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Hey folks,
I'm new here and I seek advice. first off I am going to tell a story hopefully I won't get luaghed at too bad :(

alright, I went out with these 3 chicks at once about 3 weeks ago. my friend had set this up, it was mainly a date with this one chick who we will call red in this story. It was these chicks prom night and she wanted to go out. which in my mind I was thinking to myself is kind of retarded why not just go out sometime next week, but seeing as how prom night is all special and stuff for girls and suppost to be there night to remember I went. alright so here I am going out with these 3 chicks at once but the date is with red and tagging along for the night are brown,black, friend, and friends gf. all of us meet up and we decide who is riding with me, because friend and I had discussed prior that he and gf want to be alone. so red of course, brown, and black are riding with me. we are on our way to go out, I am conversating well and have all three of these girls right where I want maintaining the conversation and they are pretty much digging me. about 20 mins later I get butterflies for some really really odd reason, then I end up puking all over myself. they end up ltao and I am embarassed as hell, then I stop at a burger king and friend pulls over with us and I am ready to go home, but the girls are like no no just clean up and still come. so i did and we went and ate. end of the night over all having a good time and winning over red, they waited around at the end of the night. I knew she was wanting me to ask for her # but I was too embarassed because of the prior event. so I end up leaving with no #. black had left her wallet in my car.

so now I am having to relay messages to my friend to give to gf to tell red. so I tell him to ask her if she would like to go out again. red said she would. since black left her wallet my car I got friend to give me her email so I could ask her how she wants me to get it back to her, she told me to just send it through friend. btw friend and black do not like each other at all. so I send the wallet, friend tells me that black is good for information, but don't trust her with anything important and use her wisely. so after asking red if she wants to go out again, we try to setup another date but no one has been able to get in contact with her. I sent her and email, but she doesn't seem to check it frequently. so then I get the idea to get black to call red on a saturday and see if she wants to go out, she calls and she tells me that red said "she is going out the movies". so I figured she is already lost interest and seeking someone else. I then proceed to go out by myself after talking to black. I then come back and black ask me if I would like to go tomorrow. btw black has a bad rep (i.e. slut, low standards) from what friend and gf told me. so I think to myself for a min and I'm like hell why not. so I tell black yeah we will go out tomorrow. (extra info: comes to find out after this date with black, she has played red by not even mentioning my name she pretty much just asked her "what are you doing today?" when she called)

now me and black go out the next day, we go see star wars. this is the first date and me I am just horny pretty much not wanting anything serious, just a **** buddy. so we are watching the movie I am just being flirty and bs. a bit of kino on her part has been taking place in during the movie (i.e.sitting really close, shoulder to shoulder). she then says she is cold I had previously bought a shirt, so I covered her with it to be nice. near the end of the movie I have no clue why but, I kissed her on the cheek. so after the movie we go eat, then go to a park. we pretty much just played around, we sit and talk for a while behind some bushes then proceed to make out, yes this is the first date and already making out. so then I begin to start rubbing her and stuff and ask her if she wants to have sex. she says yes. so we leave and head toward the destination, on the way there I am still rubbing her to keep her in the mood, then all of the sudden it kills over she says she isn't ready, that she doesn't want to move to fast. so we get to her car, and she ask me if I am mad I tell her no I respect her decision. we then proceed to kiss again, with tongue and she tells me she likes me a lot.
 
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She didn't tell Red because she wanted you for herself!

The question is who do you want? If you mess with this girl it is going to get back to Red!!
 

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I then tell her for some dumb reason that I would like to go out again.

we end up going out again which was this past saturday and she wanted me to meet the parents,so I did. we leave to go out, still kino is taking place, btw after she told me to stop last week she held my hand and started rubbing it. so at the end of the night we end up having sex, but before the sex she ask " is all you want sex?" I tell her " if that's what you want, i don't care to be friends and have sex" then she tells me "no, no, I like you a lot" in my head I am thinking " damn it, she is going to want to date". I then proceed to have sex with her and then take her home. before I even get home she sends me an email :/ (she isn't letting me breathe) I really wish I could have went out with red though she is way hotter, but since she found out I went out with black it has killed it. black tells everyone everything it seems and is a compulsive liar, also she is very obsessive. she told her little group of friends consisting of red that I had begged her for sex on date #1. black constently talks about me to the group also. more than likely she is going to tell the group we had sex too after she had told me she isn't going to tell anyone. anyways I would like to bang her a few more times maybe, but any clue on how to drop her? she doesn't know where I live or have my phone#. I just don't want a dating relationship, I just want a **** buddy. Should I just keep this girl on the side til something better or what? more than likely she is going to want to go out again this weekend.
 
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That was stupid!

I never take a no from a lady who has previously shown me interest unless she gives it to me directly, be that by phone or in person.

You were warned not to trust black, but you did anyway. See where it got you. You could be with someone you actually like now!

Blow black off. Tell your friend, his gf and the group how she played you and red. Tell her you're disgusted with how she played you, and never talk to her again. Block her email, and don't make contact with her again in your life.

Why be a willing victim?
 

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Originally posted by sexual_intellectual
That was stupid!

I never take a no from a lady who has previously shown me interest unless she gives it to me directly, be that by phone or in person.

You were warned not to trust black, but you did anyway. See where it got you. You could be with someone you actually like now!

Blow black off. Tell your friend, his gf and the group how she played you and red. Tell her you're disgusted with how she played you, and never talk to her again. Block her email, and don't make contact with her again in your life.

Why be a willing victim?
indeed I shouldn't have, i didn't think getting her to call was going to be that big of a deal though. thing is if I drop her your way it is going to cause a big ruckus within the group of red,black,brown, gf, and friend. friend doesn't want me to do it that way because gf will get involved and it will be havoc.

I am thinking take black out one or two more times, no sex or kino. then drop her.
 

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Damn. I wish we all had problems like these. Instead, we are dealing with the little BS games, while this guy is picking which one to f**k.
 

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Be a man and let her know whats up. Tell her you just want to be 'friends.' And then tell red that black wanted you and all that. You can easily still pull red out of all this. Let everyone know what kind of person black really is... (these names suck by the way, you gotta be more creative).
 

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Originally posted by GrimPhallic
Be a man and let her know whats up. Tell her you just want to be 'friends.' And then tell red that black wanted you and all that. You can easily still pull red out of all this. Let everyone know what kind of person black really is... (these names suck by the way, you gotta be more creative).
everyone already knows what kind of person she is :(
 
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