Help me become a DJ, please!

[chell]

Hello,

I'm 18 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I don't really know the reason for this but I think it's something like this:

not physically attractive (glasses, acne, assymmetrical eyebrowes etc.) + no real social skills => my situation

Now, it's not like I'm desperate to get a girlfriend or to get laid but sometimes the thought will cross my mind that I'm inadequate because of the fact that I have / get neither and I'll feel bad about it.

Other times I'm just too busy to think about it too much.

Now, I obviously can't change my looks much (I was just born that way)... I'd probably consider myself a 3/10 attractiveness wise. What can I do to be able to get a gf and laid?

In short, I'd like to become more sucessful with girls...

I don't go out much to discos etc.. because I don't like the music and there are a lot of fights (I was threatened once while walking past a disco in the evening for no reason)...

So, what should I be working on? How can I become more of a DJ?! I'd love to BE ABLE to pull girls if I so choose! Although this really leads to my next problem: I see attractive girls every day but I just have no desire to be with them in a relationship... Sometimes I'll think man it'd be nice to have sex with her but that's it... I think I'm unable to actually like a girl for her personality etc because I have this image in my head of the perfect girl whose personality is a bit like mine but also the opposite in some ways...

As you probably know by now I'm very confused about being a man, a DJ, being able to pull women... It makes me feel ugly and inadequaty...

Please help a fellow guy!

 

[cw92]

scroll to the bottom of the page and hit a link that says "The DJ Bible"

 

[Al Moh.]

Hi chell,

the best way to start are three steps:

1.) Try to unlearn what you have learned. Nothing is holding you back right now, you are about to become a Don Juan. There are a lot of people with glasses who have girls, a lot of people have got acne and I've never heard of assymmetrical eyebrows being a problem before. From your past experiences you might have gotten the impression that you can't get girls. Forget about it. Everything is new now, this is your new chance and things might turn out differently.

2.) Read and study and try to understand. The two week reading guide for the Dj-Bible is a good place to start. Book of Pook is a must read, and Weapons of mass seduction + book of shuma gora are also great, but you have to udnerstand that the more you read right now, the less you are going to remember while being in the field.

3.) While reading the two week reading guide articles, try to apply what you've learned every single day. When you read about conversation, try to apply those principles on every person you meet, especially girls. When you read about attraction, apply the very same day. And so on...

When you are through with that you might want to report back and create some kind of journal. I think this helps a lot of people to keep progress. If you feel you can do it, start the Boot Camp.

 

[chell]

Hey guys,

thanks for the encouragement! I really appreciate it. I think one of my main problems that's holding me back is that I'm not social enough. Today's a good example: I got a new, really nice watch but the wrist-strap needed to be adjusted. I didn't really want to walk to the shop and have them do it because that seemed out of my comfort zone. Somehow, I just went there. Now my comfort zone has expanded.

I'll try to keep you guys and myself updated with my progress as well!

As for the DJ Bible, I can't find it on the page... Can you guys point me to it?

Thanks!

 

[Al Moh.]

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

There you go. Oh, and I meant the six week reading guide, not two weeks^^

 

[War Against Betaism]

There are seminars that have been uploaded on youtube that will help you a lot. The two most important aspects of seduction (confidence and kino) can be found in these two seminars:

Kino
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI&feature=related

Confidence
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfCSEb1vlP8

The first seminar on kino I found while downloading a bunch of dating material and uploaded myself, this one really stuck out because I thought kino was just about touching when it goes way deeper than that. This video goes into deep detail on kino, different kino techniques, and when to use them.

The second seminar is David X on confidence. I never really appreciated his methods until I listened to his seminar, from what people were saying of him he sounded like the biggest jackass ever, but in essence he combines the best elements of a jerk and a gentlemen. I think if there was any one of these dating gurus that this message board reflects, it is David X. If you look at his interviews he's one of the ugliest guys you'll ever see yet he gets all of these women. He even said he lost track of all the women he fvcked at 500.

I've uploaded the audios to David X's seminar and put them on my iPod, before I go to sleep and and when I wake up I listen to at least thirty minutes of it. People are often going for the quick fix but like David DeAngelo said, it usually takes a month or two of reading and listening to the material for it to stick. David D recommends that his material be reviewed at least a couple times a week for the next couple months.

 

[chell]

Thanks for the link. I think I'll start with the bootcamp as I have about 0 confidence right now...

I always thought that you had to be really good looking and be born with an outgoing personality to get women but it seems that with a lot of reading and practice I might actually be able to turn into the DJ I want to be...

Thanks guys for giving me all that information and motivating me!

I really appreciate it!