HAVE YOU ever lowered your standards for a one night stand??

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No, not even once. Because I know that if I can't respect myself or my morals then I am not worthy of anyone else's respect either, and that's not what a DJ does IMHO. It's far to counter-productive.
 

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Originally posted by bonjove
No, not even once. Because I know that if I can't respect myself or my morals then I am not worthy of anyone else's respect either, and that's not what a DJ does IMHO. It's far to counter-productive.
:rolleyes: I hope this guy's joking. Of course, everyone lowers their standards for a ONS.
 

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Italostud, I don't lower my standards, have had 2 one night stands, both with 8s. I don't lower my standards for sex ever, not even for getting blow jobs, I'm really picky. But then again, you probably get more of both than me if you loosen up with standards.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
:rolleyes: I hope this guy's joking. Of course, everyone lowers their standards for a ONS.
Are you absolutly sure?

No, I'm not joking. I don't believe that sacrificing who I am and losing respect for myself is worth having 10 minutes of enjoyment which I will forget about in 10 years time UNLESS the woman is worth it.

You can have all the trash you want, but I prefer making my life something I can value. You only have one chance at living I chose to make my life worthwhile.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Hey it's all good. I just prefer to spread the seed. It's what nature intended. :D
 

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standards? , wtf is that?
Originally posted by bonjove

No, I'm not joking. I don't believe that sacrificing who I am and losing respect for myself is worth having 10 minutes of enjoyment which I will forget about in 10 years time UNLESS the woman is worth it.

You can have all the trash you want, but I prefer making my life something I can value. You only have one chance at living I chose to make my life worthwhile.
another misinformed, deluded idiot who thinks unloading is some kind of groundbreaking ,earthshaking cosmic event.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
standards? , wtf is that?

another misinformed, deluded idiot who thinks unloading is some kind of groundbreaking ,earthshaking cosmic event.

Each person makes what they want out of whatever they want. Hugging your loved ones for the first time in years isnt really something groundbreaking, earthshaking cosmic event either, but you make it special. If he wants to make it special, theres nothing wrong with it. He isnt going afc on some *****'s ass, he isnt hurting himself.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
standards? , wtf is that?

another misinformed, deluded idiot who thinks unloading is some kind of groundbreaking ,earthshaking cosmic event.
Ok, now that's being way to judgemental.

Look, I don't just have sex with anyone, since when was that that a crime? I am picky and choosy so what. You can go screw ugly self abusive chicks all you want for all I care I don't want them.
 

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To each their own, but I'll let you guys in on a little secret. When the lights are out, all ***** is the same. That homeless crack***** that I picked up on the corner last week and ****ed might as well have been Britney Spears. Whoops...I've said too much...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Originally posted by SamePendo
Each person makes what they want out of whatever they want. Hugging your loved ones for the first time in years isnt really something groundbreaking, earthshaking cosmic event either, but you make it special.
rubbish, hugging a loved one has nothing to do with a natural act a healthy young man has done and will keep doing hopefully for the rest of his life.
 

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HAVE YOU ever lowered your standards for a one night stand??
For a one night stand? I dunno, my standards for that are pretty low already. I do try to stay within the species.
 

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Isn't that the whole point of a ONS? To give it to some girl who you probably don't care too much to see again?

It goes without saying that a ONS doesn't have to meet as many criteria we all have for women as opposed to a LTR.

Of course, all of us will only go so low... you have to be able to look at her without throwing up, even for a ONS.
 

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I have AB-SOLUTELY fvcked and fooled around with less-than-perfect women. It is NOT something to be ashamed of - they are people too. I think some dudes here need to be more honest with themselves - I'm not surprised that most of these types of guys who 'hold out' are virgins, or highly inexperienced and awkward around women . :rolleyes:
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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I know I've done that....I don't regret it either I think sometimes these girls will do the things a hotter more stuck up girl won't, but if I can pull an HB that would do all those things I'd be happy. It definetely exists, just more effort.
 

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hehe, funny stories guys

Originally posted by BobbDobbs
HAVE YOU ever lowered your standards for a one night stand??
For a one night stand? I dunno, my standards for that are pretty low already. I do try to stay within the species.

lol. hehehehe.

my response is, a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, right? so that means yes, but not dropping the standards by much. id say one or two points.
 

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LOL, hell ya.
Been there plenty of times. No lie, i have shagged plenty of 3's, 4's and 5's. LOL, hehehehe. Oh boy, kinda funny to even think about it. I dunno about you guys, but a few drinks in the can and maybe a smoke or two, and I would bang pretty much any girl I can get my hands on.
 

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I was holding out for A longest time, passing up MANY opportunities. Looking back, am i sorry i did? Not a bit. I didnt want to do it with THOSE girls. I didnt wanna lower it that much, so i held off.

I did loose my virginity to an ONS, but we became fvckbuddies. She was pretty good looking, especially when im drunk, so i dont regret it either.


One thing most Virgins need to realize that first sex is really more hyped up by YOU. You put so much pressure on finding the perfect girl to make love to.
Remember, after an hour you will be horny again, you will want another gil, so dont miss the chances while you are still good looking.

The world offers many girls so you dont have to lower your standards too much, but you sure can if you want some quick satisfaction.
:)
 

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The chick in question was a 18 year old bisexual, high school drop out!

She is about a 5.5/10 or maybe a 6/10! She gave me her # on Friday night and told come over to her place last night to "have some fun".

In the end I didn't bother to call her back! She really has no redeeming qualities!

When deciding whether I want to **** a chick for a ONS I always ask myself "what would happen if I got her pregnant???"

If I got an ugly/uneducated slut pregnant I would be screwed!!

Thats why from now on i'm only gonna f.uck HOT university chicks, girls who got their lives together!

HOWEVER, if I was loaded drunk and a chick offered to suck my ****, I would DEFINATELY say yes, no matter how ugly she was! :D
 
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