HB9.5, possible future wifey, post first date confusion (adavanced DJs only)

[Fash]

well, there's nothing wrong with paying on the first date. Its a continued pattern of paying for her thats afc. I have to say though, is this the same Fash that posted previous FRs????

Yep. It's the same Fash.

I don't think there is anything wrong with the guy paying on the first date either specially if he is the one who has invited her out.

It is by no means AFC, it's a personal choice and purely depends on the situation.

 

[Holland]

What are you doing, man?

Spark attraction, play some hard to get, go out with her a couple of times and make her fall in love with you. Done deal.
It doesn't matter what 'criteria' she talks about (even if you do happen to fit them).


She'll marry a poor, average guy if he knows how to build the attraction to the max (sure, he has to build it higher than someone who does meet her criteria, but still, it's the attraction that'll make the difference)

And you call yourself an advanced DJ, I wouldn' even consider myself that way.

 

[dap]

You don't split the check with girls like this. You pay for the first date, period.

 

[SamePendo]

The thing is, you are playing her rules, her game. You are modifying your reality to fit hers. You are inteligent and capable enough to have your (game) played, not hers.

Besides, since when has "doing the gentlemanish thing to do" gotten anyone any booty? You pass ALL women through the ALL the SAME filters, no exceptions.