Help for the virgins on this board

[Master of the Universe]

Hola DJs,

I was checking some of the threads on this board, and it occured to me that there are a lot of virgins here.

Now, those of you who have been here for a while know that when I came here I was a virgin, and I stayed that way for a while.

My reasoning was that I was waiting for someone special to be my first, and then slowly I discovered that this was just an excuse I was trying to sell to myself. The simple fact was that I was scared.

From there I decided to lose my virginity... that was a very difficult thing for me to do. Throughout that experience I posted about my progress, frustrations, and fears on a private board (ClubPDX) because at the time I didn't feel comfortable sharing that kind of stuff with the public.

But I've been thinking that maybe my experience, fears, frustrations, and adventures leading from virgin to non-virgin might be useful for some of the guys here.

So over the next day or so I'll post some of the field reports from the other site. And I hope that they may be useful for someone here.

MotU

 

[Julian]

Post it up dawg.

 

[hjsknksbm]

Ya Bro, that would be very helpful to a lot of the people here.

 

[jakethasnake]

so... did you lose it yet? It really ain't no thang, MOTU. It's nothing at all.

 

[jakethasnake]

Btw... I had no idea you were into gay clubs ('Club PDX'?):


http://www.clubpdx.com/

 

[Mr_Pink]

A gloryhole maze??

Wow... now that is some f*cked up repugnant ass sh*t right there...



-Mr. Pink

 

[Craig Reeves]

Well...

Just remember that some people are virgins by choice, and would rather be that way until they're married.

 

[MVPlaya]

Some advice that probably won't help you.

Well, I just thought it would be funny to link this thread here:
How To Make Her Orgasm.

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Originally posted by Craig Reeves
Just remember that some people are virgins by choice, and would rather be that way until they're married.

Then they don't need to worry... its not like we will force them to have sex or something...

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
Btw... I had no idea you were into gay clubs ('Club PDX'?):


http://www.clubpdx.com/

Don't mind that. Club PDX was made by sexPDX from ASF, where they discussed pickup tactics.

Only about 2 weeks after the seduction club PDX was established, they found out there's a gay club with this name.

So MOTU is straight, he's not talking about about losing his anal cherry

 

[Superman X]

Hahahahaha Club PDX is a gay club. That's hilarious

 

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by Master of the Universe
that experience I posted about my progress, frustrations, and fears on a private board (ClubPDX)

I went to ClubPDX's website and this is what they stated:

http://www.clubpdx.com/policy.htm
"I understand the Continental Club Baths of this city is a private health club established exclusively for men sharing homosexual interests. I declare by making this application that I accept the nature and character of this club and further that I am neither offended nor alarmed by the conduct, character and nature of this club and its membership. My sole purpose in joining is to willingly participate within and abide by the scope of the club rules. Failure to do so may lead to suspension of my membership."

M o t U, what types of frustration were you having?

 

[Ice Cold]

ROTFLMAO

 

[Master of the Universe]

Craig wrote,

Just remember that some people are virgins by choice, and would rather be that way until they're married.

Well, if they truly are a virgin by choice, then they can just enjoy reading my adventures or read something else altogether. I have no problem with those who are virgins by choice.

But I'm willing to bet my lucky dime that 90% of those "virgins by choice" are not so. Either they can't get the girl, they are afraid, or they want to lose their virginity but have some hangup or obstacle.

In fact, they may truly think that they are "virgins by choice" - I know I did. I had little if any trouble getting girls, and since I didn't sleep with them, I figured that I was a virgin by choice.

It took a while to realize that I was just scared.

Superman X wrote,

Hahahahaha Club PDX is a gay club. That's hilarious

Hahaha... yeah that is funny. When the forum was created no one had checked out that the name Club PDX is also a gay site, but by then it was too late.


Anyway guys, I'll post a few of my FRs leading up to my first LR later on today.

MotU

 

[So pimp its scary]

I just want to point out that by definition a virgin is someone that hasn't been penetrated by the male pen!s.

So, by definition, women should be more excited about losing their virginity...

I'm just playing. But really tho, Sex is nothing spectacular... so just go out and find someone that doesn't make you cringe, and go for it...

 

[jakethasnake]

I agree. Once you just do it and get sex/virginity out of the fvcking way, a whole new world will open up to you. You'll realize that there are more important/fascinating/deeper things than women or sex - and be someone who changes and moves things - a real man.

(Well, a real man also knows and enjoys sex on a regular basis, but it doesn't consume his every thought like a nervous virgin or a sex-addict is apt to do.)

 

[Ice Cold]

WHO THE HELL CARES WHAT'S A VIRGIN?

MOTU - YOU WRITE GREAT STUFF. I WANNA READ YOUR TAKE ON THIS

 

[So pimp its scary]

I wasn't bashing this post, I was just making a subtle argument as to why men shouldn't consider losing their virginity a huge event, in that even the term virgin is meant to be women specific.

I am however surprised how, as a virgin, you were able to write something as effective as the Boot Camp to help men get laid.
You write some good shyte, keep it up.

 

[Ian1983]

Strange kinda a question.
I'm the big V and I seem to have found myself in the situation where I could be getting some pretty soon. My question is leading up to the encounter, spending time around her (ie both underwear in bed), I'm obvioucly constantly turned on, although shull we say I'm not always to attention. But after 5-6 hours of this, my testicles and lower abdomen hurts like a buggar. It can get to a point where its hard to concentrated to actually take a leak, and it'll be like that until the next morning sometimes (goes while I'm asleep). Its getting less frequent, and I'm not in that kinda state as much as I was before, but I'm just wondering is the pain normal. I've never got to this level of contact with a girl before, and maybe the muscles in the region are weak cause they really haven't had to put up with the strain before. Its barely noticeable if I'm with her for say 2-3 hours, but after 6-7 hours with her grinding her self against the little fella, it tends to get sore.
BTW, I know I should have taken the opportunities by now, I'm just new to this, and I've only known her a week tomorrow

 

[Devestator]

I'm a virgin too. I love this site. While there is a growth industry to exploit lonely guys with bogus information (like charging $99 for Doc Love's "system") this site provides free and useful information with no pop-ups! While I think this site makes money somewhere, it seems to be a largely altruistic endeavor to improve men.

Anyway, I just did a number close today, and went out on a date the past weekend. I made a declaration of sexual interest to a girl, which I've never done before. I believe it's an important step.

I'm going to go to another campus where I'm not known to try bolder pickups to get immediate pootang. I'm thinking where I'd normally go for the number close, I'll just ask to get laid. What do you think?

 

[Ice Cold]

Its barely noticeable if I'm with her for say 2-3 hours, but after 6-7 hours with her grinding her self against the little fella, it tends to get sore.
BTW, I know I should have taken the opportunities by now, I'm just new to this, and I've only known her a week tomorrow

hahahahahhahahahahahahah

Oh my god!

That's called blue balls. Dude - **** this hoe or at least make her blow you...

You can break your mojo with this. I'm serious. And I'm sure those muscles had plenty of training from ms rosy.

If you can't break her shield after 2 hours, tell her you want her to blow you. Directly and consecutively. Simple commands: I want you to... "Kneel down" "open your mouth" "say AAAAaaahhh" "put it in your mouth" "suck it" etc

It actually works, because they know where its going, but have time to try to predict what'll happen next. And after they obeyed the first three commands, they will obey everything else.


If she doesn't blow you someway in after 2 hours, then just yank it off and do your thing. She'll probably join you or at least will see that you're self sufficient.