I start sensing a chick is like that. I'm out. I invest. She should too. Period.

If one chick on online dating caused you to have enough of American women you must've been going for the bottom of the barrell one after the other in real life and online. Especially with the comment above of looking for chicks who are "easier to game". "Easier to game" IMO means EASY.

Too many dudes love to pay lip service to "not pedestalizing pvssy" on here yet BPD and every other disaster after the next, BESIDES just the typical common sense things NOT to do in regards to chicks are done here.

Yes dudes want to get laid but going after trash consitantly instead of quality for "easier game" to get laid, and to "impress" random strangers online seems to be the norm on SS. And these dudes wonder why they have constant problems.

It's not the trashy chicks after a certain point. The problem is THEM.

I know bro but why waste time sending these messages? Find a good spam message that is serious, funny AND good ( I have posted one many times ) and get rid of this 24 yr old the thread is about. If she doesnt bang you on the first time you met her she probably never will. Go spam a GOOD message to women you like and come back. This wasting time is ludicrous.

 

[HumbleNinja]

I know bro but why waste time sending these messages? Find a good spam message that is serious, funny AND good ( I have posted one many times ) and get rid of this 24 yr old the thread is about. If she doesnt bang you on the first time you met her she probably never will. Go spam a GOOD message to women you like and come back. This wasting time is ludicrous.

I pass downtime breaking chops on there whenever I decide to go on till I get bored. I make my own messages and they work fine for me.

Why get rid of her? We went out twice. She’s in college and doesn’t have a full time job. So she sent me that text. I changed the subject. No big deal. She’s not bad so far and talks her ass off etc. But if there is no attempt to offer to pay anything on our third date. I’m moving on. Same deal as with friends. You go out with them at times. You treat. They treat. Or you both pay. Split or for yourselves. If you go out with certain friends who claim to never have money, never offer to pay anything and you wind up paying. F that. You become perpetually "busy" when they want to make plans.

Disagree fully on if she doesn’t bang you on the first date. All three chicks I was in LTR’s with I never banged on the first date and we banged for years after till we went our separate ways. (Two others ONS) And yes. This chick wants me to bang her. The kids text got me thinking maybe not as that mention kindof put me off. We’ll see. If she says some sht like that again I’m going to have a talk and tell her to relax with that nonsense.

 

[JohnChops]

Exactly bro. This is what it comes down to. You better have a nice car, with a nice place to bring her too, with nice game and take her out and spend money. Without all 3 of these go for chics your own age.

you foolish foolish married man, have you learned nothing but bitterness?

 

[Married Buried]

you foolish foolish married man, have you learned nothing but bitterness?

Please enlighten me. The only reason the 21 year old came with me that night is because I was good looking, had my own place, had weed. I was a provider in her eyes.

You got any better explanation for me?

I pass downtime breaking chops on there whenever I decide to go on till I get bored. I make my own messages and they work fine for me.

Why get rid of her? We went out twice. She’s in college and doesn’t have a full time job. So she sent me that text. I changed the subject. No big deal. She’s not bad so far and talks her ass off etc. But if there is no attempt to offer to pay anything on our third date. I’m moving on. Same deal as with friends. You go out with them at times. You treat. They treat. Or you both pay. Split or for yourselves. If you go out with certain friends who claim to never have money, never offer to pay anything and you wind up paying. F that. You become perpetually "busy" when they want to make plans.

Disagree fully on if she doesn’t bang you on the first date. All three chicks I was in LTR’s with I never banged on the first date and we banged for years after till we went our separate ways. (Two others ONS) And yes. This chick wants me to bang her. The kids text got me thinking maybe not as that mention kindof put me off. We’ll see. If she says some sht like that again I’m going to have a talk and tell her to relax with that nonsense.

There you go then. you are not a virgin (I already knew that). Keep doing your thing I am confident you will meet the right person eventually. I just don't have the patience to deal with chics longer than the game approves. If she is not on my jock from the beginning, goodbye is what I say.

 

[Married Buried]

Not lowering my standards for someone "easier" to game. I'm not jumping through hoops either. And I'm no ATM. If I start sensing a chick is like that. I'm out. I invest. She should too. Period.

If one chick on online dating caused you to have enough of American women you must've been going for the bottom of the barrell one after the other in real life and online. Especially with the comment above of looking for chicks who are "easier to game". "Easier to game" IMO means EASY.

Too many dudes love to pay lip service to "not pedestalizing pvssy" on here yet BPD and every other disaster after the next, BESIDES just the typical common sense things NOT to do in regards to chicks are done here.

Yes dudes want to get laid but going after trash consitantly instead of quality for "easier game" to get laid, and to "impress" random strangers online seems to be the norm on SS. And these dudes wonder why they have constant problems.

It's not the trashy chicks after a certain point. The problem is THEM.

What are you doing dude? I used to be desperate like you, chasing POF trash like it's something new. But the reality is anything from that site is trash.

I had good encounters from match.com with my spam messages. But they still weren't great.

Had my best when I posted an ad on Craigslist, and a latina responded. I already had a latina fetish, so I gave this one extra attention. Met up and found she was a great woman, the rest is history. Now I have a hot petitte latina wife who turns heads everywhere she goes and her interest remains very high every day.

 

[HumbleNinja]

What are you doing dude? I used to be desperate like you, chasing POF trash like it's something new. But the reality is anything from that site is trash.

I had good encounters from match.com with my spam messages. But they still weren't great.

Had my best when I posted an ad on Craigslist, and a latina responded. I already had a latina fetish, so I gave this one extra attention. Met up and found she was a great woman, the rest is history. Now I have a hot petitte latina wife who turns heads everywhere she goes and her interest remains very high every day.

Desperate? lol. (I've gotten TONS of numbers, spoke to chicks and not bothered as I knew they were trash off POF...yet got "attacked" by the "DJs" for not wanting to bother with them! LMFAO!) Dude I've simply dated this chick twice. It's not a big deal to me. Remember. I work with hot chicks and meet hot chicks at my part time everytime I work. Sht I've dropped my last ex PERIOD no contact no text no emails no calls NOTHING after dating her about two years as she had issues. I've got no problems dropping anyone who I think is a waste of time.

Now I don't put stock in anyones words real life or online. (I'm off POF as I got booted not because of this chick.) I'll see how she is (as we've seen each other only twice.) I'm not running to meet her constantly. She goes to college. Lives in Manhattan. Doesn't have a car.(No need for one in Manhattan.) And I'm not running to drive there EVEN for a chick. Hell I stopped talking to another cute 24 yo who lived a distance and she stopped talking to me. No big deal.

As for match I haven't been on there in like 16 years. (Was on for a short time meet two hot chicks. Both were crazy. No joke.) Met my past ex out when her friend approached me out and told me her friend thought I was beautiful. Saw the chick surrounded by dudes and when I saw her she was hot as hell. Dated her for like two years...She had a kid and I wasn't going to stay with her.

I'm relaxed on my own. I almost prefer my sanity and doing my own sht on my own. No homo.

If it works it works with this chick. fine. If it doesn't I'm the last dude on here to cry and complain about it. POF when I use it to pass downtime is nothing to me but a joke. Dudes who get worked up over it are the ones who are desperate.

If dudes get worked up over POF....I'd LOVE to see these dudes operate in real life...I know MANY people NOT PUA or that crap...and growing up I've seen many clowns constantly trying to get the hottest chicks (even good looking dudes really good looking) and after a while those types became pathetic to not only me..but other dudes who didn't need to try to "get" every chick to feel like "the man". Most of those dudes became and were straight up clown shoes.

I've been many places Vegas, A.C., NYC, Miam, Montreal, Italy, Mexico, Columbia (for family friend events) and never give a sht about hot chicks period. They're all people to me. Insecure and trying to make their ways through life just like everyone else.

If most of So Suave was around hot chicks all the time..growing up, knowing them, working with them etc. it's no big deal and no sweat when a hot chick is a clown herself. She becomes a running joke that is soon forgotten.

 

[Married Buried]

Desperate? lol. (I've gotten TONS of numbers, spoke to chicks and not bothered as I knew they were trash off POF...yet got "attacked" by the "DJs" for not wanting to bother with them! LMFAO!) Dude I've simply dated this chick twice. It's not a big deal to me. Remember. I work with hot chicks and meet hot chicks at my part time everytime I work. Sht I've dropped my last ex PERIOD no contact no text no emails no calls NOTHING after dating her about two years as she had issues. I've got no problems dropping anyone who I think is a waste of time.

Now I don't put stock in anyones words real life or online. (I'm off POF as I got booted not because of this chick.) I'll see how she is (as we've seen each other only twice.) I'm not running to meet her constantly. She goes to college. Lives in Manhattan. Doesn't have a car.(No need for one in Manhattan.) And I'm not running to drive there EVEN for a chick. Hell I stopped talking to another cute 24 yo who lived a distance and she stopped talking to me. No big deal.

As for match I haven't been on there in like 16 years. (Was on for a short time meet two hot chicks. Both were crazy. No joke.) Met my past ex out when her friend approached me out and told me her friend thought I was beautiful. Saw the chick surrounded by dudes and when I saw her she was hot as hell. Dated her for like two years...She had a kid and I wasn't going to stay with her.

I'm relaxed on my own. I almost prefer my sanity and doing my own sht on my own. No homo.

If it works it works with this chick. fine. If it doesn't I'm the last dude on here to cry and complain about it. POF when I use it to pass downtime is nothing to me but a joke. Dudes who get worked up over it are the ones who are desperate.

If dudes get worked up over POF....I'd LOVE to see these dudes operate in real life...I know MANY people NOT PUA or that crap...and growing up I've seen many clowns constantly trying to get the hottest chicks (even good looking dudes really good looking) and after a while those types became pathetic to not only me..but other dudes who didn't need to try to "get" every chick to feel like "the man". Most of those dudes became and were straight up clown shoes.

I've been many places Vegas, A.C., NYC, Miam, Montreal, Italy, Mexico, Columbia (for family friend events) and never give a sht about hot chicks period. They're all people to me. Insecure and trying to make their ways through life just like everyone else.

If most of So Suave was around hot chicks all the time..growing up, knowing them, working with them etc. it's no big deal and no sweat when a hot chick is a clown herself. She becomes a running joke that is soon forgotten.

Who cares if you got her number? Yes that is a good start but only if it starts showing results. Women giving you their numbers these days is like them ordering a whopper from Burger King. It doesn't mean sh!t.

In my best of experiences you sweet talk them in chat with player supreme skills and that gets them so interested they have to meet you. After that point when we meet up thingd are hot and they are ready for sex. I am sorry if things don't work out for you like that.