HB9 being a douche, its getting harder

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

I feel like Derek in American History X talking to Sweeney on the stretcher after he got raped.

I'm confused to say the least.

I mean here are some saying that I'm trying to hard for calling her twice and pursuing her, IM is a NO,NO, so how do you communicate? Because isn't texting a comfort zone? I called her ONCE when she was on the phone, then again. (I'm IM'ing talking about NYE parties to a friend and she happends to come online).

Yaboi subconciously understands whats going on here, we both have a love & hate relationship and I feel comfortable talking to her the way I do, I feel its gotten thus far as her giving me her number - not on my accord. I'd rather have her annoyed and p!ssed at me, than nothing atall. Ive atleast done the following making her (laugh, smile,crack up,miss me), so because I jerk her abit, I'm an AFC?

I think some of you have the wrong end of the stick here.

Um

she is a low self esteem chick , his approach could actually work

No, you're not clearly reading what Yaboi is saying...you're just fitting into your view. You posted believing you've handled this in an awesome way and want to stick with that no matter what feedback you get.

It's ok dude. Everyone has filters on their perceptions of themselves, even the most enlightened of us. In your case, you're viewing your actions in a certain way and posted it as such and are now ignoring the fact that most people are viewing your actions as you being a AFClike in a ****ish way.

These aren't bad criticisms, you're really trying to be a real man and improve yourself but what you're doing in this case is avoiding being a "nice guy" to the point of being a "jerk". Really, you're pushing her away and you'll get attention because you are a bit different but you're still another guy who has nothing better to do at 2am than text back and forth. Think about it, if some girl was messing with you and acting like "all that" at 2am on Saturday night when you weren't feeling good what would you think?

Exactly. Get over yourself and evolve.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Lol dude your way out your zones,

YAboi understood at first hand that I speak to her the way I do, and she knows this is playfull. TODAY, shes had a hangover,shes tired,grumpy,moody,single, whatever SO I have taken what ever was thrown at me. I DID NOT KNOW she was ALL OF THESE THINGS until after the IM texts.

Let me break this down for you, she asks if I have her number, I say take mine, she texts me, I DONT text back, I havent sent ONE text to her. The day after the text, I call her, so what if it was 2am in the morning?? I came in from a club, checked my facebook and she had recently put a status up, so I took it in my interest to call - HOWEVER, she was on the phone the FIRST time I called, thats why I called a 2nd time, THERE WAS NO TEXTING BACK AND FOURTH, GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT before you gospel me bro.

and calling someone a pvssy isn't bad critism, that tart seizeher throwing toys out of his pram and name calling on something he knows nothing of? NOT BAD CRITISIM?, you're either pulling my leg or talking out your arse MysteriousGuy. I welcome the brutal advice, but I havent got ANY advice, let alone brutal on any of my threads since signing here, the only guy that I could say had given me advice or knew the situation from the tip of the nail was - Igetit.

What your saying to me now is hot garbage, because it doesnt relate to anything which had gone on, you call me AFC? when I dont even pursue her, you say I manipulate, isnt that another word for seducting? sh!t Ive another chick I recently gamed ont he bus to speak to, trying too hard? wtf?? and I am all THAT, I've got more compassion than 99.999999% of all the REAL afc guys she associates with, she just posted a comment on my wall, the time is 02:12am GBT, BUT I shouldnt be calling her after 2 eh?

Ive been the ''nice guy'', if you looked past writing quick replies like your experienced you'll understand that this chick HAS HAD A BAD EVENING, it isnt me, its her.

Nobody can judge me here, telling me to get over myself, you sound like a freshman, I will never tell another dude to get over himself if it wasn't warranted.

If I told her to read your last comment (the same girl), she would laugh and say you're a girl. You can be the emotional tampon if you like but I'll fly the flag and keep doing what I do.

EVOLVE my toenail.

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

I welcome the brutal advice, but I havent got ANY advice, let alone brutal on any of my threads since signing here, the only guy that I could say had given me advice or knew the situation from the tip of the nail was - Igetit.

What your saying to me now is hot garbage, because it doesnt relate to anything which had gone on, you call me AFC? when I dont even pursue her, you say I manipulate, isnt that another word for seducting? sh!t Ive another chick I recently gamed ont he bus to speak to, trying too hard? wtf?? and I am all THAT, I've got more compassion than 99.999999% of all the REAL afc guys she associates with, she just posted a comment on my wall, the time is 02:12am GBT, BUT I shouldnt be calling her after 2 eh?

Ive been the ''nice guy'', if you looked past writing quick replies like your experienced you'll understand that this chick HAS HAD A BAD EVENING, it isnt me, its her.

Nobody can judge me here, telling me to get over myself, you sound like a freshman, I will never tell another dude to get over himself if it wasn't warranted.

If I told her to read your last comment (the same girl), she would laugh and say you're a girl. You can be the emotional tampon if you like but I'll fly the flag and keep doing what I do.
EVOLVE my toenail.

You say that every one is wrong. All of these people trying to help are wrong. As you specifically state, you're a better man for her than 1 out of a 10 million men.

You're the king and she just doesn't know it.

Feel better now?

 

[Weezy]

The OP basically took 1 principle. Being ****y a jerk and then displayed every single other needy AFC behavior and thought his being a ****y/jerk would make up for it..

But calling a chick at 2AM is about the worst possible play anyone could make.

Asking if she would pick up the phone if he called? REALLY DUDE?

 

[Matt281]

I didnt make the mistake, SHE DID, look at her goddamn facebook title - she has a hangover from yesterdays exciting drink up, so shes in the mood she is to be bullsh!tty to anyone.

Funny you say this, cause a lot of instructors and other really good guys will tell you "it's never the girl's fault". It really isn't. You're the one trying to **** her, and that's all on you buddy.

Like others have said, learn from your mistakes. Talk to 100 other girls and learn from those mistakes too. And try to get over yourself. Girls never respond well when you push them, blame them or try to put them on the spot for not liking you.

And as for the best in the world, lol, they'd run into her, talk to her and probably take her home that night and rail the **** out of her. If not, they'd completely forget about her in 20 minutes and find someone else - which is exactly what you should do.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Lol you guys are fannies man,

I dont know how you do it over there, but there is no problems with late night calls, especially on a damn saturday morning. I just got a text saying from another chick saying to call her now - time - 02:42 GBT. wait, lemmie get her status -----

"Why isit that an hour ago i could sleep for Cardiff.. and now im just wide awake and really cant sleep? STUPID COUGH AND LIVVIA SNORING THATS WHY!!! "

This girl just happend to text me, saying call her, BUT the afcs on here say NO, its going to seem afc if you do? LOL when the chick states to. Weezy you dont know what.the.FVCK you are talking about boy!

The original chick isn't even upset with the damn 2AM in the morning!!!! LOL you guys dissapoint me, trolling and bashing on the 2am phonecall, like its some scandal? or ulterior motive? if the chick isnt bashing it, why are you? jumping on the bangwagon maybe Weezy? Asking her if she would pick up the phone was a sarcastic joke, your a moron, please dont post on my threads if I ever do in the future, if you cant see the sarcastic/****yness in that and re-take it and prounounce it AFC, you've lost.

You're too entwined with what a afc or don juan means you make it your priority to find threads where it LOOKS leasable to throw out the word - afc, damn I'm sure its you guys who thumbs up or thumbs down the definitions on Urbandictionary. Seems to be a handfull of cvnts who will always say - "NEXT" or "AFC" to someone for any thread.

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

Lol dude your way out your zones,

YAboi understood at first hand that I speak to her the way I do, and she knows this is playfull. TODAY, shes had a hangover,shes tired,grumpy,moody,single, whatever SO I have taken what ever was thrown at me. I DID NOT KNOW she was ALL OF THESE THINGS until after the IM texts.

Let me break this down for you, she asks if I have her number, I say take mine, she texts me, I DONT text back, I havent sent ONE text to her. The day after the text, I call her, so what if it was 2am in the morning?? I came in from a club, checked my facebook and she had recently put a status up, so I took it in my interest to call - HOWEVER, she was on the phone the FIRST time I called, thats why I called a 2nd time, THERE WAS NO TEXTING BACK AND FOURTH, GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT before you gospel me bro.

Last night I called her twice, no pick up. Today on IM, she said she was busy, so I said

Enough. You don't even see your own quotable bullshaitting self-delusion in a thread.

And, fix your .sig, "I" before "E" except after "C". Ya, I'm being a **** but no more than you.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

You little cvnt. I was serving my country and banging women all over the world when you were counting pubes with suzie.

Your bark is loud, to distract your audience from the TRUTH.

You would call yourself a Don Juan, but you are in fact a FRUSTRATED little jerk-off who tries way too hard to sound tough by talking down to people.

And then you dare scoff when someone suggests you EVOLVE...kid, I'm not gonna waste any more time here...

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Enough. You don't even see your own quotable bullshaitting self-delusion in a thread.

And, fix your .sig, "I" before "E" except after "C". Ya, I'm being a **** but no more than you.

Before I get banned on here I'm going to hold my tongue. Maybe if there was a hip-hop section, I'll understand you better in there, but as for here, I dont understand your mumbo jumbo.

Yeah I called her twice, last night - she didnt pick up, she couldve diverted the call she was on to accept mine, thats what I mean by no pick up, you clown.

Stop punching above you're weight - I dont see any notches on your status, so eff what you gotta say. EVOLVING gospel charade crap. wtf was that all about you mermaid??

 

[HeyPachuco!]

You little cvnt. I was serving my country and banging women all over the world when you were counting pubes with suzie.

Your bark is loud, to distract your audience from the TRUTH.

You would call yourself a Don Juan, but you are in fact a FRUSTRATED little jerk-off who tries way too hard to sound tough by talking down to people.

And then you dare scoff when someone suggests you EVOLVE...kid, I'm not gonna waste any more time here...

Well go back to being G.I JOE then?

You start using cvnt now, when it was already used,

You ran in here screaming pvssy this and pvssy that over some IM text, fvck if you've served the country, your 6 years my senior, my brothers age, counting pubes with who?

You talk so tough in your threads I've ran down on your history here. I get through whilst you worry about maintaning your soldier status. I got laid a few weeks back, sucked on some t!tties a few days ago, when was the last time you had some action except for dodging landmines? You're the keyboard Jockey.

Mug.

 

[Weezy]

You had a poor performance, just accept it bro.

Your post made my skin crawl.

I've posted sh1t on here that other people call me out on, and I accept that the reason I'm posting it on here is so that I can improve my game, but if your just gonna argue with everyone then what's the point?

Live and learn.

No reason to lash out at others peoples advice. If you don't want it, then don't post it on here.

Fact

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

You talk so tough in your threads I've ran down on your history here. I get through whilst you worry about maintaning your soldier status. I got laid a few weeks back, sucked on some t!tties a few days ago, when was the last time you had some action except for dodging landmines? You're the keyboard Jockey.

*plonk*, into the killfile you go. You believe that being a man is about being able to come up with the most bullshait "i'm awesome yo!" stories that conflict with themselves to the point where no one can ever possibly believe you. And, looking up posting history "evidence" to prove to yourself someone is wrong is very disturbing and completely obvious projection. Live in the moment, be like water, but I'm sure you have already come up with limiting beliefs against those things.

Adios, and this is the first time I've ever had to say that here so mull that over. Or not. What you believe is obviously set in stone so it will not change my reality or feelings in any way.

PS: Even after it was explained to you, you still don't comprehend that Cheif is spelled Chief. Oh, snap.