Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

[salinechow]

You know what. I owe this thread and community some authenticity. I did this once, for a few weeks with a girl I met on OKC. This girl could type and connect with me in a way I always dreamed. Deep, meaningful, intellectually, stimulating. She must have spent hours typing to me. And, she was my type of gorgeous. Super slim, dark eyes, fit, exoctic. I learned though that she was an introvert and shy. I pressed for dates. She would coyly respond. Got her # but she was to shy for a call. Then we would text. Our lives. It was alomost starting to feel like a relationship.

I loved this girls mind. Then I loved the way she looked.

TIll one day I realized....What the F^ck am I doing!?

She could have been a total fake. A total catfish even.

I realized I was dating someone IN MY OWN MIND!

It wasn't REAL. It was T.V in my head. Thank gosh for red pills. Thank gosh I unplugged. Thank gosh I had plates to turn to. I was autonomously filling my own head with f^cking emails and pictures!

No matter what she really was, shy or fake. It never materialized into REAL interaction.

I want things. I need things. I am human. Yet, you have to realize. NOTHING is real. Unless its REAL.

OP. Unplug now!

One of the pillars of sanity I learned around here. "Trust only ACTION"

ACTION is REAL.

 

[devilkingx2]

The rules that apply to this sort of thing:

1. If she likes you, you can do no wrong; if she doesn't like you, you can do nothing right

2. The sliding scales

Hot <--------------> Ewww
Confident <--------------> insecure.

The closer the girl is to the left on those the less responsive she'll be to compliments and nice guy bull****. The closer to the right she is the less she'll be responsive to alpha stuff.

So basically if she's insecure/ugly she'll swoon if you call her pretty but if she's hot or confident she'll just be like "yeah, thanks" and think "4th time today huh? Slow day."

However if she likes you you could be a literal axe murderer and she'd find your danger exciting and hot

 

[salinechow]

@devilkingx2 Wise and concise, print worthy.

 

[Jack Hensy]

saline chow and devilkingx2. Both brilliant posts. Re-reading posts a 3rd time.
I like this site because the men on here think logically and mathematically about female behavior.

Women are emotional and we can look at what they "respond to" versus what they "say." We can look at what is "real" versus what is "fantasy."
Women can weave a web of deception that does not make sense, can twist a man up, and play on emotions which captivates us.
But from a males perspective, logically women do make sense when we look at the big picture of female behavior.

You can mathematically deduce a woman down to her very core and put the odds in your favor on how she will respond using specific actions.

 

[devilkingx2]

saline chow and devilkingx2. Both brilliant posts. Re-reading posts a 3rd time.
I like this site because the men on here think logically and mathematically about female behavior.

Women are emotional and we can look at what they "respond to" versus what they "say." We can look at what is "real" versus what is "fantasy."
Women can weave a web of deception that does not make sense, can twist a man up, and play on emotions which captivates us.
But from a males perspective, logically women do make sense when we look at the big picture of female behavior.

You can mathematically deduce a woman down to her very core and put the odds in your favor on how she will respond using specific actions.

Generally the reason women don't make sense is that you'd never do what they do and you find their actions bizarre

But then again, you start understanding women when you start asking yourself "if I responded to Y with X, even though I never normally would, what would that mean?"

So you gotta turn "why won't she text back" to "why wouldn't I text a girl back?" And you'll get your answer and she'll make perfect sense(but probably come off as total b*tch)