HB9 - Text her or Next her?

Jariel

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he says she does but she also says that her life is just a little bit fcuked up atm
She probably does like you and like your attention, but this is ******** for "I don't want to get involved".

Don't pursue her. In fact, do the opposite and withdraw all the attention you have been giving her. This will play on her mind and show that you're a cool and confident guy who doesn't need to pursue her. It may work in your favour, but at the very least it will let you move on.
 

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She's not interested enough in you. At the moment your just a guy she likes flirting with at work to make the time go by faster. I agree with Jariel, withdraw all your attention and she'll come chasing. Build up a strong level of attraction for a few weeks like this, then ask her out again. If she says something stupid again, NEXT.



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Tell her, you appreciate her mail, but you enjoy it a 1000x more when you talk to her in person. But listen, dont initiate the conversation. If she comes to you in a few days time, she'l be like:"Why dont you reply on my e-mails?" Then you reply:" Ummm, I dont know, it just doesnt seem this relationship is gonna go past e-mailing..." Then finnish off with the: "And plus, I enjoy it a 1000x more...." *Showing a hint of smile.
Thatl do it.
She'll be after you.
And hey, if she doesnt like you THAT much,
you must tell yourself that she does.
Just be charming and suave buddy. Remember the killer eye contact!
 

NewMan

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I can see your going through a bad time at the moment - shall we jus be friends for the time being until you get yourself on the right path then we can go out together?
no, no, no, NO NO


you move the fvck on to other girls and have fun.

You can't wait around or be a pvssy and be friends with women. You should have to much going on to waste it on women who want to be friends.

Tell her to call you when/if she ever get's he sh#t together and forget about her.
 

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I posted a while back about a HB9..
What people on this site said, was to move on, she is an attention ***** blah blah blah.
Well I stopped and she texted me back, this weekend we went out and were messing around all night. Do what you want, just don't be upset if you get turned down, their are plenty of women out there..you are the prize.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Howeva - how can i be 100% sure that she likes me - she says she does but she also says that her life is just a little bit fcuked up atm - what should i do?
You tell her that you would be no good to her then because you fcuk things really well...
 
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