Alright let me try to keep it short. A year ago there I was, dating 3 different women simultaneously. Life was great until I met Ana (fake name to protect identity). I was stunned, she seemed to have all the qualities I was looking for in a woman. One problem, she was MARRIED. We started dating, so now I was dating 4 at the time...super Alpha I thought I was. But slowly I started losing interest for the others and put all my efforts towards Ana. We dated for a year until got caught by her husband. He forgave her and she decided to stay with him instead of starting something new with me. I'm now sad, frustrated, depressed and feel like a total AFC. I know what I did was wrong but need some real advice. Thanks
Help! From Alpha back to AFC?
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1. The number of women you date does not make you alpha. A true alpha doesn't break down into depression without women around. So you weren't really an alpha to begin with, you just arrogantly thought so.
2. What SHE did was wrong, you weren't the one betraying someone you comitted to.
3. Don't go for married or taken women in the future to save yourself the misery.
Absorb this wisdom, decide to get over this and do not repeat your mistake. Feeling sorry for yourself anymore won't help.
2. What SHE did was wrong, you weren't the one betraying someone you comitted to.
3. Don't go for married or taken women in the future to save yourself the misery.
Absorb this wisdom, decide to get over this and do not repeat your mistake. Feeling sorry for yourself anymore won't help.
^^^ READ AND HEED.....If you were a true alpha you wouldn't give a flying fvck if she left or not,you sir are no alpha.
If it helps your ego to call me not alpha thats fine, but there's more context on my post besides discussing my alpha or AFC status. We are here to help and learn not to try destroy another man's self esteem, unless that's part of being "alpha" too lol. Please avoid vague answers and add some intellectual inputs to the post.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
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That's true, thanks a lot.
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Did you lick her cvnt while her husband was sticking her? Cuz that is same as svcking husband's d1ck! 
Are you butthurt? Might was your wife that I ****ed.Did you lick her cvnt while her husband was sticking her? Cuz that is same as svcking husband's d1ck!
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Have you ever thought of pursuing single women? Or even better, have you thought of not getting emotionally involved with married/in a relationship women even if you **** them?
Ana didn't leave her husband because he's a cuck, but you're not much better either since you fell in love with her when all she wanted was a rock hard **** and some fun.
Ana didn't leave her husband because he's a cuck, but you're not much better either since you fell in love with her when all she wanted was a rock hard **** and some fun.
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That's the way it usually happens when you fvck a woman who's officially taken. The mistress I had was engaged to a beta dude, and she cheated on him with me. She eventually married him instead of leaving me, although I didn't expect her to leave him.
If you're going to fvck a woman who's taken, expect nothing, remain emotionally detached, and just enjoy the ride.
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