Ojete
Don Juan
Many of the problems and doubts of the people here would be solved if they asked themselves this simple question:
-- >Are you fvcking the girl you are posting about??? <---
It doesn't matter your situation: If you're bragging about a girl you "kiss closed" last friday, a woman you met through myspace ****, some girlfriend you think you may have attracted, an eternal 'best friend' with who you want to take things further... or even if some friend of you who tells you about 3 sisters he met during his last trip and were giving him "all the signals".
What matters is: are you fvcking these women?
(and in the case of your friend who brags: is he fvcking these women?)
If you aren't, then don't **** with all these problems when you know you should be nailing them and THEN talking about all these problems. Let me tell you why:
"The closer you are to having intercourse with a woman, the more control you have over the relationship with her"
- Me
Doesn't matter the kind of girl (unless she's a party ho or a mature woman lookin for some quick ****). Doesn't matter the kind of relationship (you will decide it later, just read
).The point of this is that if you have had a bit of experience with girls you SHOULD KNOW timing is one of the most important factors in a pick up, and you should also know this means that the SOONER you can get physical with her, the better your 'sucess ratio' with her and in all aspects.
Wanna get laid quick?
Wanna blow your competence?
Wanna be able to brag about some sucess?
Wanna get what you want from the women you met without having to put so much stress and though into it and worring about other aspects like 'what should you have done / said?'
Just ask yourself this question and try to get the yes. The sooner the better!
I repeat: after your intitial contact, try to get as physical as possible with her!! Touching, kissing, caressing, hugging, grabbing, isolating, whatever that means you have something intimate with her.
After you have had some physical contact with a woman, there's a special intimacy air vibe going around, and later contact will come easier. If you have had sex with her, then you can even decide what you want with the relationship, because usually the girl will be asking "what about us now?? are we in a relationship, or booty calls, etc?", you are the one with the options, specially if you are seeing / dating other girls. Also, after the sex, women more than us tend to feel an emotional connection, that "it was chemistry", and all that stuff, that works in your favor. Even when you have competence, as I mentioned above, because if you and 2 other guys are hitting on the same chick, and you kiss / have sex with her or get very intimate with her before the others, she'll have a bond with you that will make her 'up' her barriers with the other guys. Logically. It is about TIMING, specifically, doing it soon or you will regret it!! You have seen and experienced already many times that when you don't take the things physically between you two, and a lot of times passes, she becomes uninterested in you, bored, cold, a friend, etc. Maybe she wanted your **** in THAT moment and was looking for a fun night, or she though you were going to make the moves. Whatever, if you don't take the chance soon, you loose. It is simple.
If you get intimate with her soon, many things you read and/or discussed endlesss here with make you think again about the confusing advice you have recieved, like all that **** about needing to have friends / join a club / have business / etc that are great for self-improvement, but not necessary nor requisites for getting laid.
Many of the experienced posters already know this, but I think this is question is useful to be remembered whenever you have all kind of doubts about girls you know, as I mentioned above, no matter your skill leves or whatever you wanna call your situation.
Just ask yourself:
"Have I fvcked her yet?"
-- >Are you fvcking the girl you are posting about??? <---
It doesn't matter your situation: If you're bragging about a girl you "kiss closed" last friday, a woman you met through myspace ****, some girlfriend you think you may have attracted, an eternal 'best friend' with who you want to take things further... or even if some friend of you who tells you about 3 sisters he met during his last trip and were giving him "all the signals".
What matters is: are you fvcking these women?
(and in the case of your friend who brags: is he fvcking these women?)
If you aren't, then don't **** with all these problems when you know you should be nailing them and THEN talking about all these problems. Let me tell you why:
"The closer you are to having intercourse with a woman, the more control you have over the relationship with her"
- Me
Doesn't matter the kind of girl (unless she's a party ho or a mature woman lookin for some quick ****). Doesn't matter the kind of relationship (you will decide it later, just read
).The point of this is that if you have had a bit of experience with girls you SHOULD KNOW timing is one of the most important factors in a pick up, and you should also know this means that the SOONER you can get physical with her, the better your 'sucess ratio' with her and in all aspects.Wanna get laid quick?
Wanna blow your competence?
Wanna be able to brag about some sucess?
Wanna get what you want from the women you met without having to put so much stress and though into it and worring about other aspects like 'what should you have done / said?'
Just ask yourself this question and try to get the yes. The sooner the better!
I repeat: after your intitial contact, try to get as physical as possible with her!! Touching, kissing, caressing, hugging, grabbing, isolating, whatever that means you have something intimate with her.
After you have had some physical contact with a woman, there's a special intimacy air vibe going around, and later contact will come easier. If you have had sex with her, then you can even decide what you want with the relationship, because usually the girl will be asking "what about us now?? are we in a relationship, or booty calls, etc?", you are the one with the options, specially if you are seeing / dating other girls. Also, after the sex, women more than us tend to feel an emotional connection, that "it was chemistry", and all that stuff, that works in your favor. Even when you have competence, as I mentioned above, because if you and 2 other guys are hitting on the same chick, and you kiss / have sex with her or get very intimate with her before the others, she'll have a bond with you that will make her 'up' her barriers with the other guys. Logically. It is about TIMING, specifically, doing it soon or you will regret it!! You have seen and experienced already many times that when you don't take the things physically between you two, and a lot of times passes, she becomes uninterested in you, bored, cold, a friend, etc. Maybe she wanted your **** in THAT moment and was looking for a fun night, or she though you were going to make the moves. Whatever, if you don't take the chance soon, you loose. It is simple.
If you get intimate with her soon, many things you read and/or discussed endlesss here with make you think again about the confusing advice you have recieved, like all that **** about needing to have friends / join a club / have business / etc that are great for self-improvement, but not necessary nor requisites for getting laid.
Many of the experienced posters already know this, but I think this is question is useful to be remembered whenever you have all kind of doubts about girls you know, as I mentioned above, no matter your skill leves or whatever you wanna call your situation.
Just ask yourself:
"Have I fvcked her yet?"
