Help im a "Nice Guy" again

[vdk]

If your mind is strong enough, continue your friendship with her, but turn up the kino and C&F routine. Eventually, she will get so horny she will have no choice but to jump you. Meanwhile as the 'oven' is getting hotter, you talk about dates of women and bring them to your house while she is around. After all you guys are only friends right?

Evil? Yes, but there goes Mr Nice Guy image

 

[Brak]

Originally posted by vdk
If your mind is strong enough, continue your friendship with her, but turn up the kino and C&F routine. Eventually, she will get so horny she will have no choice but to jump you. Meanwhile as the 'oven' is getting hotter, you talk about dates of women and bring them to your house while she is around. After all you guys are only friends right?

Evil? Yes, but there goes Mr Nice Guy image

lol,
I totally understand
But thats just not the type of guy i am. Im sure i will talk to her again. Im just gonna let a few days pass before i call her wait till she calls.
Im just taking some time to clear my head and what not. I will deffinately miss her if we never talk again but maybe its for the best by saving me from getting really attached then her ditching me.
I wish i could convince myself that i can be an A**hole and just hit it and be done. But i did like her and thought of her more than just a peice of a**

 

[JustDoItAlways]

I really don't know why some guys have such a big problem with actually fvcking a girl.

And yes that means you Brak.

God gave you a dyck and girls know Moma Nature gave you a dyck. And we all know what Moma Nature/God gave women.

If you are waiting for it to turn into some meaningful relationship first; SURPRISE, relationships almost always start with a fvck.

In my view, they don't actually start until you fvck. Women being known to lead guys on and such and only fvck guys that they are actually attracted to versus just leading on.

And don't wait for a chick to blatantly come out and say "I know we've just been friends till now but I really want you to fvck me now." It has never happened in the history of womankind.

Chicks leave little hints and put themselves into positions where the guy can take the lead and make the moves which leads to them fvcking. This has been the case in 99.9% of all fvcking which has occurred in history.

Anytime a chick puts herself in that position, it is your duty from today on to make that move. She can always say "NO" and, believe me, every chick in the world is flattered when they actually get to say NO.

They do not hold it against you. They just give in and fvck you the second time you put those moves on her.

Sometimes they don't say NO. They say "God, I've been waiting so long for this to happen."

But then I know you don't really care to fvck. At least that's what you said.

 

[Brak]

If i just wanted to Fvck her i could of done it already. I can get some a** from chicks thats not the problem i had at all.
The reason why i didnt with her even when she was ready and willing was b/c i wanted her to see that i was different from the rest of the guys she has been with.
I wanted her to see that i thought of her more than just some chick i played nice with for awhile just so i can nail her. AND the fact that i didnt go through with it confused her, cuz any other guy would of just done it.
Now if she thinks bad about me for not giving her what she wanted that night, then its her loss.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Brak, it's not HER loss, it's YOUR'S.

Anyway, it's not a big deal. Search a few of my posts over the last few days. I'm on a little "for crap sakes just make a move and fvck her" mission right now.

The:

- "respect her wishes"; and the,

- "show her I care about her as a long-term relationship prospect"; and the,

- "show her I care about her as a person rather than just as a sexual object"; and the,

- "if she says No she means No"...

... trains of thought just does not work in Real Life TM. Women are not like men. We think the above should be rules to live by but chicks brains do not process the same as guys. They do not react to the above like we think they should.

The DJ rules, which are more like the experience of thousands of DJs before you rather than BS rules, do actually work in RL TM. Apply them and find out.

 

[Krassus]

Yea, i gotta agree with Just here. I really doubt she sees you as being better for not sleeping with her. She knows you want to, she she likely sees you as weak instead. Speaking of which, this chick isn't LTR material anyway. She's obviously got issues. She said herself that no one wants her other than you. And whether that's really true or not, she sees it that way: herself as damaged goods (for whatever irrational reason) and you as the only guy desparate enough to want them.

 

[NatureGuy]

Krassus's most recent comment is
right on. She gave you alot of signals
(albeit a bit confused) and you didn't
act. I think the way you've been
treating her has been fine, but you need to take that extra action (that she's
basically been waiting for) to consumate
this relationship !

 

[Brak]

Thanks guys,
Im gonna go ahead and let off on the nice guy role. If i have something i want to do on my own with my friends then im gonna do it. Im not gonna sit around and wait for her to call me or anything like that.
If i get that signal from her again its on
But in the mean time im gonna open my eyes to all the other chicks out there that have interest.
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As far as her have issues ill have to agree. She is one of those types with the really low self esteem. I have to constantly remind her about herself and how hot she is. That in itself is a HUGE turn off.