Originally posted by Maverick001
Hey RobLB,
Just spend your time with your friends and family and surround yourself with that support and kinship.
Maybe after X-Mas you might want to think about leaving that small town of yours, if possible. New year, new beginnings, new surroundings, larger pool of women for you to swim in, etc. The best way to get over a woman is to get over another one, as they say.
Yeah, divorce is a grind, but it will pass. It will get better, guaranteed. I know what of I speak because I just got through one myself. You`re going to be allright.
Cheers,
Mav
Great freaking post. In this one horse town I reside in, "Anchorage" there is aproximatley a 6-7 to 1 male to female ratio. For a woman, that is like a virtual sexual smorgasbord. She can literally date/f**K seven different men in a week. The attitudes of the women reflect this male to female ratio. An average looking woman, with a pretty face, a pair of tits, a thin waist and a "bubble" a$$ is literally Carmen Electra. She has men (three at a time) knocking over chairs to light her cigarette (while she simply giggles at the absudrity). She never pays for drinks, and can name the places she wants to eat (free) dinners at. All in exchange for the pink of course. She gets a massive ego, her cell rings off the hook, and she only sleeps alone when she feels like it.
Lets take a look at this situation in a new perspective. Lets say the woman above is named "Lilly" "Lilly" now moves to a bigger town, say Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, Beverly Hills, Oahu, Hawaii, or maybe New York City.......What happens now. Well, her smaller bra size, the fact that she has no tan, and doesnt play in the gym, means that her legs arent that quite as toned/ hott when compared to a woman 3 years younger, who lives in the tanning salon, and the gym, has the legs of a Playmate, and the face of an angel. Lets say that she is in a nighclub/bar, where there are 25 of these gym/beach bunnies, and herself, and 25 guys. She all of a sudden goes from a commodity, to a number. She finds herself lighting her own cigarettes, buying her own (GASP!) drinks, and even leaving alone. She finds herself sparking conversations with available men, and finds herself "****-blocked" by other women! She leaves the bar/nighclub alone to possibly sleep alone, and not by choice. Or, she finds men that will f**k her, and then ignore her the next time she is seen out.
Lets look at a man, in a similar situation. "Brad" "Brad" in Anchorage is kind of fu*ked. And not the way he wants to get f*cked. He is an average joe, with a decent job, hopes dreams and aspirations. In Anchorage, he isnt meeting women, and when he does, has to compete with 5-6 other men for her time, attention, affection, ect. Lots of time at different spots, and lots of time going home alone. Finally, "Brad" pays off some bills, and packs his sh*t, and gets the Hell out of Anchorage. Lets say he chooses, Oahu, gets a similar job to the one he had in Anchorage. Now, women are women there are still gold diggers, and still shallow, and still as warped as they are in Anchorage, but there exists a one to one ratio, AND of different cultures, some Hawaiian, some Far Eastern, some European, some American. And then there is the height of the tourist season, and tons of drunk women, out to have a "good time" sans the boyfriend, and hubbys.
"Brad" is going to have a "funner" time in Oahu than Anchorage, meeting and bedding women just do the math, and you'll see why. Yes, he still needs to have confidence approaching them, and use Kino and flirt, body language, the whole 9 yards. But if he is going to go salmon snagging, he is better off doing it in a big river where they are spawning, than a stagnant pond.
