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help me decide how to play her

How should I play her?

  • Wait till I leave, then tell her she fvcked up

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • Turn her into a wh0re and do a double penetration

    Votes: 5 29.4%
  • do the right thing and call her out now and walk away

    Votes: 11 64.7%

  • Total voters
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Centaurion

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For those who don't know :
Double penetration = one c*ck in the vagina, one c*ck in the ass

I've had a threesome with a dude and a girl. We fvcked her 50 ways to sunday and back. It's not gay/bi as long as you don't touch the other guy.
 

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Centaurion said:
For those who don't know :
Double penetration = one c*ck in the vagina, one c*ck in the ass

I've had a threesome with a dude and a girl. We fvcked her 50 ways to sunday and back. It's not gay/bi as long as you don't touch the other guy.

to be honest, i think the guys particpating in this kind of behavior don't think its gay or bi. i think they are simply living out a porno fetish fantasy they have.

just like guys who have sex with shemales wouldn't consider themselves gay or bi.

and in a way, these guys aren't gay / bi in the sense that they would never have sex with just a man. they wouldn't suck a guy off or f*ck him.

BUT, this type of behavior is not what i would call 'straight' behavior either.

i dont think there is a term for it. its kind of in a gray zone between bi and straight.

the reality is you cannot escape the truth that for most straight men engaging in sexual acts with another man (despite the fact you are both banging a chic) is disgusting. while for other men its a turn on - same for guys who enjoy watching a guy bang their wives.

you can't escape the truth that most straight guys are turned off by the notion of being around another naked man who is in the act of having an orgasm.

so while the mmf thing is not 'gay' or 'bi' in the strict sense of hte world, its not 'straight' behavior either.

and for those who say 'give me a break, you guys all watch this stuff in pornos' - i would say porno is different than real life. theres a lot of stuff peopel will watch in pornos that they wouldn't actually do in real life.

video is different than in the flesh.

being 2 inches away from some sweaty dude while he groans and moans and pounds away on a chic who is lying on top of me just seems really gay to me and would turn me off completely.
 

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joekerr31 said:
to be honest, i think the guys particpating in this kind of behavior don't think its gay or bi. i think they are simply living out a porno fetish fantasy they have.
That's it really. I wanted to try it out once. It has never happened again, and will not happen again in the future. :nono: But I've had numerous mff encounters, and will most likely have them in the future as well.

I should have clarified. We had set down some ground rules, ie NO body contact, no eyecontact, one body cavity for one person etc.

I don't consider myself gay/bi. I'm not aroused by other men, I don't like looking at naked men. I don't give a damn if a guy is gay/bi as long as they don't get in my personal space..

Btw, I do greek on women and women have given me rimjobs...does that make me gay/bi? :rolleyes:
 

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Centaurion said:
I don't consider myself gay/bi. I'm not aroused by other men, I don't like looking at naked men. I don't give a damn if a guy is gay/bi as long as they don't get in my personal space..

Btw, I do greek on women and women have given me rimjobs...does that make me gay/bi? :rolleyes:

while you may not be aroused, you don't know for sure that the other guy isn't getting turned on by your kawk.

and no getting rimmed by a chic doesn't make you gay. *ss play is very common with heterosexuals.

i think we'd all be shocked if we knew how many men had been fingered or f*cked with a dildo by a chic at some point.

in the strict sense you only cross the line into the gay/bi zone if you hold hands, spoon, kiss, suck or f*ck another guy, or let a guy suck or f*ck you.

at that point you are officially gay / bi.
 

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I just don't see any fun in being naked and that close with another guy performing sexual acts. Major turnoff.

To be honest, the only two guys I knew growing up who did that kind of thing were both known as man wh0res. Guys who would F anything and everything.

Not saying you are Macavoy, but I know it does take a certain mentality for that.

As for your original girl, like I said earlier, I would just run run run away.
 

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Wouldn't your balls have to touch to do a DP? In order to get into that position your legs and the other d00d's legs have to be touching...and rubbing against each other.

I could swear that was kinda gay.

Jokerr makes a good point about the washroom too. You'll just be a couple of guys alone...with your d!cks hard and out for both of you to see. Just like the showers at the gym I guess.



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I'm not accusing you of anything Mac!
 

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I agree with Jokers assessment about gay/bi and grey area. I would agree that this is a grey area, however I've been around enough stuff and have had the boys watch me bang skanks, so I've got no problem with a man seeing my hammer, all my hockey mates have seen it.

As for balls touching during a double penetration, not gonna happen, the only way I've seen it done, is guy A is lying on his back, girl is on top riding him and guy B is standing up, bent down, giving it to her in the ass, kinda a tuff position and you better come quick unless your strong and agile.

As for cordon's comments, everyone has their own comfortability level and your happy with where you are and I'm happy with where I am. I can honestly say I've done more than most men fantasize about and unfortunately as a result, I want to push the envelope even more. I wouldn't describe myself as a man wh0re but I can tell you there haven't been too many women I've turned down.

I remember waking up beside this troll one morning, was so drunk the night before no idea where I could even have met her, she was coyote ugly but I said screw it, if I fvcked her, I might as well remember it, so I got on the horse for one more ride.

Thunder ... who said that quote?
 

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i remember watching a tv show that was a documentary on porno. and they went to some place where they were shooting some swingers scene. so there were like 3 women and 2 guys. and the reporter (if you can call him that) who was doing narrative turned to the camera after and says "you'd think this would be exciting to watch. and while im sure it will look great on camera, to be honest with you it smells like *ss in there."

i think part of the prequisite to being a man wh*re is to have a dull sense of smell. because if you're hammering coyotes when you are both drunk, or gang bang some chic, i gotta image things dont always 'smell' nice.

thats one of my pet peeves. i will NOT bang a chic who doesn't smell nice. and i think the 'scent' of another man would turn me off even more than seeing his hairy balls.

and you wouldn't think something like this would be a problem, but there are TONS of people in the world with stinky breaths, smelly *sses, and crotches that don't stink but don't smell to nice either.

maybe i just have to fine a sense of smell.
 

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Getting in on this late. Well, here's my take:

If she thinks you're both "exclusive", then it's f*cked up what she's doing. I'd get rid of the b*tch. I'd call her out on it, because if you don't say anything, it's gonna look weird, but I would call her out in a serious, but nonchalant way. A your loss, I could care less, I'm the prize kinda way. You know the deal.
 

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Ahh Gawd! I can't stand bad breath and B.O. and stinky pu$$y either!!

I guess my sense of smell is like Wolverine's because any small amount of bad breath or B.O OR ass that comes my way I can totally taste it! *throws up*
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Ahh Gawd! I can't stand bad breath and B.O. and stinky pu$$y either!!

I guess my sense of smell is like Wolverine's because any small amount of bad breath or B.O OR ass that comes my way I can totally taste it! *throws up*
That reminds me of Forrest Gump "I'm sorry I ruined your New Year's Eve party, Lieutenant Dan. She tastes like cigarettes."
 

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MacAvoy said:
That reminds me of Forrest Gump "I'm sorry I ruined your New Year's Eve party, Lieutenant Dan. She tastes like cigarettes."
There's nothing worse than that putrid, wet ashtray breath on a chick. On ANYONE for that matter.

If you're gonna smoke you gotta at least have the decency to get rid of that stench on your breath and on your clothes.

At least the chick I been seeing lately has the common courtesy to make sure that she smells good by only smoking outside and giving herself a dash of perfume before she gets close. I can't stand it when it's all up in her hair and everything. Disgusting.

Thankfully I don't know what someone elses sweaty ballsack smells like, and although I don't have a lot of sexual hangups I don't think I ever want to find out....
 

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Update

I asked her about the backdoor session the other night. She said she was a little sore later that day, I asked her why she didn't say anything at the time. She said she didn't know what to expect. Note: there were people in the living room, and I kind of rushed it a bit (lol I know so unlike me) I put some KY on my finger, rimmed her with my finger, and put the tip of my finger in and moved it around for a whole 45 seconds maybe, then I put it in and did my business.

I really should have taken more time and added more lube. She said she was bleeding quite a bit, I explained that I felt rushed cuz there was other people in the room, apologized and said that I wished we could have did it properly.

Well today she sends me a txt asking to fvck her azz again. Well I gave it to her before I went to bed last night at 230, when she was gettin up for work, then when I woke up, the internet wasn't working, so I was bored and watched some porn and gave it a tug, so needless to say I was tuckered out.

So I think I'll give it to her in the next day or two. That'll warm her up for the DP if thats what I decide to do.

I almost brought it up the other day while I was banging her but I got too horny thinking about it and was about to come, so I didn't bother. I know I'm a pervert and I don't care.
 

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MacAvoy said:
... She separated from husband about 9 months ago, has a 2 yr old son.

Now she's constantly sending me txt msgs, up to 40 a day,
40 nsgs??? Something's wrong with her--- and you, if you respond to such!!!

Say "No" to ass hors!!!
 
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