Having a player reputation at school/work beneficial or detrimental?

[thunder_god]

I'm just curious for all those don juans out there if you found it being beneficial having a reputation as a playboy or not or did it cause more harm then good in your school/work environment? I know girls love social proof but if a guy is known as a player wouldn't that hurt your chances of getting with other girls plus have other girls hating on you for being a player?

 

[gravityeyelids]

To some extent..yes it's a good thing. Preselection always wins. When girls know you are getting with girls and that girls want you, it is a big panty dropper. However, don't become known as the dooshbag/a$$hole who pumps and dumps and treats women poorly, ESPECIALLY if we're talking small social circle game. One girl running her mouth negatively about you could ruin the whole pond of fish. Then again... other girls might just want to hook up with you to see what all the fuss is about

Be humble, confident, and most importantly RESPECTFUL if you're going to go the player route. The lovable manwh0re is the guy that every girl in the world roots for, whether she wants to admit it or not. You have to act like it's almost accidental that you get all this pu$$y. Play coy and act as if you can't control yourself and that you're just irresistible so you have no other option to smooch all these pretty girls.

 

[thunder_god]

To some extent..yes it's a good thing. Preselection always wins. When girls know you are getting with girls and that girls want you, it is a big panty dropper. However, don't become known as the dooshbag/a$$hole who pumps and dumps and treats women poorly, ESPECIALLY if we're talking small social circle game. One girl running her mouth negatively about you could ruin the whole pond of fish. Then again... other girls might just want to hook up with you to see what all the fuss is about

Be humble, confident, and most importantly RESPECTFUL if you're going to go the player route. The lovable manwh0re is the guy that every girl in the world roots for, whether she wants to admit it or not. You have to act like it's almost accidental that you get all this pu$$y. Play coy and act as if you can't control yourself and that you're just irresistible so you have no other option to smooch all these pretty girls.

Well right now in my social circle from school I'm known as the quiet shy guy. Two of the girls commented that only until recently I've become more social. I brought a girl with me 2 weeks ago to a birthday party one of my classmates had. Should I start trying to bring more girls to these social events?

 

[gravityeyelids]

Well right now in my social circle from school I'm known as the quiet shy guy. Two of the girls commented that only until recently I've become more social. I brought a girl with me 2 weeks ago to a birthday party one of my classmates had. Should I start trying to bring more girls to these social events?

I mean it's a good idea to roll with girls regardless. But i mean it's not like you're going to give off the player vibe unless you're banging these girls. Believe me, girls talk about EVERYTHING and they WILL hear if you are sleeping with a girl or if you're just talking to her. While it will make you look good to show up places with cute girls... you're not going to succeed in looking like a stud unless you're seen making out/flirting with them or people hear that you two are sleeping together.

Similarly, it's generally not a good idea to be hooking up with two girls in the same social circle at the same time, unless you know that they're aware of it and are cool with it (THIS IS RARE, you have to be a complete bamf/DJ to pull this off usually).

Social circle game can be very tricky. It takes a bit of finesse and tact, but the payoff can be huge.

 

[thunder_god]

I mean it's a good idea to roll with girls regardless. But i mean it's not like you're going to give off the player vibe unless you're banging these girls. Believe me, girls talk about EVERYTHING and they WILL hear if you are sleeping with a girl or if you're just talking to her. While it will make you look good to show up places with cute girls... you're not going to succeed in looking like a stud unless you're seen making out/flirting with them or people hear that you two are sleeping together.

Similarly, it's generally not a good idea to be hooking up with two girls in the same social circle at the same time, unless you know that they're aware of it and are cool with it (THIS IS RARE, you have to be a complete bamf/DJ to pull this off usually).

Social circle game can be very tricky. It takes a bit of finesse and tact, but the payoff can be huge.

Actually I'm not interested in neither of those two girls. There just my friends, however my oneitis is part of that social circle hence why I brought that girl to show her that I ain't waiting around for her.

 

[Uncharted]

...however my oneitis is part of that social circle hence why I brought that girl to show her that I ain't waiting around for her.

You shouldn't have a oneitis. She should be one of many options. If you can't stop thinking about her and she's not interested in you, the best thing for you to do is to just forget about her.

Don't use a new girl that you're interested in just to get your oneitis jealous. That just keeps you stuck on one girl. Go out with the new girl because you're interested in HER.

 

[thunder_god]

You shouldn't have a oneitis. She should be one of many options. If you can't stop thinking about her and she's not interested in you, the best thing for you to do is to just forget about her.

Don't use a new girl that you're interested in just to get your oneitis jealous. That just keeps you stuck on one girl. Go out with the new girl because you're interested in HER.

Unfortunately I haven't been able to get a new girl who I'm interested in. I've been getting rejected constantly day in and day out from doing cold approaches. I know if I was able to get another girl who was more attractive then her then I would be able to move on, but so far all my efforts have been in vain. That girl who I brought with me, I picked her up that day from doing cold approaches but I wasn't in the least bit interested in her, I didn't actually think she would be up for coming with me and I just used her as practice but was surprised she agreed. I have her # along with another girl who I # closed this week but I'm not interested in neither one and won't be calling them.

 

[Poop1337]

Any kind of acknowledgment of your existence is beneficial. If you had a reputation around town as the guy who craps his pants that might be another story. Even if it was horrible to be known as a player you'd still have to do everything the same anyways cause it wouldn't change the reality that you should be making approaches and spinning plates.

 

[asa_don]

if anybody thinks being a player is detrimental they aren't getting laid or dont know a damn thing about women.

players never go without pvssy because girls want to be with you no matter what they tell you, players turn them on, the girls put out, they will say they dont want a player, they are the first ones fvcking the player, these women talk out of both sides of their mouths, you need to learn to ignore what the say.

no player has a hard time getting women, the women want an alpha.