Vent, Bytch, Moan, and Whine to men, yet not hear any criticism whatsoever?
It's as if they want a priest or psychologist who will listen, but remain practically silent, providing no comments or advice, walk away, then resume fvcking.
Sometimes I think Estrogen is a curse to women. It's as if they have this "thing" inside them, it bugs them, it requires them to take actions to DEFUSE themselves of built up pressure, but requires no feedback or correction. It seems quite similar to a Reactor building pressure as natural byproduct of its function, getting rid of it via diffusion/pressure release, and going about its business until it builds pressure once again.
Oh ho ho! And lest you TRY to offer advice or not appear to listen? You'd be better of having a Nuclear reactor actually melting down nearby, than dealing with any woman so stuck on petty squabbles.
But this isn't just any woman, it's all women. Perhaps age is the delineating marker, and as women progress, this isn't the issue it once was, but it is a practically INTOLERABLE consequence of dating women. She won't spring it on you up front, as she will call it her "craziness" and fully expect a man to APRPECIATE it and want it. And some men can tolerate it b/c she's hot, or she's cute, or she apologizes and actually appreciates the man's listening qualities.
My boss/mentor/partner has told me (he's double my age with a trophy wife), that it never subsides and to prepare for such things. He feels he wins (if there is such a thing) because he KNOWS this about her and he is logical, collected, and man enough to control it. Alot of guys will fight through it, because it burns the male Ego, and a man's natural inclination is to put out any and all fires. However, this is something that cannot be done, and because a woman's harddrive really can't INSTALL or GRASP logic or emotionally control, it's a futile conversation.
Over time, even if she conceded that she was out of line, crazy, or emotional, and needed to calm down, she WILL snap back. It becomes a constant process of management, to which most men resolve themselves to just living through it. I'm sure all women have their various nuances and picadillos that make them unique, and you just to go "Huh?
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But perhaps that's WHY men exist. It's almost the complete polar opposite from men. A man is balanced can be philosophical and logical with the ability to see further ahead so that he can temper himself. Generally, if his being is intact and is not feminized, then he can remain grounded and impart this collectedness onto her, also.
On occasion, it can be fun and cute. It can be attractive, depending on what has them worked up, but it is also entirely nuts at times. Then again, we're not women, and we don't live their life, nor see it through their eyes, so we can't ever know. It's just a perplexing vantage point because I see it in all the women around me and hear it from the old bucks out there. Even guys dating models or celebs encounter as MUCH if not more bs b/c these are women who can GET away with such behavior knowing another man would readily suckle her **** at the asking. Those lucky guys though, make the women replaceable.
I know men want to easily discard such behavior as irrational, but in all my experiences women follow this model, and the only solution is for a man to find a woman who RECOGNIZES this and will appreciate the man who has the temperament to endure such behavior. Trying to "shut her down" will only result in her happiness and the fact that she will lose interest in you. It shouldn't be the MAIN reason for interest in you, and ideally, you want her riding your cack while she cries about the world, but it's the same/opposite as how men end up holding it all in.
A-Unit
It's as if they want a priest or psychologist who will listen, but remain practically silent, providing no comments or advice, walk away, then resume fvcking.
Sometimes I think Estrogen is a curse to women. It's as if they have this "thing" inside them, it bugs them, it requires them to take actions to DEFUSE themselves of built up pressure, but requires no feedback or correction. It seems quite similar to a Reactor building pressure as natural byproduct of its function, getting rid of it via diffusion/pressure release, and going about its business until it builds pressure once again.
Oh ho ho! And lest you TRY to offer advice or not appear to listen? You'd be better of having a Nuclear reactor actually melting down nearby, than dealing with any woman so stuck on petty squabbles.
But this isn't just any woman, it's all women. Perhaps age is the delineating marker, and as women progress, this isn't the issue it once was, but it is a practically INTOLERABLE consequence of dating women. She won't spring it on you up front, as she will call it her "craziness" and fully expect a man to APRPECIATE it and want it. And some men can tolerate it b/c she's hot, or she's cute, or she apologizes and actually appreciates the man's listening qualities.
My boss/mentor/partner has told me (he's double my age with a trophy wife), that it never subsides and to prepare for such things. He feels he wins (if there is such a thing) because he KNOWS this about her and he is logical, collected, and man enough to control it. Alot of guys will fight through it, because it burns the male Ego, and a man's natural inclination is to put out any and all fires. However, this is something that cannot be done, and because a woman's harddrive really can't INSTALL or GRASP logic or emotionally control, it's a futile conversation.
Over time, even if she conceded that she was out of line, crazy, or emotional, and needed to calm down, she WILL snap back. It becomes a constant process of management, to which most men resolve themselves to just living through it. I'm sure all women have their various nuances and picadillos that make them unique, and you just to go "Huh?
"But perhaps that's WHY men exist. It's almost the complete polar opposite from men. A man is balanced can be philosophical and logical with the ability to see further ahead so that he can temper himself. Generally, if his being is intact and is not feminized, then he can remain grounded and impart this collectedness onto her, also.
On occasion, it can be fun and cute. It can be attractive, depending on what has them worked up, but it is also entirely nuts at times. Then again, we're not women, and we don't live their life, nor see it through their eyes, so we can't ever know. It's just a perplexing vantage point because I see it in all the women around me and hear it from the old bucks out there. Even guys dating models or celebs encounter as MUCH if not more bs b/c these are women who can GET away with such behavior knowing another man would readily suckle her **** at the asking. Those lucky guys though, make the women replaceable.
I know men want to easily discard such behavior as irrational, but in all my experiences women follow this model, and the only solution is for a man to find a woman who RECOGNIZES this and will appreciate the man who has the temperament to endure such behavior. Trying to "shut her down" will only result in her happiness and the fact that she will lose interest in you. It shouldn't be the MAIN reason for interest in you, and ideally, you want her riding your cack while she cries about the world, but it's the same/opposite as how men end up holding it all in.
A-Unit
