I've lurked this forum for quite some time and from what I've read It seems that a Don Juan not is only a master seducer but also a man who controls himself in various social situations.
This guy I've known since freshman year in high-school came off as really friendly, he projected a vibe as being very trustworthy, even his friends seemed to validate this by their actions and the way they acted towards him, but his actions up till now have proven otherwise.
A couple months into freshman year we were chilling in class and i let him borrow an art magazine, i asked for it twice and he gave me believable excuses, only for me to see it torn up decorating his folder while we were walking home.
We're a couple of years out of high-school, we start hanging out with mutual friends at parties. At a certain point he insisted on criticizing the way i dress..it didn't really bother me, but it felt like he was trying to take a couple of jabs at my self confidence...
a couple of months later i pick him up to smoke some weed with me and couple of other friends. Me and another buddy supplied the weed. While we were smoking he got the ash and it was my turn to put in on weed, i'm way too stoned at this point so i just give him the prescription bottle full of weed and tell him to pack it...he empties half of the bottle, breaks it down and packs bowl after bowl with my stash...I just observe him..
a few days before i broke up with my ex he starts liking her pictures. We break up and a couple weeks later he's commenting on her posts...I know i'm not just being paranoid, but I have a strong gut feeling they're talking.
I stopped speaking to my ex two weeks ago (we've been broken up for almost two months). I won't lie to you guys i still like her, the break up was mutual and it wouldn't bother me if she moved on with another person, but this guys behavior feels disrespectful, almost spiteful. How do I deal with this guy without being violent?
This guy I've known since freshman year in high-school came off as really friendly, he projected a vibe as being very trustworthy, even his friends seemed to validate this by their actions and the way they acted towards him, but his actions up till now have proven otherwise.
A couple months into freshman year we were chilling in class and i let him borrow an art magazine, i asked for it twice and he gave me believable excuses, only for me to see it torn up decorating his folder while we were walking home.
We're a couple of years out of high-school, we start hanging out with mutual friends at parties. At a certain point he insisted on criticizing the way i dress..it didn't really bother me, but it felt like he was trying to take a couple of jabs at my self confidence...
a couple of months later i pick him up to smoke some weed with me and couple of other friends. Me and another buddy supplied the weed. While we were smoking he got the ash and it was my turn to put in on weed, i'm way too stoned at this point so i just give him the prescription bottle full of weed and tell him to pack it...he empties half of the bottle, breaks it down and packs bowl after bowl with my stash...I just observe him..
a few days before i broke up with my ex he starts liking her pictures. We break up and a couple weeks later he's commenting on her posts...I know i'm not just being paranoid, but I have a strong gut feeling they're talking.
I stopped speaking to my ex two weeks ago (we've been broken up for almost two months). I won't lie to you guys i still like her, the break up was mutual and it wouldn't bother me if she moved on with another person, but this guys behavior feels disrespectful, almost spiteful. How do I deal with this guy without being violent?
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