Domo_Arigatoo
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Okay well i've been on these forums for about a month, and decided to take action to see if what i learned has really helped me in real life situations.
So two nights ago i hit up one of these asian chicks i know 6.5 to chill. I've known her for about a year and we've both admitted attraction to eachother at some point. I have a thing for asian girls, otherwise i usually wouldn't be interested lol. Anyways i hit her up at around 11 p.m. and ask if she wants to go to a party and she's down. So i say, "Let's blaze" she comes to my friends house, we smoke some weed and then take off to the party. I start applying kino (more than i usually would because i used to ignore it's significance) right when she arrives, and escalate quickly. Once we arrive at the party, i have her used to my touch so i give her less attention/ignore her. Moving around and mingling with people as she follows behind. After a while i apply kino again, and i notice she's playing with her hair, laughing at my unfunny jokes, and her pupils are very dialated. So this continues for a while, party gets shut down, and we leave.
I enter a circle of random people and start talking (she enters as well) I tell jokes, make them laugh and some people compliment me on my hair (i have an afro lol) so say goodbye and start walking off by myself.
HB6.5 comes up from behind me and hugs me, then locks arms with me. In my mind i think i need to isolate her, so i walk away with her, but her friend comes following along and fvcks any chance of isolation i had up. We part ways and have about a 10 second hug and she plays some type of hand game with me as we talk (we've done this before when we were in "date-like" scenarios)
I'm almost positive i could have fawked her that night but her friend was staying the night and i didn't want things to be awkward so i set up another date for us to chill.
I call her two days later and schedule a date, "Lets go to the park, bring a blanket." She laughs and agrees without heasitation. At this point i'm thinking this is in the bag, i'm getting some sweet asian *****. She wants to get a tattoo the same day from one of my friends so i agree to go with her since she doesn't know the artist and i do. And she says, "You'll hold my hand right?" I say, "Maybe... it depends on how you behave" (Not those exact words but that's the impression i gave)
So she picks me up and right when i see her, it feels awkward, the vibe is not there like it was the last night, but she asks me to drive and i say sure, since i know where it is.
We have some normal conversation on the car ride there and we arrive, i introduce her to everyone, etc.
Then i try some kino with little to no reciprocation other than maybe a playful slap every now and then along with some accidental brushing. I try to escalate but i get heavy resistance.
At this point i'm confused, and it's starting to get boring.
Eventually the tattoo begins and and says, "Dommmm!" while holding out her hand
I smirk and say, "Patience"
when he fires up the machine i bring over a chair and hold her hand (fingers unlaced)
After about 20 mins i let go, and i re-establish the handhold every now and then. I even brush her arm a certain way to create an "anchor" to the intense physical experience she's feeling along with the rush of adrenaline, hoping i could brush her arm like that later to bring out the same feelings from her.
Anyways it took way longer than expected, 4 hours and it's way too late to go to the park. Afterwards i try kino again and she seems a bit stiff/reluctant so i just give up.
On the way back she drives, and i say in a last ditch effort,
Me: "Do you have any movies?"
Her: "Yeah, i do"
Me: "Let's go back to your place and watch a movie"
Her: "(Her female friend) is there you know..."
Okay that last line is still a mystery to me. It's as if she knew i asked that because i wanted to fvck, and said she couldn't because her friend was there. But she acknowledged my subtle proposition.
I"m not really sure, but i went to her house for about 40 mins, hung out and she said, "you should really get with, (girl i used to talk to) it seems like your weak game can get her"
Then i come back with another neg, i don't really remember what it was.
Then she brings up this guy in utah she might be interested in, and I say, "Shouldn't you be talking to (Her female friend) about something like that?"
then she changes subject and brags about how she's going to play him, etc.
This is a big turnoff. I tell her to take me home and she says, "I'm sure we'll be able to hang out again right?" i brush her question off and exit the car.
I'd like to hear opinions about how i should have acted in certain situations so i can know to avoid this in future "dates"
And any theory as to why she was acting different than the other night, other than smoking weed lol
So two nights ago i hit up one of these asian chicks i know 6.5 to chill. I've known her for about a year and we've both admitted attraction to eachother at some point. I have a thing for asian girls, otherwise i usually wouldn't be interested lol. Anyways i hit her up at around 11 p.m. and ask if she wants to go to a party and she's down. So i say, "Let's blaze" she comes to my friends house, we smoke some weed and then take off to the party. I start applying kino (more than i usually would because i used to ignore it's significance) right when she arrives, and escalate quickly. Once we arrive at the party, i have her used to my touch so i give her less attention/ignore her. Moving around and mingling with people as she follows behind. After a while i apply kino again, and i notice she's playing with her hair, laughing at my unfunny jokes, and her pupils are very dialated. So this continues for a while, party gets shut down, and we leave.
I enter a circle of random people and start talking (she enters as well) I tell jokes, make them laugh and some people compliment me on my hair (i have an afro lol) so say goodbye and start walking off by myself.
HB6.5 comes up from behind me and hugs me, then locks arms with me. In my mind i think i need to isolate her, so i walk away with her, but her friend comes following along and fvcks any chance of isolation i had up. We part ways and have about a 10 second hug and she plays some type of hand game with me as we talk (we've done this before when we were in "date-like" scenarios)
I'm almost positive i could have fawked her that night but her friend was staying the night and i didn't want things to be awkward so i set up another date for us to chill.
I call her two days later and schedule a date, "Lets go to the park, bring a blanket." She laughs and agrees without heasitation. At this point i'm thinking this is in the bag, i'm getting some sweet asian *****. She wants to get a tattoo the same day from one of my friends so i agree to go with her since she doesn't know the artist and i do. And she says, "You'll hold my hand right?" I say, "Maybe... it depends on how you behave" (Not those exact words but that's the impression i gave)
So she picks me up and right when i see her, it feels awkward, the vibe is not there like it was the last night, but she asks me to drive and i say sure, since i know where it is.
We have some normal conversation on the car ride there and we arrive, i introduce her to everyone, etc.
Then i try some kino with little to no reciprocation other than maybe a playful slap every now and then along with some accidental brushing. I try to escalate but i get heavy resistance.
At this point i'm confused, and it's starting to get boring.
Eventually the tattoo begins and and says, "Dommmm!" while holding out her hand
I smirk and say, "Patience"
when he fires up the machine i bring over a chair and hold her hand (fingers unlaced)
After about 20 mins i let go, and i re-establish the handhold every now and then. I even brush her arm a certain way to create an "anchor" to the intense physical experience she's feeling along with the rush of adrenaline, hoping i could brush her arm like that later to bring out the same feelings from her.
Anyways it took way longer than expected, 4 hours and it's way too late to go to the park. Afterwards i try kino again and she seems a bit stiff/reluctant so i just give up.
On the way back she drives, and i say in a last ditch effort,
Me: "Do you have any movies?"
Her: "Yeah, i do"
Me: "Let's go back to your place and watch a movie"
Her: "(Her female friend) is there you know..."
Okay that last line is still a mystery to me. It's as if she knew i asked that because i wanted to fvck, and said she couldn't because her friend was there. But she acknowledged my subtle proposition.
I"m not really sure, but i went to her house for about 40 mins, hung out and she said, "you should really get with, (girl i used to talk to) it seems like your weak game can get her"
Then i come back with another neg, i don't really remember what it was.
Then she brings up this guy in utah she might be interested in, and I say, "Shouldn't you be talking to (Her female friend) about something like that?"
then she changes subject and brags about how she's going to play him, etc.
This is a big turnoff. I tell her to take me home and she says, "I'm sure we'll be able to hang out again right?" i brush her question off and exit the car.
I'd like to hear opinions about how i should have acted in certain situations so i can know to avoid this in future "dates"
And any theory as to why she was acting different than the other night, other than smoking weed lol
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