HELp about getting head for first time!

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I think i could get some from my girl i just am a little confused. Please try to help me. If i am making out wit her then how do i get her to go down there? I am not gonna ask her cause that would feel kind of awkward if you know what i mean. So what do I do? Do I just push her down and throw off my pants!! lol I was thinking that I would grab her hand and put it on my ****, and maybe she would get the picture... Is that a good idea? But seriously help me out. PLese respond ASAP!!
 
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Originally posted by dante82
I think i could get some from my girl i just am a little confused. Please try to help me. If i am making out wit her then how do i get her to go down there? I am not gonna ask her cause that would feel kind of awkward if you know what i mean. So what do I do? Do I just push her down and throw off my pants!! lol I was thinking that I would grab her hand and put it on my ****, and maybe she would get the picture... Is that a good idea? But seriously help me out. PLese respond ASAP!!
ask her if she wants to get dirty when ur makin out, then ask her to go down on u
 

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When you say "my girl" I assume she's your girlfriend.

If she has never done it before, you need to verbalize it. Be like "hey I'd like to try somethin new". As long as you get the point across, it doesn't matter how you do it.

If she HAS done it before with a different guy, just put her hand down there, she should get the picture.

It's a great feeling really, especially if the girl has a fat tongue. My best head came from a kinda-chubby girl who never did it before, even better than this one girl that did it to me recently and she been with wayyy too many guys (yeah I know, shut up).
 

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WAIT

so do i say "hey go down on me" i am confused. if i were to put her hand on my **** do i put it inside or outside my pants?
 

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You could always try going down on her first. They usually get the idea and return the favor. Lead by example, man.
 

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^ I agree with this guy.

How far have you gone? Usually, girls reciprocate, if they are willing to do it. Some girls just refuse, which in that case, you're stuck, unless you want to have a restraining order on you.

Eat her out first. Make sure she's clean. This is how you go around doing this, it's quite simple.

After making out and foreplay, just whisper in her ear softly: "wash yourself down there -- I wanna make you feel good."

Eat her out, blow her mind with it. If she doesn't reciprocate right after you finish with her, tell her you're going to wash off. Remember to wash your pubes too. You don't want her smelling that.

Make sure you're trimmed well. If you want head often, you have to make her first time giving it to you pleasant, so she is not reluctant to go down on you in the future.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
When you say "my girl" I assume she's your girlfriend.

If she has never done it before, you need to verbalize it. Be like "hey I'd like to try somethin new". As long as you get the point across, it doesn't matter how you do it.

If she HAS done it before with a different guy, just put her hand down there, she should get the picture.

It's a great feeling really, especially if the girl has a fat tongue. My best head came from a kinda-chubby girl who never did it before, even better than this one girl that did it to me recently and she been with wayyy too many guys (yeah I know, shut up).
your too much of a wh*re sebastian
 

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Just take her hand and put it over your crotch of your pants and rub a bit. If she doesn't get the idea, reach down and unbutton your pants and do the same to hers. Zip your fly down a bit and put her hand inside your pants but over your underwear. If she STILL doesn't get it, then just say "I want head." The worst she can say is "no."
 

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HAHA i remember the first time i ever gave a guy head. Ya know what he asked me? "I want you to suck on my lollipop" and then he just whipped it out. HE was a DJ. I thought it was so cute and funny so i just had to laugh and then i did it.
 

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hey

would the loly pop thing really work? it sounds like she might laugh at me!! any other help is suggested! what would happen if i just pulled it out during making out and placed her hand on it? im sure she is willing to do it but not sure how to get her to... ASAP thx for all replies
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
your too much of a wh*re sebastian
Yes I know :(

But I've never had sex before so I'm kinda happy about that.
 

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Ya know, it's really funny the I stumbled on this thread because I got head for the first time from my girlfriend yesterday. The funny thing is, I wasn't really expecting it. It just happened. You have to be seductive. She's not going to probably do it if you just blatantly ask her. I had my hand on her thigh while we were laying down, then I started to nibble on her neck. (Drives her crazy). She stuck her hand partly down my pants. I put my hand down and unzipped it for her. After she started jacking me off, she told me "you know, I'd do something but you might get a lil "too happy." I told her nooo, please go ahead. Haha, and she just did it.


In my opinion, eating a girl out is kind of the hard way to do it. I mean, if you have no problem with doing that all the time, go for it. But, I myself am not a big fan of going down on a chick.( Unless of course she's clean. But hey, you can't smell HIV ;)


Anyways, good luck with it man.
 

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Eternal, what are you a caveman or something? "I want head" ....... he says in caveman voice. LOL
No, not a caveman...*Tosses club out cave.*

I just think it's a helluva lot better than "I want you to suck on my lollipop." That just sounds pedofilish and wrong as hell. Not to mention pathetic.

If you are a guy, why hide that you want something by trying to have a cute name for it?
 

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If she's young she won't volunteer it, I agree with whoever said to go down on her first. Girls tend to reciprocate a lot more than guys do and most likely she will do it or ask about it. You can ask, nicely, though, if she doesn't.

Here's what not to do: DO NOT push her head down. Many guys think that eye to pen1s = mouth to pen1s. I can't state how wrong that is.

Also, if you do get her down on your, have the courtesy to make noise. If you are a Greek statue the whole time she won't do it again.
 

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Just look her deep in the eyes, and in your most sensitive, romantic tone of voice say...

"It's not gonna suck itself, baby."





Oh wait, I mean don't do that.
 

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I don't really like that one... I dono maybe it works, but it doesn't sound right.
 
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