I'm in a bit of a tough situation here. Basically I've been spinning two plates at the same time, A and B. I met them both at pretty much the same time.
For a long while both A and B were pretty much unaware of each other until I discovered they were good friends, figures hey? And then A found out about B and B vice versa.
A got pissed off and upset about it, I decided to drop A as a plate and stick with B.
As soon as I had dropped A as a plate I began to notice my game slipping with B, I could feel myself get more intense and start 'suffocating the fire' so to speak. Anyway one night about two weeks later, I got speaking to A again and did apologise about the circumstances she found out and such.
Anyway whilst I was encountering difficulty with B I got a taxi back with A, we lived on the same university campus so I didn't think anything of it until she invited me in for a cup of tea. Split second decision and I go in. I knew where it was leading so I went anyway.
A became worried about B finding out saying that she's a good friend to her and that. I said B didn't have to find out, nobody has done anything wrong etc and that I hadn't spoken to B much recently.
Fast forward a few days and A texts me saying she wants no more in this 'situation' that it's clear I really like B and what not. I let her cool off and then talk to her again a few days later.
A pulls the LJBF card on me. I tell her we always were friends anyway, she becomes shocked. We continue on as if nothing in the past had happened.
I keep speaking to A as summer has started, we don't live far apart nor does B.
B was on holiday, I didn't hear much from her but when she came back we 'spoke' briefly saying right now with summer we don't want intense. I take that as a sign to play it cool so I've been doing that and that's pretty good as well.
So A everything is okay. So is B.
When uni comes round the corner again, I don't know what to do, I do really like both, I'm cautious of hurting A by choosing B, but hurting and losing B by picking A.
I speak to A a lot more, B has a tendency of taking time to respond to texts (over summer anyway)
I want to see A over summer and fvck and what not. The same goes for B.
They are both top girls. Both GOOD friends, and both somehow again unaware of each other.
I feel bad playing them both but obviously you lot can see I actually care about the repercussions of what I do.
So what the hell do I do? How do I choose?
Anything anyone can offer will be a huge help!
For a long while both A and B were pretty much unaware of each other until I discovered they were good friends, figures hey? And then A found out about B and B vice versa.
A got pissed off and upset about it, I decided to drop A as a plate and stick with B.
As soon as I had dropped A as a plate I began to notice my game slipping with B, I could feel myself get more intense and start 'suffocating the fire' so to speak. Anyway one night about two weeks later, I got speaking to A again and did apologise about the circumstances she found out and such.
Anyway whilst I was encountering difficulty with B I got a taxi back with A, we lived on the same university campus so I didn't think anything of it until she invited me in for a cup of tea. Split second decision and I go in. I knew where it was leading so I went anyway.
A became worried about B finding out saying that she's a good friend to her and that. I said B didn't have to find out, nobody has done anything wrong etc and that I hadn't spoken to B much recently.
Fast forward a few days and A texts me saying she wants no more in this 'situation' that it's clear I really like B and what not. I let her cool off and then talk to her again a few days later.
A pulls the LJBF card on me. I tell her we always were friends anyway, she becomes shocked. We continue on as if nothing in the past had happened.
I keep speaking to A as summer has started, we don't live far apart nor does B.
B was on holiday, I didn't hear much from her but when she came back we 'spoke' briefly saying right now with summer we don't want intense. I take that as a sign to play it cool so I've been doing that and that's pretty good as well.
So A everything is okay. So is B.
When uni comes round the corner again, I don't know what to do, I do really like both, I'm cautious of hurting A by choosing B, but hurting and losing B by picking A.
I speak to A a lot more, B has a tendency of taking time to respond to texts (over summer anyway)
I want to see A over summer and fvck and what not. The same goes for B.
They are both top girls. Both GOOD friends, and both somehow again unaware of each other.
I feel bad playing them both but obviously you lot can see I actually care about the repercussions of what I do.
So what the hell do I do? How do I choose?
Anything anyone can offer will be a huge help!
