Having chix as friends or not

[JdelaSilviera]

what a bunch of people with no life experience whatsoever.

1) if you are asking if female friends are actually useful for getting laid. The obvious answer is DUH... All the guys who score left and right know, and are friends with a bunch of females. It´s pretty obvious, that instead of meeting new guys, who are acquainted with your guy friends, you will be knowing lots and lots of females, that will automatically trust/like you.

2) it´s stupid disregard a certain sex, for friendship, when you have great persons in both sexes. And to throw in the toiled a human being who could make your life much better because has a vagina, is beyond retarded... And actually women are much more emotional, and will be worried about your life almost as if they were your mom. Of course if you never had female friends you don´t know this...

 

[FairShake]

This is one of those things that PUA theory doesn't get right. Female friends have a different dynamic than male friends but that doesn't mean they aren't valuable. Both for friendship and getting laid.

I alot female friends. For awhile in my 20s I had more female friends than I did male friends. I was constantly hooked up by them with their friends. 75% or more of my hookups have come through female friends. The idea that since one girl doesn't like you that the others won't is lazy and biased reasoning. Despite what guys on here may have you believe girls are actually independent thinkers and date guys their friends find disgusting, obnoxious, stupid, boring, etc.

Sometimes you even hook-up with those girls. Usually when alcohol is involved and they break up with another guy. But keep in mind those friendships are usually just that and hooking up is rare with a thin window. Girls tend not to be attracted to their male friends like guys are attracted to their female friends. If you are dating someone at the time forget it. Their attraction goes south (another PUA myth).

Cultivate them for what you can get from female friends as well as their friends and you will open up a whole new dimension of poon.

 

[pete101]

only keep females as friends if you frequent bars/clubs a lot to bring as social proof, nothing else. the pro's do not outweight the con's plus they're wasting your time. you want to have sex, she wants attention.

dont take calls from them, be busy. she may call u out for not being a good friend but who cares.

really women who aren't attracted to you but are attractive are nothing but cannon fodder or armorery for when you have a hot gf and need to keep her in check making her think u have options, when u dont.

women who aren't attracted to you waste your time. period. if you have time to spare fair enough. but wouldn't you rather be spending that improving yourself, getting in shape, make money, go sarging. etc

tbh even if i was out with a female friend for coffee i'd be tempted to go approach a hot girl who makes eyes with me by the sugar counter, this would p!ss off the friend your with and she'll bad mouth you later, but really who cares?

 

[Zerro]

And even then she probably won't want to fix you up.
Because she would rather keep you in orbit in case her and boyfriend/husband break up. That way she'll have someone to fall back on.

That's why you have to make sure that you don't get too close, if there's any orbit it needs to be a very distant one that you can easily exit from when other women come near. It's pretty easy to tell when she's trying to keep you close as a backup.