HB7 ****ing me over with another dude!!

Chilz Swayze

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Ok guys really need some input on this situation long story short,I have been together with this girl-HB7for exactly a month now.Things were going really great but just yestarday in the morning she texts me inviting me to some borring birthday party of her friend.so I text her back saying am busy and can't make it, then later in the afternoon she texts me back saying "Am rily dissapointed i thought i had a bf *am lonely*" I dint text back.The following day her best friend tells me she was kissing another guy.I hate to say it but I got kinda
hurt cause I don't like sharing my property lol and I acted like I dint care.Today,I dint bother bringing it up and she said she was sorry "it won't happen again"her exact words!Now if you were in my shoes what would you do?????
 

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You can't trust her and she's showing she a lying conniving biyatch. Call her up on it and tell her you can't trust her and have a relationship like this it's over.

Remember you're not a victim, because only AFCs are victims.

Plenty more cnut in the sea.

Even if you decide to be a pusssy and stick with her it won't last long and you'll exit like a complete loser.
 

alpha_ash

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Looks like she admitted it? If she did then keep using her. Don't get emotionally invested. A girl with no self control now is most likely not going to develop it in the future.
 

sharkbeat

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She's obviously trying to get a reaction out of you. The best response is to stay away. Any woman who is testing you by kissing another guy is not worth keeping. She has a number of options to show her disapproval that you didn't show up, but to choose kissing another guy is a giant red flag over her head.

"It won't happen again" is a lie.
 

bigneil

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You expect a commitment after one month, even though she never asked you for one?

I don't think women can "F*ck us over" unless we let them. She either lives up to expectations or you walk. There is no "F*ck'ed over" unless you are married.

That said, it seems like she is trying to get your attention.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Her: It won't happen again

You: That's ok, I'm not worried about it happening again

Her: Thankyou for trusting me.

You: No no, let me rephrase that... I don't CARE if it happens again, you're a single girl, what you get up to has nothing to do with me.
 

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If there is anything I've learned it's that I expect that kind of behavior to occur at the point you two are at.

Remember from now on to learn to expect the unexpected...like serving about the starship enterprise.
 
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