Rocko
Senior Don Juan
Hey guys, I just wanted to post this up to anyone who may be stuck in the beginning to try and help em out with a few confidence issues and women problems.
CONFIDENCE. One thing I do EVERYDAY to help boost my confidence is tell myself a few affirmations, like "Women find me attractive...I have nothing to fear...I am the prize..." you get the picture. By doing this, you may convince your subconscious that you truly are these things (i think, therefore i am). Whenever you get rejected, don't think "man no wonder she doesn't like me, im so ugly / boring / lame..." by doing this, all you do is instill bad thoughts that may balance out your affirmations. Thinking positive, telling yourself that you are the prize, also helps get rid of despiration, which may be the downfall of many men out there. They become too desperate, too obsessed with one woman, giving them a bad case of one-itis, and a guaranteed pass to "friendship" (do not pass go, do not collect 200 dollars).
SMILE. Another trick i use to help attract women is the all-powerful smile. I'm sure most of you already know this but for those that don't, you should always smile. Would you really want to go talk to someone who is so depressing that they make you sad? No, so why would any woman want that.
INTERACT. I can't tell you how important this is for human beings. A simple "hey" to someone you've never met may help your confidence. No one will think you are weird for saying it, and they sure as hell will NOT get angry at you for it. If you don't have trouble in saying "hi" to others, you can upgrade it to a mini conversation. This will help out your social skills and your game by knowing what to say and what not to say.
GO OUT. Don't sit at home all day playing WoW or some other video game, sure you may pwn at the game, but how does that help you in real life? (unless of course you found a HB10 who is totally into video games...trust me, theres like NONE). There is always something fun to do, just make the most of what you have (for those of you without licenses it may be a bit harder). What is there to loose, i guarantee you that unless you live in a town with only 75 people, most people will not know who you are, or what your history is. This gives you a clear advantage because no one knows you, you can be who you really are and not care. So some chick you've never seen before ends up thinking your crazy for approaching her...WHO CARES?? There are plenty of women outside the comfort of your home just waiting to be taken, you only live once, so why not make this life an interesting one
Oh ya, almost forgot, staying at home with Rosie Palms doesn't count as interaction, so anytime you get the urge to just beat it, remind yourself that you could be going out and living life.
DO NOT DO: One thing that affects most men is that they become to attached with one woman, giving EVERYTHING for them. This, as the DJ bible as put so well, makes you an "emotional tampon." The women will think that they are the prize, and that if you treat them like a treasure, they can do much better, all you are there for is to boost her confidence and pamper her. DO NOT call women once you get their number or when you miss their call. Remember, it is them that want to talk to you, not vice versa.
I'm a little tired atm so when I get my head clear, I will post more if you guys want. Feel free to post any more pointers or criticism on this post, all views are welcome on the topic.
CONFIDENCE. One thing I do EVERYDAY to help boost my confidence is tell myself a few affirmations, like "Women find me attractive...I have nothing to fear...I am the prize..." you get the picture. By doing this, you may convince your subconscious that you truly are these things (i think, therefore i am). Whenever you get rejected, don't think "man no wonder she doesn't like me, im so ugly / boring / lame..." by doing this, all you do is instill bad thoughts that may balance out your affirmations. Thinking positive, telling yourself that you are the prize, also helps get rid of despiration, which may be the downfall of many men out there. They become too desperate, too obsessed with one woman, giving them a bad case of one-itis, and a guaranteed pass to "friendship" (do not pass go, do not collect 200 dollars).
SMILE. Another trick i use to help attract women is the all-powerful smile. I'm sure most of you already know this but for those that don't, you should always smile. Would you really want to go talk to someone who is so depressing that they make you sad? No, so why would any woman want that.
INTERACT. I can't tell you how important this is for human beings. A simple "hey" to someone you've never met may help your confidence. No one will think you are weird for saying it, and they sure as hell will NOT get angry at you for it. If you don't have trouble in saying "hi" to others, you can upgrade it to a mini conversation. This will help out your social skills and your game by knowing what to say and what not to say.
GO OUT. Don't sit at home all day playing WoW or some other video game, sure you may pwn at the game, but how does that help you in real life? (unless of course you found a HB10 who is totally into video games...trust me, theres like NONE). There is always something fun to do, just make the most of what you have (for those of you without licenses it may be a bit harder). What is there to loose, i guarantee you that unless you live in a town with only 75 people, most people will not know who you are, or what your history is. This gives you a clear advantage because no one knows you, you can be who you really are and not care. So some chick you've never seen before ends up thinking your crazy for approaching her...WHO CARES?? There are plenty of women outside the comfort of your home just waiting to be taken, you only live once, so why not make this life an interesting one
Oh ya, almost forgot, staying at home with Rosie Palms doesn't count as interaction, so anytime you get the urge to just beat it, remind yourself that you could be going out and living life.DO NOT DO: One thing that affects most men is that they become to attached with one woman, giving EVERYTHING for them. This, as the DJ bible as put so well, makes you an "emotional tampon." The women will think that they are the prize, and that if you treat them like a treasure, they can do much better, all you are there for is to boost her confidence and pamper her. DO NOT call women once you get their number or when you miss their call. Remember, it is them that want to talk to you, not vice versa.
I'm a little tired atm so when I get my head clear, I will post more if you guys want. Feel free to post any more pointers or criticism on this post, all views are welcome on the topic.
