first of all, i want to point out that i am real/sincere. i've never lied about anything. but when it comes to hitting up 18/19 year olds, sometimes they get turned off by my age (late twenties... almost thirty!) & i'm getting tempted to start lying about my age. have any of you guys my age ever been tempted to lie about your age? especially to a HOT 18/19 year old? i mean, i'm not looking for a LTR, just hanging out/having fun. and, generally speaking, 18/19 year olds aren't looking for marraige or LTR's since they want to have fun and aren't like single women in their late twenties/early thirties who are desperate for settling down. if i were to tell a chick i'm like around 23 to 24, we hang out for a month or so, and then depart ways, was there any harm done? any real experiences similar to this post? you feel guilty or it wasn't a big deal?
have you ever lied about your age to a young hottie?
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Guitar_Whizz
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Hey guys, I'm 25 and I have absolutely no problem picking up chicks in the age range 16-19, so age obviously isn't the barrier here. I even went out with a 16 year old for a year. The problem with girls that age is their lack of maturity and their lack of life experience. You are unlikely to have much in common or have good stimulating conversation with a young girl. Also, your emotional needs from a relationship are unlikely to be met by a much younger girl. They're ok for shagging, for a casual relationship/fling, but not for an LTR. In my experience, younger girls want to play the field just as much as we do, and so if she is going out with you and another more interesting guy comes along, she will just cheat on you. They are biatches, they don't give a damn about hurting you. So it can be fun to be with a younger girl but DO NOT get too emotionally attached to her, or you will get hurt. I know this from experience. If you want an LTR, I personally wouldn't date anyone under 25.
WestCoaster
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Never lied, but I did the "don't ask, don't tell" in grad school.
Met a smoking hot Japanese gal, we hit it off pretty well. I realized after a few dates that she was waaaaay to young for me -- I was twice her age, which prompted high fives from my friends.
Anyway, I never asked and she never asked me, though she kind of tried to find out (I look younger than my age). I just never asked and it never took off anyway ... then we went out to dinner once for her birthday, she was turning 20. Yikes! Ended up being a chum, too young ... but it sure boosted my confidence being around her. Previously I had been dating age appropriate (which is usually OK) bitter, divorcees (which is not OK). It was refreshing to go out with someone with a super optimistic attitude ... and a hot body to boot!
Met a smoking hot Japanese gal, we hit it off pretty well. I realized after a few dates that she was waaaaay to young for me -- I was twice her age, which prompted high fives from my friends.
Anyway, I never asked and she never asked me, though she kind of tried to find out (I look younger than my age). I just never asked and it never took off anyway ... then we went out to dinner once for her birthday, she was turning 20. Yikes! Ended up being a chum, too young ... but it sure boosted my confidence being around her. Previously I had been dating age appropriate (which is usually OK) bitter, divorcees (which is not OK). It was refreshing to go out with someone with a super optimistic attitude ... and a hot body to boot!
No I haven't but, if it works I'm willing to give it a try. In one of his books Donald Trump talks about being asked by one of his model friends when he graduated from Wharton business school. He said to her "Next question".
He just didn't want to dwell on it. A guy I know, said that his GF found his licence and checked the age and found out he had lied and then dumped him straight away.
I think they always want to know. The "sophisticated" ones use the when did you graduate trick. I think that if I hear it again I'm going to have trouble not laughing.
He just didn't want to dwell on it. A guy I know, said that his GF found his licence and checked the age and found out he had lied and then dumped him straight away.
I think they always want to know. The "sophisticated" ones use the when did you graduate trick. I think that if I hear it again I'm going to have trouble not laughing.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
No
But I've developed a novel technique for skirting the issue, but it only works if you look young enough that people routinely guess your age 10+ years younger than it is:
I have fun with it. I'll tell her something blatantly ridiculous, such as "55." Then she'll say in a whiny voice: "come on, tell me what it is." Then I'll counter with something equally ridiculous the other way, such as "22."
Then, when she protests again, I'll tell her my real age, and she'll once again say something to the effect of "quit fvcking with me," with a big grin on her face.
Viola, issue skirted!
But I've developed a novel technique for skirting the issue, but it only works if you look young enough that people routinely guess your age 10+ years younger than it is:
I have fun with it. I'll tell her something blatantly ridiculous, such as "55." Then she'll say in a whiny voice: "come on, tell me what it is." Then I'll counter with something equally ridiculous the other way, such as "22."
Then, when she protests again, I'll tell her my real age, and she'll once again say something to the effect of "quit fvcking with me," with a big grin on her face.
Viola, issue skirted!
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Outside of dating someone illegally, if you think that you have to lie about your age to date someone, you may not be mature enough to date anyone that age.
Think about it....
Think about it....
I don't lie to anyone. Matter of fact, I would almost say that I come off as being proud of my age most of the time.
One of my friends who is a year older (we both are mid 30's but look late 20's) gets irritated when I do or say something that alludes to being older than people think I am. To be honest with you, I don't think it has been a hindrance at all. It's like most anything else....people look at YOUR attitude about it to decide how THEY should react, especialy younger women. they look up to you in a way.
One of my friends who is a year older (we both are mid 30's but look late 20's) gets irritated when I do or say something that alludes to being older than people think I am. To be honest with you, I don't think it has been a hindrance at all. It's like most anything else....people look at YOUR attitude about it to decide how THEY should react, especialy younger women. they look up to you in a way.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Yeah, out-and-out lying about one's age is pretty jive. But I never feel obligated to tell anyone my age, either.
If it's that much of an issue to someone that they need to ask, I write them off as a dating prospect straightaway.
Unless someone's carding me for drinking alcohol, I've a perfect right to keep it to myself. But I'd rather not be snappy about it, so I just have fun with their absurd little prejudices.
I think it's absolutely absurd that someone would consider dating an old-looking 39 year-old guy who can't get it up, and would not consider a 40 year-old who's in top shape and looks like he's 30 because he's the one they consider "too old." And I don't want to encourage such attitudes.
I've never been sexually involved with anyone young enough for statutory rape to be an issue, so I've never asked a woman what her age is, unless she said something to the effect that I'm too young for her, and I figured she was probably younger than me (and in all such cases, she was). What's good for the gander is good for the goose.
It has often been an issue. I've had women go to bed with me -- not knowing my age, or having even asked -- than instantly dump me after asking my age. Don't kid yourself by saying it's not an issue. For many it's a big issue. But you don't have to deal with them, as far as dating goes, either. I just effectively LJBF them or tell them they're obviously too young for me as soon as the question comes up.
If it's that much of an issue to someone that they need to ask, I write them off as a dating prospect straightaway.
Unless someone's carding me for drinking alcohol, I've a perfect right to keep it to myself. But I'd rather not be snappy about it, so I just have fun with their absurd little prejudices.
I think it's absolutely absurd that someone would consider dating an old-looking 39 year-old guy who can't get it up, and would not consider a 40 year-old who's in top shape and looks like he's 30 because he's the one they consider "too old." And I don't want to encourage such attitudes.
I've never been sexually involved with anyone young enough for statutory rape to be an issue, so I've never asked a woman what her age is, unless she said something to the effect that I'm too young for her, and I figured she was probably younger than me (and in all such cases, she was). What's good for the gander is good for the goose.
It has often been an issue. I've had women go to bed with me -- not knowing my age, or having even asked -- than instantly dump me after asking my age. Don't kid yourself by saying it's not an issue. For many it's a big issue. But you don't have to deal with them, as far as dating goes, either. I just effectively LJBF them or tell them they're obviously too young for me as soon as the question comes up.
Yea, last night I was asking this chick, "How old is old?" for a guy.
She said "38", so I asked her how she arrived at that number. She said something to the effect of how there was once this 38 yr. old guy who creeped her out or something. That was her only basis for determining if a guy was "old".
Oh yea, and incidentally, last night the girl I've been messing around with told me that SHE lied to ME about HER age!
I asked why she would do such a thing, and she said, "Everyone I know is older so I wanted to seem like I was older too." She initially told me she was 26 when she is actually 25....not much difference there, but I thought it was pretty funny.
I asked why she would do such a thing, and she said, "Everyone I know is older so I wanted to seem like I was older too." She initially told me she was 26 when she is actually 25....not much difference there, but I thought it was pretty funny.
No a problem in foreign countries but if you're 25 and going out with a 16 year old and have sex with her isn't that statutory rape in most states?
In America, most girls don't look for or are interested in guys 10-20 years older than themselves. If you're 40-43 and you find a 23-25 year old who's interested in you, wow, that's super rare. I'm 34 and 20 year olds look at me like i'm their dad. It's sick. In Brazil where I spend my vacation, I can date anyone I want over 18. Not a problem.
But in the U.S., it sucks. I am not attracted to older women or women my age.
In America, most girls don't look for or are interested in guys 10-20 years older than themselves. If you're 40-43 and you find a 23-25 year old who's interested in you, wow, that's super rare. I'm 34 and 20 year olds look at me like i'm their dad. It's sick. In Brazil where I spend my vacation, I can date anyone I want over 18. Not a problem.
But in the U.S., it sucks. I am not attracted to older women or women my age.
CGE333
Senior Don Juan
I turn it into a game and have them guess. For example when I was 33 and going out with a 22yr old. She asked, I told her to guess and she said 25, I said that was a pretty good guess and left it at that. Well hell, 25 was a better guess than 15 or 55 or 105. I ended dating her for 6 months and never let on any different. If I think there could be something long tern I would be straight up, if it is just a fling, who has to know?
