Have you gone out with a super hot girl, broken up, and unale to lower your standards

[davelmn2003]

It is happening to me. I went out with a very hot girl a few times. We never saw each other again. And now that she has raised my standards for women, I have been unable to find other girls attractive. At the same time, I have been unable to attact girls as hot as she is. So I'm screwed both ways. Any similar experiences out there?

 

[NewMan]

Happened to me - only I dated her for 4.5 yrs.

Fvck it's tough.

I've lowered my standards quite a bit though - I'm banging a chick on a regular basis right now - she been wanting more - calling me up etc. But I've been screening calls - only calling her to keep her interested and when I want some A##. Look - I'm not going to introduce her to my friends - so it's just getting something regular until I find something else.

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Yea, my gf from high school was a HB9. After we broke up she moved to LA and became an LA Laker Girl and was in an episode of Saved by the Bell. Hottest piece of ass I've ever had. It's hard not to compare every girl I get with her.

 

[stormwriter]

AH DUDE!! That's whats happening to me! damn, its nice to see someone else experiencing it. I've had some really attractive girls, and i feel so superficial now. I can look at 100 cute women, and about 4 of them will be attractive to me. It's a crappy feeling, cause i'm narrowing my scope down so tight that i rarely meet chicks i'm attracted to.

After a girl that was HOT dumps me, i get bummed out for a couple weeks, but ya know what? If you got an attractive HOT chick, you must have SOMETHING that attracts hot chicks, right? It's happened in the past - why can't it continue to happen????

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Yep, been there. You get pretty used to all the stares from other guys when you take out that HB9+. All those jealous faces wondering how you scored with that prize. Yeah, men can admit it - we're vain too. Many times, we want a trophy chick on our arm to compliment our nice clothes and sweet car.

Then, BOOM!!! Break up with that HB9+ - There are no more stares, no more jealous faces looking at you with envy, no more attention.

So what do you do? Either raise your standards to a higher level or date below your 'new' standard.

I'm in the thinking that - Hey, I found an HB9+ to screw the hell out of once, I can find another one. However, I never let an opportunity to meet a great 7 go. Whether the woman is a 5.0 or a 9.0, you will always learn something new and keep your DJ skills sharper when the HB9.9 of your dreams walks by.

Granted, it may take you longer to find that 9.0 LTR type of lady, but hell, You're a DJ - Aren't you worth it?

And if you can't find it, then, maybe you might want to re-assess what type of woman/relationship you are looking to get into.

It's like driving a Porsche all your life - then switching to a Honda. Hondas are great cars, but damn, all those looks you used to get in the Porsche!

 

[Chewy Bagel]

-HPNOTIQ-, you are so correct about missing the attention you get when you're with a super hot girl...

Wanna talk about having guys look at you with envy? Try walking down California's Santa Monica 3rd Street Prominade with Miss Moscow 1988 on your arm. I had a guy walk up to me and ask to shake my hand, then he kinda did a Wayne's world "I'm not worthy thing". Funny shiit..

I have never experienced an ego boost like that before in my life. I can only imagine how a HB9+ feels when she walks around. It's as though your on stage everywhere you go: all eyes on you. People thinking what's he got? what's he do? what the fukk?
haha!

 

[CLOONEY]

haha, yeah man. My girlfriend a while back was unbeleivable, guys used to come upto me at clubs at tell me to stick her on poster cause she was a goddess. She was truly amaizing, a stunning face and the best body I have ever seen. Although it got pretty annoying cause there was always guys trying to bust on her a*s, even infront of me. And nearly every time we went out some guy would grab her ass, even infront of me and my friends, at the end Iwould just let her handle it, otherwise I would get into too many fights. Since then I have dated a couple of great models, infact one of the best in the country, but she still doesnt compare.

So yeah I know what your talking about, although i still find plenty I am willing to give a go, who are quiet cute and upto my standards, just not a 9.9999999, oh well, looks arent everything I guess.

Take it easy

 

[CLOONEY]

oh yeah, i forget to mention one club Iwent to some guy got down on his knees infront of her and started praising her, this massive dude with a huge pony tail and the rest of his head shaved, he looked like one hard crazy mother fu*ker, funny how much of a chump a hot woman can make even the "toughest" guy in the bar look. Oh yeah and some other dude came upto me and said "how the f*ck did u get her" hahahaaha, must be my magic, hehe.

 

[davelmn2003]

I have been feeling like sh!t since I met and "lost" this gorgeous woman. I've never been able to find another one as gorgeous as she is--or even less beautiful ones--that's the problem. My friend once told me that if it didn't work out there would be nothing lost--I still got to go out with a hot blonde. Sometimes I wish I never met her so I wouldn't sink so low for so long after a few amazing dates...

 

[Helter Skelter]

Another form of oneitis.

 

[Click Here]

hey my gf was beautiful - got asked to do catalog work and **** and she dumped me and i was crushed. but there is a reason 2 ppl dont work out man shes not the girl for you. what if you happened to meet a 8 who makes you feel great about yourself and shares similar intrestes? the 9 wouldnt seem like such a loss would she? theres a reason ppl dont work out just chalk it up to her loss youll get over it.