Hello and some questions :D

[Trolley]

Hi guys,

Ive been reading this site now for about two weeks... so im an ultimate newbie, and still an AFC... but i think ive just gotten off the fence and am sliding down

Anyway, little background info- im 20, never had a GF in my life, still got my V card, i'd say im about an 7.5-8 in the looks department (hard to say). Living in college, meeting lots of new girlies

Im at the point where i just think '**** it all' becacuse i know nothing is going to happen when i go out, i just try to have fun. (its hard when all your friends say 'im tired' and go home )


Anyway... Theres this chick here at college (our aussie term for living near university, in a campus) who id say is about an HB9, shes georgous. Met her last week, and had a couple of good conversations with her. A few days after that, we needed to catch the shuttle bus home. It was full, my lap was available, so she asked and of course i said YES (in a cool, calm manner of course, i had discovered this site then). Well, i was expecting her to sit on my knee's of course, but no she sat square on my c0ck... That was a good bus trip home, and gave me a cheeky smile when she got off me. (more good conversation while she was sitting on me). After that, she went away for a few days, and didnt see her again till last night (didnt talk to her). But i did catch her looking at me, and had a few split second's of eye contact a couple of times at dinner.

So now i get the impression she's interested. You opinions? I really dont have any experience here... i mean ive had one girl come on to me before, hard, infront of her parents (which made it a 'no' hehe) but thats about it. Too much of a nice guy, way way way too much of a nice guy.

So im trying to get my friends to go out so ill have someone to lean on tommorow night (wednesday, which is when all college peoples go out) and see if i can get some eye contact, kino, conversation, and just really try the 'game' for the first time ever. (on an HB9!! oh ****.)


One quick bad thing, another guy is interested in her. Hes jealous as hell, people know he wants her, and got really angy at a few guys that danced with her a week or so ago. Im not worried about him, but do i really have a chance, hes good looking, very fit... but he doesnt have sosuave



That was kinda long winded, but i really appreciate any replies. Hooray for first post!

EDIT: Me being the incredibly mature person i am did not get a boner (thank god for distractions). But i do remember thinking "gee i could get use to this "

 

[quest]

i always take special interest in my australian brothers

listen mate, you're in a very dangerous spot.

you like this girl. and she PROBABLY likes you.

you've read enough from this site to get her, but if you want to keep her, which i assume you do, you need alot more time spent here. you'll need to completely change your mindset, this can't have happened yet.

so you're going out to the same place she'll be on wednesday night?

MY ADVICE, talk to her for betweeen 30-60minutes, but like, in 5-15 minute bursts.

so far, this is easy.

THIS is the hard bit.

START CONVERSATIONS WITH OTHER GIRLS. make them laugh and laugh with them. she won't know what you're saying to them, she can't hear. even if she's saying "GET AWAY FROM ME YOU FREAK!" smile and hug her "you're so cute!!" -exageration, but i'm sure you get what i mean.

If you start conversation with 10-15 girls (and keep those going for 10-20 minutes), a good 4 or 5 of them will seek you out to talk again later (possibly alot more, depending on the conversations).

Suddenly, your not the shy guy that she thinks is cute. your the guy she thought was shy, but is clearly alot of fun, your still cute, and obviously alot of girls think it, so maybe your better then cute! maybe your hot.

If she wants you, she'll have to work for you. most girls are just yas scared as working for d*ck as most guys are working for p*ssy. So you'll still have more to do.

But you need to learn more before you can hold this girl. You need to change that mindset.

 

[Black_Italian]

Were in Aus are you from?

She likes you DONT F*CK IT UP.

Just do what quest said you will be fine.

I would just like to add 1 thing get her alone and then TELL HER YOUR A NINJA. Girls love ninjas itl work trust me.

 

[cA^]

ninja eh ? haha ill try it on the girl that i was after awhile ago but got back with her ex (SHE dropped me hints today that they broke up again AHAHA ive been using dj skillz on her

btw i live in tas for u au guys :]

 

[quest]

Originally posted by cA^
ninja eh ? haha ill try it on the girl that i was after awhile ago but got back with her ex (SHE dropped me hints today that they broke up again AHAHA ive been using dj skillz on her

btw i live in tas for u au guys :]

so the girl you talk about is your sister? and she recently broke up with your dad?

better get in before your uncle does!

hehe.

 

[Trolley]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Were in Aus are you from?

She likes you DONT F*CK IT UP.

Just do what quest said you will be fine.

I would just like to add 1 thing get her alone and then TELL HER YOUR A NINJA. Girls love ninjas itl work trust me.

Haha, funny you say that. Ive been training in ninjitsu/taijutsu for the last ~6 months (its nothing, but still better than nothing). Ive got the ninja boots and all

Yeah just ****ed up an oppertunity for a C/F at supper... she was reaching over me getting dohnuts, went for the second one, and in my head i said 'you really shouldnt eat to many of those... theyll go straight to your bum' . But i froze, and she walked away. Now shes out with friends and the -other- guy, so ill busy myself with something else...


EDIT: im from wollongong

 

[Trolley]

Well, just got back from the city. Said 'hey' as she walked past - response was a bright 'HI!' then she kept walking (with a female escort).

After that i just felt... get ****3d. NEXT! She's ignoring me, why should i pay her any attention? she was getting plenty tonight from other guys.

 

[Black_Italian]

I say you do something crazy next time you see her take of all your cloths run up to her and scream as loud as you can then grab your cloths and run away screaming out I AM A NINJA I AM A NINJA I AM A NINJA

If this doesnt work then i know absolutley nothing about women.

Ninja Out

 

[crowes22]

Wait, maybe I missed something. Why are you nexting her?

 

[Trolley]

Originally posted by crowes22
Wait, maybe I missed something. Why are you nexting her?

Well, she just did'nt seem interested. But i cant really next her- im still too much of an AFC.


Oh and heres a fasion tip - wearing a cashmere jumper means girls will be feeling you all night

 

[crowes22]

Originally posted by Trolley
Well, she just did'nt seem interested. But i cant really next her- im still too much of an AFC.

So, AFC's get laid. Quit being so hard on yourself. I think you are reading too much w/out doing something. Forget ****y/funny, it's stupid in my book. Like 1 thing you say is gonna make her drop her panties, won't happen. It's a pathetic scam.

You next her b4 you ask her out/for the #? Then plan on doing lots of nexting. Maybe I'm missing some thing but I haven't seen anything in what you wrote that would have me personally at the point of nexting. She might flake, you are young, but so what. Girls that age are bad about it.

 

[quest]

next time you see her.

remove all your clothes.

pose like you're riding a motorbike

and say

bing bing bing bing beh beeeeh beeeeehh de de dooooooo da da da diiiiiiiiiiiing.

everyone knows the crazy frog. and that will make her laugh.

 

[penkitten]

read the bible , theres lots of ways to improve yourself.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by penkitten
read the bible , theres lots of ways to improve yourself.

if anyone needs to read the bible to know how to improve themselves. they're f*cked to start with.

you're a fat blob. get in shape. you don't need a bible.

you're stupid. get smart. come on? bible. no.

you don't have any friends? stop being a stupid, fat blob and chances are you'll make some.

 

[Trolley]

Haha quest nice one but i hate that damn frog as much as the next man.

Im smart, im fit, im confident, ive got friends, but i never pick up. go figure! Obviously im not doing something right, so now im doing things differently (or at least trying). Might see her this arvo at uni anyway.

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

If this gal just sat on your lap like that, you should have got her number then and there. It's still not too late it seems, but there is usually just a window of opportunity. Take advantage if it while you still can.
If you see her walking by again as you mentioned earlier, just say "Hey, come over here for a second". Get her number, she's not going to bite your head off. All she can say is no, but she probably won't....
No reason to just let her breeze on by.......

 

[Trolley]

The thing is, i already know what her number is. Infront of me is a big list of everyones number in college- every resident got one

Mobile number is a different matter, but im not even sure if she has one (only been in australia for a few weeks)