HB9..How to start a relationship?

gimmeyofonenumba

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alright in the past girls asked me to be exclusive, or they dropped so many hints it was very easy. Long story short..we've been dating for a few mos. awesome sex numerous times. We hangout like twice a month because she's in the city I used to live in, she always calls or texts. She tells me she isnt good at doing anything love/relationship related, and Im quite sure she's expecting me to bring up the relationship thing...just how do i do it?
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
She tells me she isnt good at doing anything love/relationship related, and Im quite sure she's expecting me to bring up the relationship thing...just how do i do it?
For me, that could be a way of telling you that she wants to be exclusive (in a very strange way) or maybe she's just wanna keep it casual.

Anyways, it's better if the girl initiate that kind of talk. So just keep the good stuff going and let her come forward with the bf/gf talk.
 

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Tell her she doesnt need to be insecure you like her you want to be with her thats not so hard.
 

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why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
we've been dating for a few mos. awesome sex numerous times. We hangout like twice a month
So you've been out with her like four times?
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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let the girl bring up the relationship thing; Social Leper is exactly right.
 

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we've been on 5+ dates and weekend pow wows. No pics, your just gonna have to take my word.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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and lone wolf...man I dont know where to begin with your post. Yes, you obviously have to be secure about things. But I'll take a hb9, that could be all mine. rather then settle with a hb5 or 6 any day
 

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LoneWolf said:
why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p
Ew.

Would you settle for an average job too? With an average salary? Because, you know, a better job will have more people competing for it, and thus more stress to keep the job.

I don't know how you come to this site, of all places, preaching the values of "settling". People come here because they want to be more than an average dude who's settling for the average girl.

Go marry your 6, get a job as a plumber, and pop out some unambitious average-looking kids.
 

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LoneWolf said:
why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p

Yeah.

You sound like a bit of a wiener.
 
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