HB 9.5 field report

[Slick101]

2 years ago I was learning mystery method and for me.... opinions in clubs seemed garbage pik up....

I play with BAdbOy

Here is the scenerio

Im in the gym and I run into HB 9.5 that I used to go to school with 2 years ago....

She has her ass sticking out and so are her tits So at first sight I tell her

ME: I havent seen you in a while and You ARE sooo damn sexyyyy
HER: thank You with smile... And stop it...
ME: Im serious... look at those big tits
HER: I cant cover that up... HAHA
ME: I knoww!!

So we start talking about people we went to school with and about how guys try piking up women in the gym and in the clubs....

We talk about 20 MIn... And I had soomee Kino with her...

Finally at the end I tell her I need to go and how she wasted 20 min of my time when I could have been pumping Iron!

I ask for her number and she messages me HEY... My phone was in the locker and I leave...

When I leave the gym I say

ME: Hey jus got out of the gym lol
HER: LOL
ME: And stop hating on my people or im going to have to kick ur ass!!! (we were talking about nationalities playful way)
HER: lololol Im not hating on no one u said what u said about ur people on ur own lol I just said what i know it factors lolol
ME:I KNOW!!... it is true alot of them give bad names to others... Have you ever seen the movie role models?

Now she didnt answer me back... this was at midnight she probably went to bed... I am thinking I dont want to loose this girl and act needy .... which steps can I follow to make sure I can escelate further with her?

 

[Slick101]

Thanks for feedback guysss... NOTT

this is what I did

I messaged her the next day which was today with the "Divorce line" I want a divorce take the kids Ill take the money stuff like that

HER: That would suck imagine if a woman would be dumb enough to do that LMFAO
ME: Youuu are baddddd.... but I am worse.. .. I would take the money and house and giv U the kids and the furniture ;-)
HER:LMFAO haha nooooooo way it would be split
ME:sureeeeeeeeeeeeee... hahah... Listen ur bothering me Im working now.... saturday im taking u out sooo get ur" Pantalones rrredeeeee" (she is spanish)
HER: LMFAO okk loco.. Sorry didnt mean to bother u while u were working smart ass



NOWWW... I didnt text her back wanted to take control of the texting game this time before she did it...
Im curious if I didnt say okk on the next text.. if she will text me tommrow i doubt it tho...

we got 3 days to saturday... is it a good idea to call her couple of days before I take her somewhere to talk on the phone for a lil...

She is extremenly HOTTT... I dont want to mess this upp with a HB 9.5

 

[daygameguy]

I dont want to mess this upp with a HB 9.5

The thing is you are not congruent. You are playing the see-saw ride where it's sometimes YOU, sometimes HER in control. You ARE needy. Which is why you don't want to screw this up.

You pickup was the only thing that kicked true A.S.S.

Let go of the outcome. Always be cool with the thought of losing her forever. Only then will your best personality come out, and you will kick total a$$.

That's just my personal opinion on this. Good luck!

 

[Slick101]

Thanks man I really feel what you are telling me.... I agree with you... and I am deff putting that in my mindset...

 

[piranha45]

im just going to repeat what daygameguy already said, because its important and you are already showing bad symptoms that will ruin your date by default:

do NOT put her on a pedestal. Think of her as if she's a 6.5 instead of a 9.5. This LUCKY WH0RE is fortunate to go out on a date with YOU. You do not give a g0ddamn about whether she's happy or not, because SHE is the one who has to please YOU. You are the prize, and she is some 6.5 that you can blow off like nothing.

 

[Igetit!]

we got 3 days to saturday... is it a good idea to call her couple of days before I take her somewhere to talk on the phone for a lil...

Well,if you talked with her today,AND yesterday,AND the day before,then I wouldn't contact her until the day of the date......unless she contacts you first. If she does,then go ahead and talk with her for a little while,but not too long. And make sure your conversation with her stimulates her emotions somehow. Make her feel something.

She is extremenly HOTTT... I dont want to mess this upp with a HB 9.5

This is going to kill you. This "I don't want to mess this up" attitude puts you under pressure...and trust me,she'll sense it. You don't want her in your presense with this kind of mindset. Instead of being cool,calm,and relaxed,you'll be acting like somebody trying to diffuse a bomb:all nervous and scared,shaking and sweating,trying not to cut the wrong wire. You act this way around her,then you'll make her feel nervous and anxious too. She won't feel comfortable around you because you don't feel comfortable with yourself. Women look to the man for comfort and security. SHE WILL BE LOOKING to you TO LEAD.

You say you have 3 days until date day. Good. Then spend those three days ridding yourself of this,"I have to get this right/I don't want to mess this up" thinking.

 

[Slick101]

Well I actually just met her yesterday... I only texted yesterday and today.. Until I arranged a date today... I was thinking about not contacting her until thursday night... 2 days before the main event....

 

[SamePendo]

Ahhh, I'm looking for a clip on youtube. If I'm not wrong it's on the "badboy comedy" thing. And it's about grown up MEN texting and kicking their ass if they text him.
I personally find texting to be a very femenine thing to do. But, my question is:
In the US is it normal for grown men to text each other or other people in general?

 

[Slick101]

Well latest update with her...

I texted her today keeping it short no BS ping pong style

ME: OMG I have to ask u soemthing
HER: LMAO what
ME: Ur never gonna believe it
HER: WHat is it lol
ME: How is ur day going?
HER: lol so so and urs?
ME: Ull never believe me if i tell u
HER: ah ur being retarted
ME: no im being serious... my day is phenomenal look at the weather how COULD ur day be soso
HER: LOL
ME: Happy belated cinco de mayo btw... did u do anything traditional?
HER: Same to you lol and no
ME: I dont celebrate this holiday... im getting ready for work so I cant talk now.. but ill see you later
(I said see you later but i wasnt really seeing her later juss throwing her off... she didnt respond bak to me after that tho.... I was implying seeing her Saturday...

Thinking about calling her Friday before the date

What you think?

 

[daygameguy]

Well latest update with her...

I texted her today keeping it short no BS ping pong style

ME: OMG I have to ask u soemthing
HER: LMAO what
ME: Ur never gonna believe it
HER: WHat is it lol
ME: How is ur day going?
HER: lol so so and urs?
ME: Ull never believe me if i tell u
HER: ah ur being retarted
ME: no im being serious... my day is phenomenal look at the weather how COULD ur day be soso
HER: LOL
ME: Happy belated cinco de mayo btw... did u do anything traditional?
HER: Same to you lol and no
ME: I dont celebrate this holiday... im getting ready for work so I cant talk now.. but ill see you later
(I said see you later but i wasnt really seeing her later juss throwing her off... she didnt respond bak to me after that tho.... I was implying seeing her Saturday...

Thinking about calling her Friday before the date

What you think?

Excellent.


PS: "throwing her off" is just a way of analyzing it. What you are doing is basically having FUN with her in the picture. And she can't do SHET to stop you from feeling awesome. I'm sure she WANTS to learn from you, how to be that much in state! Your nimbus is ON!

 

[Randallpink83]

Well latest update with her...

I texted her today keeping it short no BS ping pong style

ME: OMG I have to ask u soemthing
HER: LMAO what
ME: Ur never gonna believe it
HER: WHat is it lol
ME: How is ur day going?
HER: lol so so and urs?
ME: Ull never believe me if i tell u
HER: ah ur being retarted
ME: no im being serious... my day is phenomenal look at the weather how COULD ur day be soso
HER: LOL
ME: Happy belated cinco de mayo btw... did u do anything traditional?
HER: Same to you lol and no
ME: I dont celebrate this holiday... im getting ready for work so I cant talk now.. but ill see you later
(I said see you later but i wasnt really seeing her later juss throwing her off... she didnt respond bak to me after that tho.... I was implying seeing her Saturday...

Thinking about calling her Friday before the date

What you think?

ehh this makes me cringe a bit... Tone it down man, she is already bitting, so you don't need to keep on with the fvckin C+F bullshizzz... Like she said, you are being retarded. Which I know she is just playing around, but shes gotta be getting tired of the major assh0le vibe. You keep texting her and then being like "ok stop bothering me i gotta work". You keep trying to get huge reactions from her... The only reaction I would be seeking with her, would be my own erection being extremely hard and slipping into her pvssy. Are you even thinking about that?

Drop the ****y now. Try and be FUN and SEXUAL....

...But then again, once you have set a role, that role usually needs to be carried out until fvcking. So who knows... I just know that this whole assh0le vibe is unnecessary. MANLY, FUN, SEXUAL... those are the only things necessary. And stop being so reaction seeking. And more vibe and reality building.

However I give you props for the pickup regardless, have fun bro.

 

[Slick101]

WELLL Date confirmed...

Phone call made...

Shes calling me back...

And Im rocking her tommrow...

Updating soon

 

[MrVain]

so how did the date go?

 

[amoka]

Update before you wake up.....

 

[Slick101]

LATEST UPDATE ON THIS LUCKY *****!

I text her yesterday day time before work

ME: Got held up yesterday imma call u in 20 minutes pik up
SHE NEVER PICKED UP WHEN I CALLED.... SHE WAS ON THE OTHER LINE CUZ I HAVE A WAY OF TELLING

1 hour later I text her...

ME: Now we are really breaking up... ur tooooo slowwww Im leaving.... this time ill give u just the kids but im taking the house and all the ****ing money looser!!!
HER: (a minute later) LMAO Sorry,,, then calls me back

I speak to her for like 7 minutes... she is getting a manicure... Im telling her how I want to see her tommrow and how we are going to make plans... she says ok..ok... Says she has to call me back because she is in the salon...

She never calls nor texts...

NITE TIME I GO TO A CLUB... POSTING ANOTHER FIELD REPORT NOWW!! I HAD AN AMAZING TIME!!!

Today...

aroung 12 PM

ME: Im picking youup at 6
HER: im away... dont know if i could make it
ME: ahh your a flake... I told u to not make plans
HER: ya but It was my sisters birthday yesterday
ME: its allright as long as we can reschedule it...wen r u available?
HER: yes we can I will let u know when im available cause this week coming is my last week of school so from there i can figure soemthing k

I NEVER ANSWERED HER BACK TO THIS

WTF happened here... did I mess up badly... what can I do next??

 

[Igetit!]

LATEST UPDATE ON THIS LUCKY *****!

I text her yesterday day time before work

ME: Got held up yesterday imma call u in 20 minutes pik up
SHE NEVER PICKED UP WHEN I CALLED.... SHE WAS ON THE OTHER LINE CUZ I HAVE A WAY OF TELLING

1 hour later I text her...

ME: Now we are really breaking up... ur tooooo slowwww Im leaving.... this time ill give u just the kids but im taking the house and all the ****ing money looser!!!
HER: (a minute later) LMAO Sorry,,, then calls me back

I speak to her for like 7 minutes... she is getting a manicure... Im telling her how I want to see her tommrow and how we are going to make plans... she says ok..ok... Says she has to call me back because she is in the salon...

She never calls nor texts...

WTF happened here... did I mess up badly... what can I do next??

Slick,you can't see what went wrong here? To me,it's as clear as a huge,gigantic flashing neon sign. This can all be summed up in one word:

NEEDINESS.

Imo,she most likely feels like you're needy. Even if you're not,that's the impression she probably got. Let's look back at everything you just wrote.

First you say you text her before work. Nothing wrong with that,but you texted her to tell her that you were going to call her in 20 min.
Then you said that you called her...she didn't pick up.
Then ONE HOUR LATER,you text her again
Then when you do get her on the phone,she told you she'd call you back because she was at the salon. In other words,she didn't want to be bothered by a guy who she "REALLY LIKES" while she was having something as "important" done as her nails . Her interest level is low,otherwise,she'd call you back like she said she would.

Then you called her today,and she came up with another excuse. And what did you do? You went right back for more. You asked her about rescheduling and when she'd be available. And what did she do? She put you on hold. And why not? You'll be there whenever she "gets around" to you,right?

You "unintentionally" messed up. You gave her the impression that you're always available,and all she has to do is say the word,and you'll be right there for a date.

She's taking you for granted. She probably thinks,"Well,he calls me all the time,so he must not have much else going on in his life".

You're too available. You contact her too much. Back off some. Go at least the next two days without calling/texting her. Three would be better,but two at the minimum. And if she does call you,do what she did. Tell her you're busy and you'll call her back. Don't act like a puppy standing on its hind legs begging for a treat with this girl.

 

[slickaz]

Yes you did mess up.
right from the start..
there was no consistency, no reasoning.

you text her firstly, which is a NO NO unless you are ALREADY banging her and you need her at your place for a quickie. you text as a booty call coz you got no time to call and she knows your d!k is SO good that you could give her a smoke signal and she'll come running..

ok your problem.

the way i see it:
1. you text her.
2. you never really confirmed a meeting with her, from what i can see it seems you just pushed it on her, she never confirmed back.
3. you never gave her an actual time, date etc. you just said saturday we are going out, dont make plans. She is not your pet, not yet. that you can just say, dont make plans. you gotta be a lil more smooth.
4. You came across needy in your texts by constantly hitting her up for no reason. it shows her you are TOO interested in her and have nothing else to do.
5. What is with the "i want a divorce" thing? dont try that ****, coz that is what AFCs do, to try and threaten the girl instead of her WANTING to be around you. You are threatening her with something that doesnt exist. you are not married or even dating. I Can understand playing that routine once, FACE TO FACE only, not via text. that routine probably made her feel like you want her to commit too quickly, you are unstable, you dont have a proper communication method, and/or you are TOO controlling.
no girl wants a guy that is so wobbly.

6. next time you WANT a chic, make sure she doesnt know it.

here is a simple routine for you after you get the number.

1.dont contact for 1 day MINIMUM, preferred 2 days.
2. CALL dont text, CALL, pick up the phone and DIAL.
3. Call with a focussed mindset
- Make her think you are busy, even while you call, but have taken the time to pick up the phone and call her and man enough to ask her for a date.
- Dont be wobbly with your confidence or questions. keep the conversation short to "hey how are you? good day so far?" listen to her jabber, then drop "i wish i could listen to you all day, but i got money to make, i called to check if you're free on friday night at 7pm, my plans for friday fell through but id love to catch up with ya if you're free.."
- Be ready to accept NO as an answer and let it slide, if you wanna be extra ****y, say smtn like "Well..i tried, but hit me up when you're free if you wanna catch up over a drink...k?" be polite and make sure she knows that her declining your offer has not made you upset, you are so focussed on other things this doesnt even matter..
- If she says YES then accept it, give her more details, preferably tell her to find her OWN way there but you'll drop her back home. give her a time and date, get her confirm the time and date. Tell her you look forward to having a good evening with her and she better make it super fun.
- Say bye and hang up.


No more contact till the day itself, call her and confirm you are meeting her at that time and place.

If she flakes, let her know that " this time ill let you off the hook coz you apologized nicely, plus i made back up plans just in case, ill look forward to hearing from you but only if you wanna make plans with me for another date...have a good night" again be polite and hang up.

go do something else and get her out your mind. let her contact you.

good luck

 

[eaglez1177]

wow bro you really screwed yourself over with the texting.