ive liked this girl for like a few weeks now and she keeps sending mixed messages like one day last week she bent down to pick up a pen and put her head rite on my lap and stayed till the teacher yelled (i know it sounds like a lie but it isn't), on other days she like touches me when she walks by and still others she completely ignores me. i recently got my license and i showed it to her and she asked "can you drive me around sometime?" i said "yes." and she finished by saying "thanks Chris." so basicly i want to know what i should do because ive been playing hard to get and acting as if i didn't like her, pretty much what's my next step?
help interpeting what a girl said
- Thread starter cjfoshu
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The girl's job is to get your attention and make you want to pursue her. She did her job. A guy's job is to pursue her if he is interested. You are NOT doing your job.
Think of an idea for a date, a specific plan and time. Then you go up to her and ask her to go do the specific thing at a specific time. If she likes you (which she seems to) then she will say yes unless it's a bad time...and if it is she will offer an alternative time. Once you set up the date you keep it and if there is chemistry you attempt to kiss her. It's really quite simple...
Think of an idea for a date, a specific plan and time. Then you go up to her and ask her to go do the specific thing at a specific time. If she likes you (which she seems to) then she will say yes unless it's a bad time...and if it is she will offer an alternative time. Once you set up the date you keep it and if there is chemistry you attempt to kiss her. It's really quite simple...
ma man... what needs to be interpreted? she's doin all this stuff... it's time YOU start smashing... it seems like you're clueless though so first make sure she's not trying to just use you for your car or something, do it on your own terms and jus start by tryin to **** her... that is what you want? correct or no?
And in your spare time, read the damn Bible, n00b.
Definitely don't let her use you for your car. I've determined from experience that if you go out of your way at all to take a girl somewhere in a vehicle, this act will instantly and dramatically lower her attraction for you. Even if the place is close by and it wasn't going out of your way much...Don't even let her get the impression that you're doing her any favors -- until after you've sex3d her or made out or something.
afrojiggles
Don Juan
you should hae been bit ****y and funny with her,lol anyway drive her around to some quite place and score the panties
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
girls are naturals at giving mixed signals... *****es.. I love em.. I wouldnt think to much about it.. go for it
TruthHurts
Don Juan
Jeezes..just invite her over your house and f.ck her already... cause obviously girl not shy, so if your not hitting it somebody else is/will
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
translation - "would you be my lap dog"... "thank you very much"
The girls who will ask you out tend to be masculinized hors that, if you're looking for anything serious, you should stay away from. The feminine girls require you to ask them out, for the most part.
You just have to be semi-smooth about it and not get needy or clingy around them. Once you've gone out with her a time or two and gotten her more hooked, then she might pursuing you a bit more (and you can back off somewhat).
Being a man is all about taking action, tho, not hoping for it to come to you.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
Drive her to your house and smash the p****. No date required if she's diggin you for real.
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
lemme guess she has no car and needs a chauffeur to take her to the mall?
Figure out if shes more into you or getting a ride. If she doesn't care about driving then park at her house, and give her a "ride". lol
Figure out if shes more into you or getting a ride. If she doesn't care about driving then park at her house, and give her a "ride". lol
I believe this behavior is somewhat immature. It seems like she's unsure of how to act in order to get your attention, but not to give out her feelings too much. Probably, she's afraid that she might lose your appreciation if she shows too much, but if she stays 'cold' and 'distant', you will think that she has lost interest, therefore there is a kind of mixture.
Possibly she's waiting for you to make a first step.
Give it a try and act naturally. You've got nothing to lose.
Good luck, lad!
Possibly she's waiting for you to make a first step.
Give it a try and act naturally. You've got nothing to lose.
Good luck, lad!
