Help getting GF's cousin

[myst24]

Hahaha yeaaah...

Okay so I've been going out with this girl for one and a half years now, and we're both in grade 12. We have an open relationship so basically anything goes.

Problem is, this Saturday I met her cousin, and this girl was....well... she was pretty to say the very least. Now if I wasn't going out with her cousin I would imagine this to be pretty easy, getting the girl. What I want to do is basically go out with them both at the same time; now my girlfriend is ok with this, not ecstatic, but ok with it. So how can I get this girl to go out with me even though I'm dating her cousin.

Me and my girlfriend are 18, she is 16, and she lives far away. Don't say "next" this girl because I'm not desperate, and I think I'm pretty good at attracting girls, but the problem is getting her to date me.

I've asked my friends but all i get is the typical AFC response, so no "next"ing, or advice to tell me to be nice to my girl.

 

[cola]

Hahaha yeaaah...

Okay so I've been going out with this girl for one and a half years now, and we're both in grade 12. We have an open relationship so basically anything goes.

Problem is, this Saturday I met her cousin, and this girl was....well... she was pretty to say the very least. Now if I wasn't going out with her cousin I would imagine this to be pretty easy, getting the girl. What I want to do is basically go out with them both at the same time; now my girlfriend is ok with this, not ecstatic, but ok with it. So how can I get this girl to go out with me even though I'm dating her cousin.

Me and my girlfriend are 18, she is 16, and she lives far away. Don't say "next" this girl because I'm not desperate, and I think I'm pretty good at attracting girls, but the problem is getting her to date me.

I've asked my friends but all i get is the typical AFC response, so no "next"ing, or advice to tell me to be nice to my girl.

Your girlfriend has issues for even considering this request. What the hell is a open relationship? If you can do it to whoever you want then why bother putting a title on it.

 

[myst24]

Your girlfriend has issues for even considering this request. What the hell is a open relationship? If you can do it to whoever you want then why bother putting a title on it.

So yeah this is why I said no AFC replies! Thanks.
Obviously she is really into me because I know what I'm doing and she doesn't want to lose me. She says she wants to make me happy. Please keep in mind we are still both young and don't want to be tied down (me more than her).
If it's the title you are worried about you can pretend we don't have a title, happy?

Oh and I do not want to dump my girlfriend.

 

[cola]

.. first and foremost.. i am not an afc.. thanks..
1. it has nothing to do with what your doing.. how attractive your mom tells you you are or how many david deangelo books you drooled in..
any.. female.. who.. would.. let.. you.. bang.. her.. cousin.. and.. still.. call .. you.. her.. boyfriend.. is .. a .. crazy.. b!tch..
get it?
deuces

 

[oakraiderz2]

.. first and foremost.. i am not an afc.. thanks..
1. it has nothing to do with what your doing.. how attractive your mom tells you you are or how many david deangelo books you drooled in..
any.. female.. who.. would.. let.. you.. bang.. her.. cousin.. and.. still.. call .. you.. her.. boyfriend.. is .. a .. crazy.. b!tch..
get it?
deuces

Im gonna have to agree with this. If it was a girl she wasnt related to, thats one thing...but her cousin...

 

[myst24]

.. first and foremost.. i am not an afc.. thanks..
1. it has nothing to do with what your doing.. how attractive your mom tells you you are or how many david deangelo books you drooled in..
any.. female.. who.. would.. let.. you.. bang.. her.. cousin.. and.. still.. call .. you.. her.. boyfriend.. is .. a .. crazy.. b!tch..
get it?
deuces

Yes, let's all make mom jokes now. You realize you only have one number right, I mean in your list? Also somehow you inferred that I have read David Deangelo, from what evidence, I don't know.

Anyways thanks for your advice, it really helped me. Can anyone give me real advice? My girlfriend and I just happen to be really cool with each other and she's not that close with her SECOND cousin (maybe I should have mentioned that). My girlfriend and I just want each other to be happy.

BTW ellipses.. don't .. make .. you .. right ..

 

[cola]

Eclipses don't make me right but ... they look cool when expressing an opinion.. wait.. here's one..

..you..and..your...girlfriend..are..2..weird..fukerZ
/done with thread
K thx
Bye

 

[Scars]

I'm sorry bro, but this has bad news written all over it. I've been in an "open" relationship before. It's just like FWB, eventually ONE of you will get emotionally attached. I think the fact you even brought it up to your "gf" already struck a nerve. I can see this turning into a total ***** fest between her and her cousin and leaving you dry with neither of them.

 

[myst24]

Finally, thank you scars for posting the first intelligent post in this thread. I realize this could end bad, I mean she was mad even when I brought it up, but I talked to her and stuff and got her to be cool with it.

Basically I want a serious relationship with my girlfriend, just not now. I know we are really good together but I need a while (4 years off in university) just to fool around and date other people.

Regardless of how it may turn out, I still want to try. I feel as though no matter what happens I can at least get my girlfriend back, and that is what really matters.

I just need to figure out what I'm going to tell her cousin.

 

[Warrior74]

I just need to figure out what I'm going to tell her cousin.

I've only had a threesome two times...both times there were with my girlfriend in college. One was with her best friend, the other was with a friend of mine who I was cheating with on the side.

The first one, I think they talked about it...not sure, but they came over, we had a bottle of wine and played truth or dare. I kissed my girl, she kissed my girl, she kissed me...the dares got down to naked under the covers, done deal.

The second, my girl wanted another girl. The girl I was cheating with wanted to see what it was like to be with another girl, I told both of em, they both came over and spent about 20 mins with each other while I watched and video taped it and then we all went to it.

In both cases someone got hurt. The first time her best friend wanted me when my girl wasn't around, but I wasn't feeling her like that so I said no. She turned into my biggest hater.

The second time my girl got insecure because the other chic was hotter and I got insecure because I thought she was into the other chic more than me. (dumb right? I know! I was in Luuuve! lol.)

So keep your head about you and your heart in check and expect it not to end well be but happy if it does.

Maybe you can let your girl do the work on approaching the cousin? Or just approach the cousin and maybe hit it first and then talk to her about the threesome, that way you've established a base level of intimacy with her. Or you could just go for a wild game of truth or dare. Good luck.

 

[myst24]

The second time my girl got insecure because the other chic was hotter and I got insecure because I thought she was into the other chic more than me. (dumb right? I know! I was in Luuuve! lol.)

Awwww. Haha. Thanks for the advice.

So I may be meeting up with my girl and her cousin tomorrow at one of my buddies house. There will be alcohol and all that. I just don't know, I can't picture myself hitting on this girl while her cousin is RIGHT there...Any ideas?

Funny thing is even though I've always wanted a threesome, I picture a threesome as the easier option right now. I figure going out with them both will be harder than just a threesome.

Also I'm ready to be hurt, but some risks are worth it.

Good luck

Thanks

 

[Cabal]

If your open-girlfriend is hot, and her cousin is hot, and your open-girlfriend knows your intentions, I say go for it. You've got nothing to hide, and with an open-relationship (where neither are attached emotionally yet, or she wouldn't be ok with it and you wouldn't be thinking it), you've got nothing to lose and a good time to gain. Go after her cousin exactly the way you went after her (I presume from your nature given this thread and of your relationship you've spun plates before).

 

[myst24]

I don't know the only problem is she knows I'm going out with her cousin so why would she be interested in me. I mean it's not like I can just tell her me and her cousin are in an open relationship, and if she doesn't know she'll friendzone me. So I'm thinking I'll just go heavy kino?

It's weird because I'll most likely only see her cousin when my girlfriend is there soo...how is that going to work out?

 

[DonJuan11]

Awwww. Haha. Thanks for the advice.

So I may be meeting up with my girl and her cousin tomorrow at one of my buddies house. There will be alcohol and all that. I just don't know, I can't picture myself hitting on this girl while her cousin is RIGHT there...Any ideas?

Funny thing is even though I've always wanted a threesome, I picture a threesome as the easier option right now. I figure going out with them both will be harder than just a threesome.

You have to isolate the cousin, get her a little drunk, and then gradually bring up the idea of a threesome if that's your cup of tea.

Just curious, you would be ok if your girlfriend said yes to a threesome with two 6'2 football players? They could touch her anywhere they wanted and put it anywhere they wanted? You would continue to date her and have sex with her after she did it with both of them at the same time?

 

[Kevin Feng]

Well you’re never going to find out unless you try. Honestly, the more I run game, the more I realize that IOI’s are such unreliable signals. Some girls are more sexually liberal than others.

So anyway, what you need to do is you need to escalate the situation, you need to just simply ask her on a date (day 2) and you need to figure out how to game her so you don’t end up in the LJBF zone

Honestly, if you just physically escalate, you’d be surprised with how much you can get away with.

It sounds like she’s pretty cool with you, as an experiment I’d suggest you just invite her back to your place and just start escalating, don’t make this into some giant convoluted process, because it isn’t. Check this out:

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2007/01/another-apb-bootcamp-lay-anti-lmr-and.html

-Kevin

 

[myst24]

Well you’re never going to find out unless you try. Honestly, the more I run game, the more I realize that IOI’s are such unreliable signals. Some girls are more sexually liberal than others.

So anyway, what you need to do is you need to escalate the situation, you need to just simply ask her on a date (day 2) and you need to figure out how to game her so you don’t end up in the LJBF zone

Honestly, if you just physically escalate, you’d be surprised with how much you can get away with.

It sounds like she’s pretty cool with you, as an experiment I’d suggest you just invite her back to your place and just start escalating, don’t make this into some giant convoluted process, because it isn’t. Check this out:

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2007/01/another-apb-bootcamp-lay-anti-lmr-and.html

-Kevin

I just realized this wasn't a reply to my topic, but the one above.
I was pretty confused haha.