Help.. Ex is back -

[billy_bronx]

Firstly if you have taken your time to read this please do help by replying... :trouble:

ok my ex who i went out with twice and it hadn't worked out previously as I was such a geek around women so she left after getting bored lol. There is no shame in admitting it as ive changed now. Since i broke up with her about 2 years ago i changed myself have been out with approx 20 or so girls.

So she rings me out of the blue and we've been chatting and she said she wants to be mates. Since last week shes rang me non stop although i havent rang her not even once. And everytime we talk she keeps reminding of things that happened while we were going out.

Anyways she asked me to go cinema with her tomorrow and suddenly i don't know how to act or what to do around her?? any help would be appreciated.

Ps: is it worth trying anything as i know she wont give me sex because she is still a Virgin and she keeps banging on about how she wont have sex before marraige. Although id say she is a 8/9 out of 10.

 

[hell695]

just do what the dj bible says give her a chance but make her pursue you

 

[Giovanni-DTC]

Hi Billy,

May I ask you? what do YOU want to achieve? What's your goal with her?

Once you know your goal, you'll be able to know what to do around her.

Cheers.

Giovanni

 

[penkitten]

the return of the fox...

 

[Kamikazi1231]

Dude if you're single you might as well go for it. Maybe you'll have a little fun. Just keep in mind you've been out with those 20 or so girls since her and you are now out of her league. Don't pay for her, open doors, anything. She's an ex and if she just wants to get together to catch up that's cool. And if she wants to meet you for more then she can work to get you this time. And even though like you said sex probably won't happen, a warm body is a warm body dude. Maybe you'll get a little something.

 

[billy_bronx]

i don't know what i want, as in i dont think there is any point in having a relationship with her is she won't have sex? is there. or maybe i can keep her and still see other women as i have done in the past? i simply have no idea....................

 

[Giovanni-DTC]

Oh, and by the way, you can download "Mobile Dating Advisor" and install it on your cell phone, you can find TONS of interesting questions, teasing examples, techniques and other tips that will help you "Keep things going" whenever you feel stuck.

See my signature for the URL.

Cheers

Giovanni

 

[billy_bronx]

o well shes paying anyways so ill just enjoy the movie.. ill let u guys know how it goes tomorrow ...cheers

 

[skirtChaser]

why waste your time?......you already said she will not put out, isn't there something more important to do?...like getting laid

 

[skirtChaser]

Oh, and by the way, you can download "Mobile Dating Advisor" and install it on your cell phone, you can find TONS of interesting questions, teasing examples, techniques and other tips that will help you "Keep things going" whenever you feel stuck.

See my signature for the URL.

Cheers

Giovanni

if I have to look up a quote on my cell phone everytime I meet a chick, I need to go home and work on my game, that's useless tech quotes

 

[DavenJuan]

why waste your time?......you already said she will not put out, isn't there something more important to do?...like getting laid

lol..totally agree.

by you going out with her its like she controls the entire situation. she comes outta no where and gets what she wants. let me tell you how this is gonna play out

shes back..she calls when she wants
you answer everytime. go out with her when she says lets go out
she stops calling when she is done feeding her own ego
now your stuck again on her and left an AFC

..save yourself the headahce and let the women find you, if shes truly interested in you then im sure shell still be around

 

[hell695]

well wats he got to lose he don't sound very attached?

 

[drak_ool]

well wats he got to lose he don't sound very attached?

huh...? his TIME! Billy, you ve been wit her twice, she didn't give it up and now you re considering the possibility of getting wit her again even if she won't f***k you... Do you really have that much time on your hands? are you really that bored?

this girl has you by the balls (proof: you posted about her, asking what to do), she s the one in control so your chances of getting laid are close to 0%.

 

[DavenJuan]

its not about what he has to lose, more so than what he has to gain. which seems like nothing

 

[billy_bronx]

thaks for ur help guys , me and her are going to a hotel on monday for "something we should have done a long time ago" as said by her ..lol :flowers:

 

[billy_bronx]

oh and by the way , she paid for the movies..lol and the popcorn and was all over me like a rash , but i kept her at bay soo now she wants more coz she dont think im desperate...yippikayaayy.loll

 

[j0n024]

Hmm something you guys should have done a long time ago? Yes I agreed at first that you should give her a chance but now it seems like she is actually using sex as something to take control of the situation, I mean she is probably going to think once you guys have sex you guys will be togethor then she will go out with you for a while then say the same **** as before about being bored. I say go and have sex with her but then DONT call her or anything if she keeps on pursing say you are going out with some other girl that night and KEEP DJ'ng! Do not go back to how you were before just because you had sex with her doesnt me you are with her! Good Luck.

 

[billy_bronx]

hey people its bin a long time...what can i say....

she wants to get married... ?