I find rape very arousing, but only for the dominance aspects of it, NOT the idea of hurting a woman or traumatising her for the rest of her life.
I think real rape is awful and i would never even consider doing it. Yet, doing it as role playing with a consentual girl that would ACT as if she doesn't want to have sex can be a great experience.
Yes, if i try to see this rape fantasy objectively, i feel somewhat ashamed to even have such thoughts. But considering it as a fantasy and nothing more serious, then i don't see the wrong in it.
A majority of people have fetishes or fantasies, often shocking ones. But that's what makes a fantasy arousing: the immoral aspects of it, and the fact that it may never occur under normal conditions.
It doesn't mean everyone will go ahead and make their fantasy real. Our sense of right and wrong often takes precedence over fulfilling any fantasies that could cause hurt, in my opinion.
So far, out of about 50 people, 50% voted yes, confirming the initial "un-scientific survey". Is that so shocking?